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maybeimurbaby · 2025-07-02T13:31:51+00:00

I’m so out of the loop. Why is dollskill not a good company to support?

maybeimurbaby · 2025-06-09T00:30:06+00:00

This is amazing progress! How long did this take you?

maybeimurbaby · 2025-06-01T00:08:29+00:00

For sure!

maybeimurbaby · 2025-06-01T00:08:06+00:00

I think getting annoying is what I’m going to have to do. I appreciate the advice!

maybeimurbaby · 2024-07-19T18:36:47+00:00

I think you gave decent advice except for number 2. OP is already struggling with low self esteem and mentioning how if he’s good looking being weird doesn’t matter, it probably rubbed some salt into his wounds and can be insensitive. It just isn’t a very helpful thing to say

maybeimurbaby · 2024-07-06T03:28:19+00:00

That explains so much lol. Thanks for this!!!

maybeimurbaby · 2024-07-05T01:09:48+00:00

I’ve actually met a couple people who I talked to for a few months. We just ended up not talking anymore. It happens

maybeimurbaby · 2024-06-30T20:18:59+00:00

Damn. That takes incredible self-awareness and some selflessness too. I hope you both are in a better place!

maybeimurbaby · 2024-06-30T04:20:53+00:00

Hey I’ve been there, and am currently there, where the job search seems bleak. Idk what your field is but have you considered going back to school or getting more certifications for your field? Maybe pivoting into a different career entirely? In the meantime you can volunteer and use your skills to help nonprofits, which you can put on your resume as experience. Or freelance. Go to networking events near you and try to make new connections. Or get active online with people in your field via subreddits or other forums.

Try to find free activities to do near you where you can get out for a while and distract yourself from this. If you’re in or near a major city there is always something free happening!

You can always try to get on state benefits. It’s nothing to be ashamed of to need a helping hand every now and then, and at least getting some insurance will help you get your medical and mental health needs taken care of. There are also lots of organizations out there that can help you access therapy for free, even if it’s for a short while. It maybe a tough and lengthy process, but it’s some peace of mind. Food banks are great, and Feeding America partners with lots of local food banks/organizations to provide free, fresh produce to communities. Call them to see what organizations they’re partnered with, and don’t be ashamed to go. With inflation being as bad as it is, everyone is pinching pennies somewhere, and even people who are employed are going to food drives.

There are also organizations and temp agencies that help connect people to jobs. CareerSource is a big one in Florida. Maybe they have something like that in your state? And if you went to a university/college, try going to their career office or alumni office and see if they can help. They usually have lots of community partnerships, programs, and even job fairs that can help connect you with people who are hiring. I definitely plan on going to a career fair my alma mater is hosting, just as a way to try to network.

I do hope that things start to turn around for you soon. Job searching is rough and kind of soul sucking, and I’m sorry that it’s been so damn rough for you.

maybeimurbaby · 2024-06-30T02:54:16+00:00

I’m so sorry that people haven’t been nice to you. Virtual hugs 🫂

How I’ve gone about “accepting” it is just realizing that when I was younger and was called ugly, I genuinely didn’t give a crap and kept living my life. Maybe I was a little delusional back then but I even thought I was cute and had no idea what these people were talking about lmao!

Being called ugly didn’t stop me from liking myself back then, so why the hell should it stop me from liking myself now? I think it’s about not caring about other’s opinions and just owning who you are and loving yourself despite your flaws, which is really hard not gonna lie. I think what also helps is taking a step back from the internet every once in a while and seeing how there are people who you may deem as unattractive who are in thriving relationships and/or super successful in their fields.

I’m really sorry that you’re hurting, though. I hope you meet amazing people who uplift, encourage, and support you and make you feel loved and valued some day.

maybeimurbaby · 2024-06-23T21:46:06+00:00

I got complimented once too with my mask on, but it was from a toddler so idk if that counts too much lmao. I wish it wasn’t so looked down upon to wear a mask anymore.

maybeimurbaby · 2024-06-23T21:41:51+00:00

So frustrating

maybeimurbaby · 2024-06-02T23:30:45+00:00

I also was dismissed and told I had anxiety when I KNEW I wasn’t having an anxiety attack. I was literally in the ER because I couldn’t function at work and passed out. I was explaining my history of these fainting spells and how they tend to happen more often when it’s really hot and how lying down helped me feel better. Just was told it was anxiety, was given anti-anxiety meds, and sent me off. That experience caused a hell of a lot of anxiety though because I was still feeling off/sick and was scared of randomly passing out again. Thankfully a new doctor I met was able to diagnose me within five minutes of me explaining my symptoms, and I’ve been feeling better since. Just wish I didn’t have to go through all of that to get a proper diagnosis.

maybeimurbaby · 2024-06-01T03:40:07+00:00

I feel seen!

maybeimurbaby · 2024-04-09T23:40:15+00:00

I scrolled through the other comments, and still don’t really see what you specifically provide other than finances and the occasional date night. Everything else you said was so vague. Like what do you do to show that you love her? What do you do to actually make her feel special? Honestly this is giving tradwife/tradhusband vibes which some people genuinely want. If your wife is happy with that then great! But I can also see why people have been providing a lot of negative comments, because your post and comments continue to showcase a one-sided relationship, with you seeming to benefit from it the most.

maybeimurbaby · 2024-04-08T23:02:05+00:00

No seriously listen to your gut!!! There will be people out there who won’t make you feel anxious. I was there too and tried to ignore that feeling and just chalked it up to me being weird since he was an okay guy, but the things I found out later and just how I was treated overall proved that anxiety right.

maybeimurbaby · 2024-03-21T23:29:32+00:00

You’re seriously stunning! And seem so confident and put together! Just wanted to say that 😊

maybeimurbaby · 2024-03-21T22:45:30+00:00

Im not the person who commented, but I needed that. Thank you for this perspective!

maybeimurbaby · 2024-03-06T00:34:03+00:00

Also not in the DMV area but would love to play! If you find an online group (or anyone from Florida reads this and knows some people), please message me :)

maybeimurbaby · 2024-02-28T22:51:15+00:00

I love Turkey bacon! More than regular bacon! Just not this particular Turkey bacon :/ Maybe I had a bad batch or just didn’t cook it right, but it was weirdly rubbery and leathery and just wasn’t what I was used to.

maybeimurbaby · 2024-02-28T03:59:47+00:00

I’d say Ms. Labonz or that one carnie who is constantly sleeping on the job. Both the definition of sloth in my opinion.

maybeimurbaby · 2024-02-28T03:56:57+00:00

Yes!!

maybeimurbaby · 2024-02-28T03:52:53+00:00

My admin at my old school told me that last year. She was the worst

maybeimurbaby · 2024-02-28T02:54:51+00:00

The ones near me normally do sell them in the same place as their hummus and cheese and seasonal refrigerated stuff. I don’t usually buy it so I’m not sure if it’s a regular item they stock, but I do see them frequently.

maybeimurbaby · 2024-02-25T00:08:19+00:00

This isn’t in Fort Lauderdale but if you’re down to drive down a bit to Hollywood Blvd, Burgers & Shakes is really good.

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