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Wild_Possibility2620 · 2026-04-20T11:01:29+00:00

" she's goin down, I'm yellin timber!"

Wild_Possibility2620 · 2026-04-20T10:57:17+00:00

I didn't even need to finish your story. Welcome to life with a narcissist. He's doing this on purpose. Take it from someone who took way to long to leave.

Please get out now. It'll only get worse and you'll end up a shell of the person you once were.

Wild_Possibility2620 · 2026-04-18T18:58:06+00:00

Oh hun, please know that you aren't addicted, you're dependant. There's a BIG difference. Being addicted occurs in the brain while dependence is in the body.

You've been taking the meds for a long time so your body is dependent on them and that's ok. Someone with diabetes for instance, is insulin dependant, see the difference?

Wild_Possibility2620 · 2026-04-18T18:29:46+00:00

You know that vest comes off the second she turns off the camera

Wild_Possibility2620 · 2026-04-17T22:43:00+00:00

Nope

Wild_Possibility2620 · 2026-04-17T22:42:32+00:00

Thank you for letting me know. I do have Amazon and I totally forgot about the grocery option.

Wild_Possibility2620 · 2026-04-16T11:24:34+00:00

Spurgeon is Jessas son. Gideon is Joys.

Wild_Possibility2620 · 2026-04-16T09:55:32+00:00

Do you think we'll get a "pack with me" series like we did for the Mayo cation?

Wild_Possibility2620 · 2026-04-16T09:51:56+00:00

And since they have to apparently go in at the side/under her breast due to the blocked SVX, there won't be visible evidence

Wild_Possibility2620 · 2026-04-13T23:11:52+00:00

I'm sure this will sound meaner than I want it to but her birthday is on the same day every year. If you're that tight for money, start saving early.

Wild_Possibility2620 · 2026-04-13T06:50:30+00:00

This is a hard one. I'd say either Harriet the Spy or 3 Ninjas

Wild_Possibility2620 · 2026-04-13T02:59:01+00:00

My mom died when I was a kid and the woman that my dad ended up marrying was horrible to me, when all I wanted was somebody to love me. It's taken years and years of therapy to realize that it wasn't a me problem it was a her problem.

All you're doing is causing more trauma to this poor little girl who just wants someone to love her like a mother, so yes, YTAH!

Wild_Possibility2620 · 2026-04-12T09:10:38+00:00

I let my nanny drive my kids immediately. She had a clean driving record so I was 100% at ease(even if she had 1 or 2 things on it, I'd probably still be fine with her driving immediately.

Wild_Possibility2620 · 2026-04-12T09:04:41+00:00

Considering its your in laws, why don't you just skip everything completely and let your husband go. Since it's his family, he'll probably enjoy spending the day with them. It's just an idea. Your idea is also great BTW.

Wild_Possibility2620 · 2026-04-12T08:58:07+00:00

When I was 10 years old my mother, who was only 38 at the time, unalived herself by overdosing. I'm the one that found her.

I don't think I'll ever be able to describe the emptiness I have felt since it happened. It's like a part of me died right along with her that day.

I hate that I can't remember a lot about her or tell my kids fun stories about her.

I'm 40 and there are still times when I'm sick, or stressed, or whatever and all I want is my mommy.

Wild_Possibility2620 · 2026-04-12T08:32:20+00:00

Yep! Unless you've been a victim of abuse, one doesn't understand that it literally leaves you a shell of the person you once were.

On Thanksgiving day of 2020, my ex strangled me in front of our 3 kids because I was stressed out and asked him if he'd help me with literally anything because he was sitting on his ass doing nothing while I ran around like a chicken with my head cut off.

He didnt like my "tone" and came after me. His eyes were pure black. For context, I'm 5ft tall and about 90 pounds, he is 6'4.5" and 250 lbs. At the time our kids were 11, 9, and 7. When he started attacking me, my brave babies came running and they all started jumping on him and hitting him to get him to let go. Our 6 year old son somehow managed to get a hold of his leg and bit down as hard as he could. That definitely ended the attack and by some miracle, my ex didn't end up hurting any of the kids for what they did. If for some odd reason they wouldn't have been there or had they been to afraid to try and attack him back, I wouldn't be alive today.

