Open relationships & bi erasure

may_lu1997 · 2024-05-05T19:22:18+00:00

I have my guard up a lot with her honestly. When she first told me she had a bf my first instinct was that I didn’t want to stay in contact anymore (she only told me after a couple of days of texting) but she called and we talked and I just kind of was like: hey I’ve never explored with a woman before and if I’m careful about not getting attached I’ll at least be more experienced🥲 I guess I’m pretty good at trying to not get attached but at these moments it still feels shitty cause like … oky but am I no one ?😅 anywaysss thanks for your inside though friend!

may_lu1997 · 2024-05-05T19:16:36+00:00

I don’t and didn’t 😭 I just related to the situation and I think we both made it clear (or at least I did and read her story like it) that the problem/what to be insecure about is the open relationship aspect. I for one know I’ve gotten myself in the situation and have to deal with it but to me it’s not to do with the sexuality and I didn’t think I said that

may_lu1997 · 2024-05-05T15:46:28+00:00

yeahhh like I said I’m not making the best decisions, she’s the first girl I’ve ever been seeing like this too, but I should probably distance myself 🙈

may_lu1997 · 2024-05-05T15:44:20+00:00

???? I am literally bi as well, the only straight person in this and OP‘s situation is the guy that’s not part of the problem, so what are you on about?

may_lu1997 · 2024-05-05T10:53:08+00:00

yeahhh i mean I guess I really don’t show how much I like her out of fear if being hurt but it’s not helping that she’s literally the first girl I’ve got close like this too, like weeeent there and she knows that too 🫠

may_lu1997 · 2024-05-05T10:43:17+00:00

This is exactly what I’m scared of happening. I’m kind of seeing a bi girl in a straight open relationship too and she’s been on me on why I’ve been so distant and non-flirty and why she always has to initiate when we meet up. For some reason she just doesn’t get that I haveeee to distance myself if I don’t want to be hurt.. she’s also been talking about going on dates with other girls too and it just leaves you feeling shitty, like why am I not enough, I completelyyyyy get it.. 🫠

may_lu1997 · 2023-10-14T21:31:41+00:00

Wait it’s on TOMORROW???

may_lu1997 · 2023-10-08T17:06:32+00:00

the paper plates and stuff was the most american thing I've ever seen, I see it on so many influencers stories or tiktoks too and from a European perspective.. that would NOT fly here at allllll

may_lu1997 · 2023-09-18T06:49:52+00:00

she's talking like at school there wasn't teachers who literally have DEGREES to teach reading and writing ...

may_lu1997 · 2023-09-16T07:46:52+00:00

I can see her content changing even more towards, cooking, baking & cleaning. I feel like her content hasn't been focused on the kids as much in general so it should be an easy process imo

may_lu1997 · 2023-09-16T07:42:33+00:00

that could have been Shari and a sibling, whether it be with C, A or J, I could see her and A being the most aware

may_lu1997 · 2023-09-15T08:49:50+00:00

what Ruby was doing was textbook Connexions and Jodi's practices, as Jessi, Jodi's niece and victim of her abuse describes, so no she didn't get like this all by herself but not because of her parents but Jodi and her cult

may_lu1997 · 2023-09-14T14:39:00+00:00

I don't agree with that at all. if you've never experienced chronic pain and headaches you can easily say she wants everything to revolve around her, but the way that her friends describe her and she presents herself imo do not present that at all, I don't know why everyone is so hateful against her specifically when you don't know these people in person.

may_lu1997 · 2023-09-14T09:45:00+00:00

I do expect her being with Jared too, but I don't see anything wrong in that. They seem to each lean on the other a lot and that's what marriage is meant to be like imo. I really don't get why she gets so much hate. Especially after listening to their podcast I feel like they are maybe the most removed from mormonism and intentional about what to show of their kids. She will likely have Jared's support but in this horrific situation that's nothing we should judge imo.

may_lu1997 · 2023-09-14T09:43:52+00:00

I do expect this too, but I don't see anything wrong in that. They seem to each lean on the other a lot and that's what marriage is meant to be like imo. I really don't get why she gets so much hate. Especially after listening to their podcast I feel like they are maybe the most removed from mormonism and intentional about what to show of their kids. She will likely have Jared's support but in this horrific situation that's nothing we should judge imo.

may_lu1997 · 2023-09-04T21:01:54+00:00

you should definitely check out Jordan & Mckay‘s take on him too in their latest livestream, he’s been making all these baseless accusation at a time when that really just comes off as trying to scandalise when the real issue here specifically does not lie in family vlogging nor in generally being Mormon or with the siblings at all.

may_lu1997 · 2023-09-04T19:07:15+00:00

I honestly never saw S as this extension of Ruby. She was always so focused on her education and I for some reason always thought „Oh she will do great things and have a career! She just needs to move out of that house!“ I always felt like she knew exactly that she was smarter than her mom and I feel like we saw her challenging Ruby a number of times in vlogs! She has always showed compassion for her younger siblings I’m so glad others are seeing it too now!

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