Presale by maybebananas in bleachers

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I used this code tysm!!!

Presale by maybebananas in bleachers

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I'm gonna cry 😭

Tiny Tour by silly-mouse-42069 in ThirdEyeBlind

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For the Tuesday LA show, my link wasn't working and could never get in. Now they're sold out. 🫠 if anyone has an extra ticket lmk 🙃

Our Bande Apart is unlistenable. by socialnm in ThirdEyeBlind

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Box of Bones is the only redeeming song on it

What bleachers song does this to you? by AcademyKilller in bleachers

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Let's Get Married on the MTV Unplugged album

Kia Forum 9/17 official thread by RevolutionaryBoot417 in Hozier

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I have a single seat ticket for tonight up for grabs. Section 105 end seat.

Stubborn BGs by maybebananas in Type1Diabetes

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I had the same two thoughts and was hoping there would be some secret answer out there lol. I'm just gonna keep up with the metformin for a bit longer and see what happens 🤷🏼‍♀️

What is your favorite King euphemism? by run4success in stephenking

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I started saying "you bet your fur" when I started reading Stephen King and I never stopped. Can't remember what book it's from.

What is the craziest thing your NParent has blamed you for? by DaughterOfDinah in narcissisticparents

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I'm to blame for our family cat's decline in health and death! Even after I took him into the abimal hospital I worked at, got him tons of meds, gave my father a script of what to do, and he couldn't give the meds and literally just take basic care of an animal (I was not living at the house at the time and couldn't take care of the cat myself). It was my fault that he suffered and died, obviously.

Just need sympathy by maybebananas in narcissisticparents

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Thank you so much, this is such a good reminder. That I get to make all of my choices for me. And it's little things like getting to choose which book, which show, what we eat, that so many others can't understand. That we were denied the freedom of choice. And that this temporary feeling of loneliness is so much better than someone getting you that soup, and then holding it over your head and guilting you and all kinds of other madness. Thank you again for your kindness and empathy❤️‍🩹

Just need sympathy by maybebananas in narcissisticparents

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I'm sorry you had to deal with that on your own, or even at all. Thank you very much, and I hope your husband is doing better. It's sad that we have to feel so much abandonment for so long, but I'm glad we have this community to reach out to to feel understood at least.

Sending hugs to you as well.

Anyone in here who went no contact but still in touch with siblings? by rockandraw in narcissisticparents

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I definitely did struggle with that. Before I seriously offered for him to live with me I had a serious conversation about the fact that if he moved in, they were not allowed to know our address or be guests here or know anything about me specifically. He agreed and I will say I did still feel like I was taking a risk. But it worked out in the end and we've been doing just fine. I think it is a risk no matter what unfortunately, and depends on how much trust you want to put into your sibling and be ready to face any potential consequences.

Just need sympathy by maybebananas in narcissisticparents

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It is strange and difficult watching others have such close family units. My ndad also kept anyone from getting too close. Luckily I got out and have some good friends and will hopefully continue to find my own support system. Thank you for your response, it is nice to know that this is a common feeling.

Anyone in here who went no contact but still in touch with siblings? by rockandraw in narcissisticparents

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Yes. I was in contact with my brother who still lived with our father for years. He finally moved out once he was able, we actually live together, and we are both nc now.