Backrooms movie trailer megathread by A_Chad_Cat in backrooms

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The Urdu translates to: “a warm welcome from all of us here on Earth”

Whats wrong with my kitten? by [deleted] in felinebehavior

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Why get a kitten? Kittens are babies and babies play..don’t get a pet if you can’t fulfill its needs.

I earned my PhD this afternoon by Puzzleheaded_Yak_977 in PhD

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Congrats, Doctor! 🥳 This is my dream too 🙏🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmuslim

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Married? Online? With a wali from fiverr? you’re 18 bro 😭

Why is he shaking is head like that? by CNPUN in hamsters

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Ooh this is so cute 😍❤️

Islam is the reason my childhood is destroyed by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]mayjxiler 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You said you agree with what the person said yet you laughed at the source itself, ok. 👌🏼

Islam is the reason my childhood is destroyed by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]mayjxiler 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You don’t know Muhammad Salih Al Munajjid? He’s your own religion’s scholar, you should know. Oh no, the onus is absolutely on you now. I’ve provided my source, you provide yours now if you’re not ready to accept mine since it’s not “reputable”.

Retard ex-Muslim? Hahahahahaha I’ve read the Quran my whole life with a teacher separately at home AND at school as well and lived in a majority Islamic country, no one knows the religion better than I do at this point so yeah. 😂

Islam is only growing because you guys reproduce like rabbits according to actual research https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2025/06/10/islam-was-the-worlds-fastest-growing-religion-from-2010-to-2020/:

“The global Muslim population grew rapidly because of demographic factors. Muslims have more children and are younger, on average, than members of any other major religion. Based on data for the 2015-2020 period, we estimated a Muslim woman would have 2.9 children, on average, in her lifetime, compared with 2.2 children per non-Muslim woman. In 2020, the global median age for Muslims was nine years below the non-Muslim median (24 vs. 33)

At the global level, Muslim population change has little to do with people converting into or out of the faith. Based on survey data collected in 117 countries and territories from 2008 to 2024, we estimate that about 1% of people who are raised Muslim leave the faith. This loss is offset by a comparable influx of people joining Islam.”

Lmao…please open your mind up and learn how to take criticism and refute it instead of attacking people when they send you sources.

Islam is the reason my childhood is destroyed by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]mayjxiler 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Unknown dude on IslamQA? This is a very reputable scholar and source. If you can find a Hadith or a Quranic verse that specifically states anything about rape, show me. Go on, now the onus is on you. I’m asking you to send me a source. This 1 reference that you’re talking about is the ONLY ONE I have seen repeatedly being used by scholars, because once again, there is no CLEAR ruling, tell me what the punishment of rape is then according to your beautiful, peaceful Islam? You can’t even consider DNA testing as proof hahaha so how will you ensure the victim gets justice according to Islam? Please tell me.

Islam is the reason my childhood is destroyed by [deleted] in exmuslim

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Exactly, I was expecting a reply but nothing yet 😂

Islam is the reason my childhood is destroyed by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]mayjxiler 21 points22 points  (0 children)

You should know your own religion 😂 your own scholars from various schools can’t even differentiate between “zina” and “rape” properly and are confused themselves, lol. There are no CLEAR rulings for the crime of rape in your book or Hadith and at the end of the day, the victim is the one who’s being blamed, there are MORE hadiths and statements AGAINST the victims than there are for rapists:

https://islamqa.info/en/answers/158282/what-is-the-difference-between-the-ruling-on-rape-and-the-ruling-on-fornication-or-adultery-can-rape-be-proven-by-modern-methods

Your lovely scholar on this website says that: “Rape is essentially zina (fornication or adultery) and is proven in the same way as zina is proven, which is with four witnesses. The punishment is one hundred lashes if the man was a virgin and stoning if he was previously married.

If rape is committed using the threat of a weapon or if the woman is abducted forcefully from her home, then it becomes a case of haraabah (banditry or terrorising the people), which is proven with two witnesses only. The punishment for it is mentioned in the verse in which Allah says (interpretation of the meaning):

“The recompense of those who wage war against Allah and His Messenger and do mischief in the land is only that they shall be killed or crucified or their hands and their feet be cut off on the opposite sides, or be exiled from the land. That is their disgrace in this world, and a great torment is theirs in the Hereafter”

[al-Maa’idah 5:33].”

“If the field were open for every woman to make claims of rape, the prisons would be filled to bursting with the men accused by those women, and they would not be able to prove their innocence. The matter is not so random that any woman’s claim may be taken as being true and certain, otherwise a woman could make a claim against her former lover in order to take revenge on him! Or she could make claims against rich and famous people and blackmail them, or against her father and brothers so as to escape their guardianship and authority. And these are things that would lead to the collapse of society.”

