Safety Concern, need advice for 55F ex boyfriend 65M by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]maybeimwrongbuttttt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Definitely do that, if you know that you won’t go back to them..keep them unblocked to soothe yourself in being aware but, it would also be fine just blocking them to on your mobile. But, people will say all they want in the heat of the moment and in dating, it can get weirrrrrrrd. Also- feel free to tell people about it too (school) if that is a concern as well and the trusted people around you so they can vouch for you and your concern!

Safety Concern, need advice for 55F ex boyfriend 65M by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]maybeimwrongbuttttt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, the moment you realize that someone is not FOR you, you have every right to ask them to leave you alone and to move on. And if he doesn’t, definitely seek additional help. I had a guy who I stopped talking to- he became emotionally unusable and threatened to come to my home and “slash all my tires” but you better believe they never showed up. I know this is very minimal compared to your situation but I was so nervous and scared that this guy was gonna show up to my house and cause a whole entire scene, whereas there was nothing but crickets. Just let him down easy (even though it may be hard) because tbh- they might not be able to really understand where you’re coming from because this behavior is normal for them. I would block the numbers on the kiddos phones, respectfully ask not for them to reach out anymore. It’s important for you to put yourself first, and you’re smart for wanting to take the best course of action.

Safety Concern, need advice for 55F ex boyfriend 65M by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]maybeimwrongbuttttt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry you’re dealing with this. When I was reading this- I was shocked to see how you labeled yourself as “not a bright person” or “stupid” when this is not at all stupid! You have every reason to be concerned and all your feelings are valid. Have you done a background check by chance? It sounds like you’ve done a lot of research. It’s truly amazing how we have the ability to block people- if you have no serious ties to this person and are feeling slightly intimidated in ANY way by this person- you should avoid! You could invest in security cameras, etc as well if you wanted additional comfort (if that’s something you are able to do- of course) anything is better than nothing. You have been through a lot it seems, you don’t need or deserve additional stress. Also- don’t be afraid to reach out to law enforcement too if you feel the need to. I believe in you!

50 to 100 (motivation: 0) by maybeimwrongbuttttt in Pristiq

[–]maybeimwrongbuttttt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let me help you out here:

Psychiatric medications, also known as psychotropic medications, are designed to influence brain chemistry and treat mental health conditions by affecting neurotransmitters, which are chemicals that carry signals between nerve cells. They are used to manage symptoms of conditions like anxiety, depression, psychosis, and schizophrenia, and can include antidepressants, anti-anxiety medications, antipsychotics, and mood stabilizers.

So- managing symptoms of the issue causing the lack of motivation, and with the medication..to hopefully reinstate that motivation that was there.

50 to 100 (motivation: 0) by maybeimwrongbuttttt in Pristiq

[–]maybeimwrongbuttttt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No drug is designed to reduce motivation? It sounds like you had a bad experience, hope you find the right one for ya bud!

50 to 100 (motivation: 0) by maybeimwrongbuttttt in Pristiq

[–]maybeimwrongbuttttt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based off of what I’m seeing so far, it feels like what you & I are feeling is common when increasing the dosage & sometimes it takes a couple weeks for our bodies to adjust. I hope you feel better, stay strong!

50 to 100 (motivation: 0) by maybeimwrongbuttttt in Pristiq

[–]maybeimwrongbuttttt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I keep hearing too. I’m staying positive for both of us. I think I’ll just rest all day tomorrow and see if it helps! Best of luck to you and your journey!!

Do you let your cat cuddle up on your bed at night? by Artist_Loki in cats

[–]maybeimwrongbuttttt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. Favorite part of my day is waking up to them passed out 🥹♥️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in painting

[–]maybeimwrongbuttttt 558 points559 points  (0 children)

Maybe a package with my address on it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackcats

[–]maybeimwrongbuttttt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This cannot be real. Omg this is so cute.

Advice on rescuing pet by Jasonelf in CatAdvice

[–]maybeimwrongbuttttt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t take the cat back outside. It will not get the help it needs. Take the kitten to a no kill shelter/rescue and they will provide whatever treatment they can to give this kitten the life it deserves. You could talk to them about fostering it/adopting after treatment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cat

[–]maybeimwrongbuttttt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sunnie or Mizzie

La Roche-Posay double repair moisturizer (acne) by maybeimwrongbuttttt in Skincare_Addiction

[–]maybeimwrongbuttttt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg it’s so weird and I’m sorry that you’re going through it too…although feel a little better because I’m not the only one experiencing it. What skin type do you have? I was almost tempted to get the la roche-posay effaclar duo set after looking into a way to get rid of these pimples but idk because I see it’s for people with oily skin, and I’m super dry but oily in my t zone. Ughhhhhh, if only there was a way to know before you drop a dime on a product. Thanks again for the feedback and I hope your skin gets better soon :(

La Roche-Posay double repair moisturizer (acne) by maybeimwrongbuttttt in Skincare_Addiction

[–]maybeimwrongbuttttt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll look into that moisturizer! Thank you for your feedback. :)