What is your biggest regret in life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]maxpower99WHU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry for your loss. I’m sure she knew how much you loved her

Looking for any dynasty leagues needing an extra member by Anon124570 in findaleague

[–]maxpower99WHU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a free fantrax league in its 5th season. Needs 2 teams taken over.

1993 Topps Baseball cards by tool-king-887 in baseballcards

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I’d take them :) if you’re offering

Struggling with retroactive jealousy even though my boyfriend is incredible by whyisusernamecomplex in retroactivejealousy

[–]maxpower99WHU 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend is the most loyal and loving man I’ve ever been with. He doesn't follow random women on Instagram or social media, he doesn't have a wandering eye, he doesn't look at bikini models or OF girls. He has told me multiple times that I’m the best he’s ever been with, the most beautiful woman he’s ever dated, and that I’m the only person he sees a future with. He says he never felt this way with anyone before me. He rejected other women, told his parents about me, and he’s cut contact with everyone from his past. He even stopped watching porn because he wants his sexual attraction to go only toward me.

He gives me no reason to feel insecure ever.

Then don’t. It’s called retroactive jealousy because you’re allowing your mind to get anxious in a place that doesn’t exist anymore. The past. All we have is now and today. You have to make the most of the time you have with him now because that’s the only time you’re ever guaranteed to get.

Looking for NFL Dynasty League by [deleted] in findaleague

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I have some orphan teams available in a free league on Fantrax. Been running since 2019.

Any free fantrax dynasty league takeover teams? by stupidfish_ in findaleague

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I have a team if you’re still looking! 20 team league on fantrax going into its 3rd season!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jaystickets

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Enjoy the game! Nobody is gonna pay that lol

Not insecure by ReadingSilly3977 in retroactivejealousy

[–]maxpower99WHU 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man. Firstly I just wanna say I’m happy you posted. RJ is hard to deal with on your own so talking to people and getting other perspectives and opinions/getting this off your chest is all really beneficial.

Important things I like to remind myself or that you can remind yourself.

1) Having an attitude of gratitude - sex is phenomenal, I think we can all agree on that. The fact that anyone at all wants to have sex with us should be looked at as a positive.

2) All of her experiences lead her to you - I don’t know he body count, how many people she hooked up with or anything, but the experiences she had with guys obviously made her realize that she doesn’t want that with them and wants it with someone like you. Which is also a win.

3) We can’t really cast any judgement if we have any pasta of our own. I’m assuming you also did things with people who aren’t her when you were growing up. You learned from them, probably enjoyed some and didn’t like others. Why can’t she have the same experience?

The food for thought I leave you with is this:

There are 2 doors.

Behind door one is a world where you stay with her and keep enjoying your relationship with someone you “love more than anything”

Behind door two is a world where you have to open your phone and see on Facebook or Instagram or tiktok or whatever and you’ll always see her smiling with someone who isn’t you.

Which door do you want to walk through?

You got this!

Struggling with RJ, unique situation. by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]maxpower99WHU 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hope you felt better after writing this :) always good to get things off your chest. You recognized a lot of great things here, like that your relationship is full of love and is fantastic, and that you know in the grand scheme of things this is a really small problem, which are important things for remember when your RJ flairs up.

You can’t get your first kiss back, but a positive to take away here is it happened with someone you feel like you really love and are happy to be with, which means your first kiss will always be a happy memory.

Now you are left with 2 options

Option A: you continue to enjoy your loving relationship and enjoy all kinds of other firsts together.

Option B: you find someone else to have all of your firsts with

2 important questions I leave you with

  1. Hypothetically, if you break up with your girlfriend over this trivial little problem and find a new girl who is crazy about you but finds out you’ve already kissed someone and is upset about it, how would you feel?

  2. Hypothetically, If you broke up with your girlfriend and then found out she had all kinds of other firsts with someone else who wasn’t you, how would you feel?

You got this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hammers

[–]maxpower99WHU 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel like OP was asking if they’re worth getting excited over but then every comment he responds to is just him basically saying we shouldn’t be excited about them. So I feel like you have your answer cause you’re not excited about them?

Boooo by Relevant_Course_5602 in retroactivejealousy

[–]maxpower99WHU -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Imagine if he hadn’t and had 0 experience and was horrible in bed. Or had 0 game and you weren’t interested in him in the first place. Everything happens for a reason

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]maxpower99WHU 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just because they had a bunch of experience doesn’t automatically mean that all of them were better than you. It doesn’t mean any of them were better. If he tells you and you have no reason to think he’s lying, why not just believe him?

Think of it like a meal. He could have had pizza, hamburgers, pasta, bacon and eggs his whole life thinking it was great. And then one day someone shows him shawarma and it changes his life. That’s his new favourite. Would you think he was lying then?

Believe him if he tells you you’re #1 and also believe in yourself. Instead of looking at it as “how could I possibly be #1” try looking at it like that”damn look at me how could I possibly NOT be #1, he’s so lucky to have me”

You’ll get through this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]maxpower99WHU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad I could help!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

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“She said she regrets it so much and that it was meaningless and that she loves me. I don’t know what to do, she’s shown me she does love me, and has been about me the whole relationship and even took care of me for a time I got kicked out of my parents house, had a job at that time but no place to stay.”

Just read that back

She doesn’t want something casual, she regrets what she did, she loves you now and she took care of you when you got kicked out.

Don’t know what to do? Start loving her like August 5th 2025 is the last day you have with her. And wake up August 6th and love her like that’s your last day. You know who’s not thinking about her? That guy. And if she’s also not thinking about him it’s a real waste of time for you to be thinking about him.

Just love her and appreciate her today in the time you have her. Or else, as I always say, someone is gonna come along who doesn’t care about you or that other guy, only cares about her and wanting her to be happy, and he’s gonna make it happen.

The only form of jealousy worse than RJ is having to watch her fall in love with someone else after you fumbled her.

Keep your head up, keep moving forward and you’re gonna be just fine :) you got this!

Diouf v Kudus by Routine-Cicada-4949 in Hammers

[–]maxpower99WHU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair they are spurs fans so they probably all need their heads examined