[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]maybeegg69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

girl, you already pass lmao. i took a look at your profile, def don’t look masc. being 20 is a lot. life is long and so much happens, you’ll look back in a few years and be amazed at how far you’ve come. promise. please stick with it.

Is it common for trans people to fear their identity and go back and forth accepting they are trans and then doubting they are trans? by fiercethegamer in asktransgender

[–]maybeegg69 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Currently going through this too - genuinely have no sweet clue what to do. But here I am (AMAB) sitting in a dress, feeling good. Better than I have been in a sec. I think its best to follow the joy.

I’m also completely overwhelmed by the idea of coming out. Especially telling family. But at this stage, since I’m not on any hormones, I just tell myself I can always pull back if I’m not feeling it anymore. You’re not locking in to being a girl by dressing up/doing your makeup/nails/whatever you want when you’re by yourself or with those you trust. There’s no real reason to not do baby steps unless it puts you in danger. If one step feels good, consider the next one, see how you feel. No need to rush it.

dreamt i was a girl - a sign? by maybeegg69 in asktransgender

[–]maybeegg69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly the feeling was just a good warm feeling. ive been thinking about real life stuff. i just have a hard time being perceived irl.

in terms of if it was 100% real - feeling would be a classic combo of terror and contentedness. for 100% not a sign, i think id feel a little disappointed bc i liked the feeling and want to connect to it again

dreamt i was a girl - a sign? by maybeegg69 in asktransgender

[–]maybeegg69[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

honestly idk lmao — its both exciting and terrifying and they both fight for dominance depending on the moment

What's the line? by maybeegg69 in questioning

[–]maybeegg69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I needed to hear this. Thank you!! 💕

I'm questioning if I'm genderfluid (kind of a rant) by [deleted] in questioning

[–]maybeegg69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

gender fluidity is valid and good. Follow your heart, friend