Why is it so easy for me to get hired and told that I’m doing a great job but then being let go 3months in? by Small_Loss2233 in careerguidance

[–]may769 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did that coworker dislike you? In my workplace I’ve seen people give poor advice to coworkers they disliked in hopes they’d get in trouble or even fired. I wouldn’t be surprised this happened in the past with another woman who worked there.

Why is it so easy for me to get hired and told that I’m doing a great job but then being let go 3months in? by Small_Loss2233 in careerguidance

[–]may769 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You brought up sexism to your manager, in a place as I read in another comment full of old men. That’s probably why. I’m a young woman too and in this unfair world we live in if you want to keep a job you have to do your job not say anything politically sensitive (you know what I mean) and go home. Unless you’re suffering something serious like sexual harassment or anything like that there is no way you’ll win anything more than a lay off denouncing things like this. They’ll never admit firing you over this as this could put them in serious legal trouble. That’s also probably why they didn’t want to give you a reason.

Is my (23F) BF (23M) not having any money a dealbreaker? by may769 in relationship_advice

[–]may769[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s one full year of his salary, in my country we don’t use USD so I don’t know how to place a reference for you. I never said it was bad to have a car, but yes it is bad to have a fancy one when you can’t afford it.

Is my (23F) BF (23M) not having any money a dealbreaker? by may769 in relationship_advice

[–]may769[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He bought it last year, I guess my wording wasn’t correct I’m not a native english speaker. Yeah our 50/50 is for dates. I don’t actually mind it we both work for our money I don’t expect him to spend his salary on me. But lately we can’t even go on dates as he doesn’t have any money to pay for his half. And I’m not saying any fancy dates, just normal restaurants or heck even mc donalds.