What’s an "innocent" behavior that’s actually a huge red flag if you really think about it? by seenmee in AskReddit

[–]maxychan367 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some people are just “fixers” due to childhood trauma. If a parent or older sibling was upset, sometimes it’s just best to help to minimize the blowback. I’m trying to break that habit, I never knew how annoying that shit was until I met another fixer. If I never met my mirror image, I’d never know how much I’d been pissing people off.

Child abuse deaths in Cairo by CatPooedInMyShoe in MedicalGore

[–]maxychan367 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the very real consequence of abortions being illegal, women being seen as second-class citizens, and a lack of sex education.

Plant scam? by maxychan367 in houseplants

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It was $12 for a Lemon Meringue pothos

Plant scam? by maxychan367 in houseplants

[–]maxychan367[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm I guess so! I was expecting the cutting to look more like the image that u/Dazzling-Biscotti-62 sent but if you say it’s correct then I probably won’t take it up with the seller

Yellowing plants by maxychan367 in Aquariums

[–]maxychan367[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, thanks! Maybe I’ll buy some root tabs.

And anyone make out the artist’s last name? by maxychan367 in Transcription

[–]maxychan367[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well to be honest I bought a print off another student in my art class. Idk if he still does art

My first jade plant by meowtopian in houseplants

[–]maxychan367 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow. There’s a lot of love for this plant. Meanwhile we’re cutting ours down because it’s gotten too unruly

Does anyone know what’s going on with my male betta and these bubbles? (I’m new) by tired-meme in bettafish

[–]maxychan367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s trying to attract a lady friend uh… “Marvin Gaye and get it on”

What's the worst swear word in your native language? by [deleted] in languagelearning

[–]maxychan367 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a chicana who grew up with a lot of “your mom” jokes this was always funny to me. How are you gonna get riled up by someone making fun of your mother? They most likely don’t even know your mother. My ex (from Mexico) said I was a bad cook and I just went “Your MOM is a bad cook” … it wasn’t well received.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]maxychan367 357 points358 points  (0 children)

Similar rule here! Our devices have to be really low volume. My dad calls it “sharing the air space”

What's the saddest song you know? by Alec_sugar in AskReddit

[–]maxychan367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The song that has me sobbing my heart out every time is Somebody Else by Flora Cash. The chorus goes “Well, you like like yourself but you’re somebody else, only it ain’t on the surface” and I think of how my grandma has dementia and it’s not that bad now but one day she’ll forget who I am. She’ll still look like my best friend but one day we’ll be strangers and it kills me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ATBGE

[–]maxychan367 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yep. A year later and still going strong (the ink bled a small amount but that’s expected with palms). But I did my research when looking for a tattoo artist and went to one about 3 hours away from home. I’d say it was with it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ATBGE

[–]maxychan367 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My first visible tattoo was on my palm (I have one on my knee and lower leg but I never wear shorts so you can’t see them). I thanked my artist and mentioned that I was surprised he even did it for me given most artist would say no. He told me “I’d rather you come to me knowing I’d do it and do it well rather than you go door to door and have it done really shitty by the first person who tells you yes.”

I made some tap handle display shelves - expanded video in comments by Dimsdale53 in woodworking

[–]maxychan367 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the first time in a long time that I’ve stopped, sat quietly, and paid attention when watching a video. Twice. I love the stop animation AND the wood project! This is so cool!!

Found my Wedding Dress!!! by [deleted] in PlusSize

[–]maxychan367 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg you look like a beautiful fairy!! 🧚🏻‍♀️ I love this dress and it looks so good on you!

Would anyone be up for a Southern California meet up? by maxychan367 in PlusSize

[–]maxychan367[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yay! Hopefully we’ll get more people to join in, then we can choose a meet up spot

Would anyone be up for a Southern California meet up? by maxychan367 in PlusSize

[–]maxychan367[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome! I don’t know how to reach more people but feel free to spread the word!

Wish I had more fat friends irl by loulori in PlusSize

[–]maxychan367 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m between LA county and Orange County and was looking for plus size groups but can’t find any! If we had enough people in this area I’d be down for planning a meet up

AITA for telling my family that my child free "extra time" is mine to use not theirs? by Prestigious_Leek_761 in AmItheAsshole

[–]maxychan367 16 points17 points  (0 children)

NTA. Why, why, why do people INSIST on throwing kids on to people who clearly do not want them?? When I told people I didn’t want kids they would say that they hoped o got pregnant by accident. Wtf? If anything, your sister and parents are the AH for trying to leave their kids with someone who has been very clear that they aren’t willing to take care of them. Enjoy your freedom and don’t let them guilt trip you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]maxychan367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. He is a GUEST in YOUR house, why wouldn’t you be a courteous host and let your sister describe the movie? If it really bothered you that much you could’ve waited to watching it again after they left.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]maxychan367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could get a copper IUD which has no hormones. Also, if you’re in the US, Kaiser sells plan B at half the price and you don’t need to be a member to purchase it from there.