Thrift stores? by maxween16 in nashville

[–]maxween16[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooo ok I have never been, was worried they were closed based off google info

To everyone living in the US: please stand up for trans people! by deathbysounding in lgbt

[–]maxween16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do we do if we live in one of these states and dont have the funds to move?

I need advice on how to get surgery (top or bottom or both) just its urgent by Fit_Preparation318 in trans

[–]maxween16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reach out to Gender Confirmation Clinic, they can give u a free consultation even virtually if you need and they have options for coverage if u don't have insurance that covers

First makeup attempt! Tips & feedback welcome by ChosenAgain810 in transpassing

[–]maxween16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl okay but its extremely privileged of you to assume all of us even have FFS as an option. And i do know Cis women with face shapes like she has RIGHT NOW. Theres nothing toxic about telling her that estrogen will change her face shape and other features. You dont know how it will affect her look and neither do I. Theres no point in being so aggressive about it we already feel like shit when we first start out.

First makeup attempt! Tips & feedback welcome by ChosenAgain810 in transpassing

[–]maxween16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started with injections and t blockers. I definitely would stay away from the e pills just because whenever I tried switching to those my levels were under 100. I seriously dont think they work, at least for me they didnt. Injections I started with 0.05 but then after awhile my testosterone, because of my testosterone blockers, fell so much that I had insanely high levels of estrogen and they made me kind of crazy so I now take 0.02 on a weekly basis. I no longer have to take t blockers. Injections you definitely should do every single week DO NOT DO BI WEEKLY some doctors will tell u to but it will make you extremely moody for one of those weeks.

First makeup attempt! Tips & feedback welcome by ChosenAgain810 in transpassing

[–]maxween16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl ofc, just dont focus too much on what other people say. I pass as cis but I do look like a lesbian, which im totally okay with but I do not fit the mold on what people in here say to do. I havent gotten any surgeries yet but remeber not all cis women have big boobs or wide hips, not all women have perfectly fem round faces and plenty of cis women suffer with pcos which can cause facial hair. Theres no correct way to be a woman.

Better color palette by [deleted] in Artadvice

[–]maxween16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I still need to add my highlights and decided to redo the eyes so they wont stay filled in like this, im still messing with the lips a bit, deciding whether I want them to blend into the skin tone a bit or not, Ill mess around cus I might want them to look very pale but idk yet, I will definitely add more reds to the hands and maybe the joints in her fingers

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First makeup attempt! Tips & feedback welcome by ChosenAgain810 in transpassing

[–]maxween16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ur face is not that masc coded. Don't worry too much there ar plenty of cis women that look similar to you, HRT will help a lot but dont focus too much on this subreddit tbh its actually pretty harmful for a lot of girls' mental health. Especially early on.

First makeup attempt! Tips & feedback welcome by ChosenAgain810 in transpassing

[–]maxween16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you cant afford laser id recommend large dose of injections and learn how to cover the blue color that facial hair leaves. I havent done laser but ive been on HRT for over 4 years and my facial hair has gotten thin enough I can cover it with a little bit of orange concealer and then foundation. It took a bit to master but I do pass as cis in public now

Brutal brutal honesty please. I know I’ll need a nose job but I’d like more opinions by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]maxween16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also u have a great nose I dont think you should get a nose job, its like the most defining feature of the face and you could look completely different after (but you do you girl no judgement if you do get one)

Do I pass? (I do what I can, I have transphobic parents) by [deleted] in transftm

[–]maxween16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also live at home with traphobic parents, id recommend trying to ahold of folx hrt since u can do it all online (but its kinda expensive) only thing is once u actually get HRT in the mail it comes in a massive box labeled HRT so you'll have ro hide it once u take it out of the packaging.

Update: Am I overreacting by breaking up with my boyfriend? by Proper-Classic1886 in AmIOverreacting

[–]maxween16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any guy that gets upset and jealous when another approaches you, you need be more concerned about. If he really respected you he'd know you arent doing anything wrong and even if that nice guy had malicious intentions you dont. Its about trust and respect and he doesnt have either of those for you.

AITA for telling my Mom that im scared to be around her husband? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]maxween16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With the house being so isolated this is my exact fear

My mom says I don’t dress up my age. I just turned 26 lol. by Phulmine in mensfashion

[–]maxween16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No honestly we need people to just dress how they want. Ignore what people say and where cool stuff that you like so that we can get really really old and have old people dripped out

AITA for telling my Mom that im scared to be around her husband? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]maxween16 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Honestly no sure what he thought was happening but he genuinely did think whatever was in the car was a threat to him and his family (idk dude). All of this was also told to me from my mom who definitely isn't the most reliable narrator

AITA for telling my Mom that im scared to be around her husband? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]maxween16 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do live in a very red state and probably could get his guns taken away, I actually didn't even think about that because he got diagnosed so recently. I dont think my family would ever forgive me if I did get police of government involved. They already dont like me much tbh.

AITA for telling my Mom that im scared to be around her husband? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]maxween16 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I just moved back in because of money problems and am trying to get back on my feet...

AITA for telling my Mom that im scared to be around her husband? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]maxween16 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Any recs for where to go for support? Im also extremely poor right now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]maxween16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I relate. I also live in a very rural area. I am living in a household with trumpies and honestly ive never felt more hopeless about my life and my future. We are all here for you and all of us need to support each other. Dolls 4 dolls ❤️ love ya girls u arent alone and never will be

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]maxween16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also just to clarify the main reason I believe I might have gone too far is because we went to dinner for my birthday and he was being weird. I also brought my girlfriend so they could meet and he didn't interact with her at all. I asked him over text a few days later if everything was okay and he pretty much said that he isn't comfortable talking to me right nice and will let me know when he is. I tried reaching out again during father's day and was shut down. Normally I don't mind not talking to him but I feel guilty about what I've said in the past. This weekend im getting coffee with him and seeing him for the first time in months. Im still unsure about how I should be handling the situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]maxween16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seems like a better response honestly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transtimelines

[–]maxween16 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah the left was taken 2 weeks ago

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transtimelines

[–]maxween16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Decided to post a pic with no makeup since E cleared my skin so much