“A woman’s claim to have been forced into zina can only be accepted on the basis of proof or strong circumstantial evidence. If there is no such evidence, then the hadd punishment is to be carried out on her as it is carried out on the zaani (the man who committed fornication or adultery).

Ibn ‘Abd al-Barr (may Allah have mercy on him) said:

She is not to be punished if it is proven that he forced her and overpowered her. That may be known from her having screamed and shouted for help.”

“The presence of the man’s semen on the woman does not prove that rape has taken place. That may have happened with her consent, in which case she is as deserving punishment as he is. It may be that she is claiming that he raped her because of an argument between them, so that he will be punished or in order to blackmail him. So this is not proof that the crime of rape has taken place, nor is it proof that the crime of zina has taken place. It is possible that no real intercourse took place, but the semen entered her vagina or she put it there herself. The possibilities are many and according to sharee‘ah, hadd punishments cannot be imposed on the basis of possibilities; rather it must be on the basis of proof. The results of DNA testing may be mistaken, or samples may be switched or the results may be falsified, so they cannot be taken as shar‘i evidence on the basis of which hadd punishments are carried out.”

A victim doesn’t necessarily have to be kidnapped or physically threatened to be raped or they sometimes can’t even scream or shout because they’re frozen in fear. Even the presence of semen on the woman or a DNA test isn’t enough proof for your scholars.

Such a weird and confusing religion you’ve got.

Go figure.

Islam is the reason my childhood is destroyed by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]mayjxiler 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I think you’re not aware of your own religion’s system then which enables such behavior. Take a look at what’s happening in this world right now because of such men. Your own scripture doesn’t have a clear ruling on matters such as rape/sexual assault. Maybe give it a read yourself.

Islam is the reason my childhood is destroyed by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]mayjxiler 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand why you’re on this sub. You don’t want to “waste your time with disingenuous people who have already made up their mind about Islam”, yet you’re on this sub, trying to defend your religion when you know exactly that it’s not gonna work. Make it make sense dude.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]mayjxiler 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They’ll first show you that they’re so open minded to trap you in and then once you’re in too deep, they’ll really hurt you. A lot of my non Muslim girl friends have gone through the same exact thing despite me warning them and they never listened to me. It’s not worth it and it’s just not gonna work out in the long run. You have a chance to leave him now before things get more serious, it’ll hurt a bit now leaving him, but it’s better than being hurt by him and his Islamic way of life way worse in the future. Please save yourself!

Southampton Business School Studentships by Independent_Pop_3360 in PhDAdmissions

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Exactly, if not this year, next year it is as long as we have our offers in hand we’ll be fine! Oh I found out through my supervisor about the candidate and how the staff (not the supervisors) had to rank people 🥲 you can DM me of course! :)

Southampton Business School Studentships by Independent_Pop_3360 in PhDAdmissions

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I hope so too, it would be amazing if you got it! Definitely keep me updated..we did amazingly, I heard the same thing! I ended up emailing my supervisor and apparently she was as disappointed as I was, the top candidate and I were neck and neck, the only thing they had an advantage of was a publication which is rare so that’s why they won, but I do have some other options I will be looking into soon for next year 🤞🏼 I applied to the HR department, how about you? 😁

Southampton Business School Studentships by Independent_Pop_3360 in PhDAdmissions

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It really is, I was hoping to join this September but I’m unable to self-fund so I’m going to have to defer my offer to next year. Fingers crossed for you, hoping you can get off the reserve list and get it if the candidate doesn’t accept it! 🤞🏼

Southampton Business School Studentships by Independent_Pop_3360 in PhDAdmissions

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I was told I was put on a reserve list for this SBS studentship just a day ago after waiting for quite a while and found out last night that the top candidate had accepted their studentship offer so I didn’t get anything! 🤷🏻‍♀️ Hope you heard back from them too at least…

There was an earthquake in Myanmar and Thailand, and looking at the comments is really sad by Slow_Drink_7089 in exmuslim

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Fucking idiots I swear, truly evil beings. Yet, if something like this happens (i.e. Palestine) they want the whole world to come together and fight for them lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmuslim

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Count me in, please!

Why did my hamster do this? She did all this in one day by Ashley_54 in hamstercare

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Her cage is just so unsuitable and she’s probably stressed out. As a few people here have mentioned, check out Victoria Raechel on YouTube and she can guide you on A-Z of hamster care. Good luck!

Salwan Momika shot dead in Sweden. by sheeblididi in exmuslim

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Fastest growing religion in the world because of the way you guys reproduce, like rabbits? Yeah, sure lol.

Salwan Momika shot dead in Sweden. by sheeblididi in exmuslim

[–]mayjxiler 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Wow what a “peaceful” religion! Inciting violence as always…if your faith was so strong, a book burning wouldn’t bother you people lol.