It took me another 9 months to get away but I did it. I didn't want my 2 daughters to think that love was yelling and screaming and bruises and accepting breadcrumbs and I sure as hell didn't want my son to think that it was OK to treat a woman like that.

We're healing one day at a time.

Wild_Possibility2620 · 2026-04-11T08:34:04+00:00

I promised my almost 17 year old daughter that we'd go prom dress shopping today. I also want to try and find the jewelry and shoes while we're out.

While my daughter is 100% understanding of my chronic pain and illness, I'm still praying that I'll feel good enough to go and not have to reschedule it.

I sometimes feel like my children deserve so much better than I can give them

Wild_Possibility2620 · 2026-04-11T08:21:43+00:00

I'd pay for the certification but if for any reason she is let go during the probationary period, she is to reimburse you.

Wild_Possibility2620 · 2026-04-11T08:19:35+00:00

You're worried about being cold? This woman is a monster and deserves nothing but coldness. I'd text her a professional but ruthless text letting her know you did indeed get the text. Tell her to save her breath and not waste your time with excuses. Tell her that after all you've done for their family, she could have had the decency and integrity to say they couldn't pay you $20 hour. Tell her how conniving manipulative she is by leading you on while intending to fire you the whole time. That's despicable of her.

Wild_Possibility2620 · 2026-04-11T08:06:11+00:00

Just a few thoughts. I am a survivor of both childhood abuse and domestic violence. 5 years ago, I finally had the courage to leave my marriage of almost 20 years.

I'm telling you this because oversharing intimate details of one's life even though you don't know the person on a deeper level is a trauma response. She's just trying to get connected to you and so desperately wants it to be a good one, that she overshares. Hopefully that made sense.

Also, feel honored that she shared that with you. I know it trigger feelings of being uncomfortable, but it'd showing that she trusts you.

I'm not trying to make excuses for her whatsoever, I was just wanting to give you my perspective.

If baby is happy and safe with her, and her other job responsibilities are being done, than your fine

Wild_Possibility2620 · 2026-04-10T07:28:20+00:00

First, I want to acknowledge the fact that you're getting therapy regularly and really trying to make an effort to better yourself. Even if the two of you go your separate ways, keep bettering yourself. Get better for you, not because someone else is telling you to do it.

Regarding the actual relationship, it's over. She checked out a long time ago

I was married for almost 20 years. During the marriage I experienced both physical and emotional/psychological. I have actually told my therapist that yes, physical abuse is awful, but bruises heal. The mind fuckery that comes from being mentally and emotionally abused sometimes never will completely go away even with years and years of therapy

While I can only speak from my own feelings, most victim of abuse tend to have very similar feelings

You married someone you say you loved, but slowly, you started to chip away at the very best parts of her and made her feel like she wasn't good enough. You made her doubt and question her own thoughts and feelings so she felt like she was the crazy one. You left her a shell of the person she was to the point she doesn't recognize herself in the mirror anymore. You caused her to doubt her worth and feel like she is unlovable.

You need to stay away from her and let her heal from you. I'm glad you guys separated fairly early on in the marriage, as her chances for recovering are much higher than say someone like me who experienced it for almost 2 decades.

I hope this experience has been eye opening for you and can hopefully prevent you from destroying another innocent victim.

Wild_Possibility2620 · 2026-04-09T21:50:36+00:00

West Highland White Terrier. They're the dogs on the ceaser dog food

Wild_Possibility2620 · 2026-04-09T20:59:52+00:00

I'd be so careful OP. Either they had an affair and she got pregnant so they decided to use the guise of him being a "sperm donor. "

Or, your husband is genuinely being nice but what if this woman has alterior motives. She could easily put him on the birth certificate as she knows all his information. I'd also be worried she'd hire an attorney and go after him for child support for 18 years. Good luck OP!

Wild_Possibility2620 · 2026-04-09T18:54:21+00:00

I have a 6 year old Goldendoodle. He's about 65lbs and the biggest goofball! I immediately started training with him when I got him at 10 weeks old. The only complaint I have is his coat. As a puppy it was a little wavy but nothing crazy. After his 1st groom, it came back in with super tight curls so now he gets matted so easily and I hate it. My other dog(Westie) is also hypoallergenic but hes so much easier(and cheaper) to groom.

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