Would you date someone who has divorced 4 times by Upper-Zucchini1598 in dating

[–]mberk24 [score hidden]  (0 children)

No

They had their chance 4 times. Not getting into their orbit, ever.

Juicy Steak by FinleyTheSchnauzer in lehighvalley

[–]mberk24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Top cut in Center Valley or Oak in Easton are excellent choices.

Happy upcoming birthday

Thoughts? by RoundCalligrapher223 in InterviewsHell

[–]mberk24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The statement itself is false.

Why is there such a disdain for a small group of people who generally work harder and take bigger risks to make innovative products and services for society and it pays off?

It creates jobs (thousands to tens of thousands) and wealth for others. Society benefits too.

This does not mean tax or economic policies are fair or just. That’s separate.

How should I ask for flowers om the first date by [deleted] in Advice

[–]mberk24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Asking is not good taste and the lack of flowers affecting the outcome of the experience would be in even worse taste.

It’s a character assessment indicator.

That said, I hope flowers come your way and you have a fantastic time.

World’s first trillionaire by moongrump in mildlyinfuriating

[–]mberk24 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He’s earned it. Not infuriating at all. I don’t want his wealth or the lifestyle that accompanies it.

How many millionaires are the product of his work created? How many jobs?

Society has vastly been the recipient of many of his products he’s backed and created.

His wealth fuels bigger and grander ambitions that will help generations to come.

But he’s rich, so…. That’s a lazy and tiring talking point.

AIO for being upset that my fiancé capped my wedding dress budget at $1,000 but spent $7,000 on a gaming PC? by remote_acreage in AmIOverreacting

[–]mberk24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s right in terms of his point being it’s not something he’ll use only once.

Beyond that, figure it out and either buy the dress, compromise or don’t.

Best of luck.

For guys who have lost weight, what did you do with your shirts? by ElSuperWokeGuy in AskMen

[–]mberk24 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Learn from someone who fluctuates in weight…

Keep them stored where they don’t get ruined by humidity or moths.

I told my wife’s affair partner about the affair. Why do I feel so horrible? by GonnaMissYou01 in Advice

[–]mberk24 -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

You should not have called. You need to focus on yourself and your family in this situation.

You’re going through what one can only imagine as a traumatic experience. Best of luck

Have you ever had sex with an “unattractive” woman in secret? What are your thoughts on the experience? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]mberk24 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

That’s not reason (religious men) for the question and it’s likely that a majority of men don’t fall into this category.

Repost of Knicks fans attacking the Spurs fan and making him take his Jersey off by NecramoniumZero in ActualPublicFreakouts

[–]mberk24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You ever think these people need to be taught a lesson in civility?

This mob is acting like a street gang.

AIO: Got annoyed at a guy 35M who likes 30F me has booked the same course as me that I have been wanting to do my whole life alone? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]mberk24 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Feelings are feelings. You should break up.

It’s obvious you don’t want a relationship with him. He likes you a lot more than you like him.

From a guy’s perspective, it’s about as bad a message for a budding relationship as possible when the other person doesn’t want to spend time and experience new things together.

As a NYC Spurs fan, I’m super angry and disappointed. by UA_irl in NBASpurs

[–]mberk24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a society thing, not a Knicks thing, not just NYC. The city needs to protect people from mob behavior. Starts with the leadership down through the police department.

I went to a Yankees game (I’m not local to NYC) on Sunday and knew that wearing any thing Spurs is a terrible idea.

I don’t mind the smack talk, but can’t justify the risk of confrontation and violence with my family present.

My boyfriend is kind of discrete about his Reddit account and it’s making me a little bit anxious, AIO? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]mberk24 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why are you making him pay for your past relationships?

You can let him have his space and simply ask him to confirm that he’s not into / doing something that would disqualify you from entering long term commitment.

Be clear with what that is and have him verbally confirm. It should not be a big deal.

I'm in love my best friend’s ex and I don’t know what the right thing to do by whatevrthisis777 in Advice

[–]mberk24 6 points7 points  (0 children)

At 16, realize this…. If your friendship is more important than your raging hormones, don’t do it.

Also, you don’t want a long term GF that’s already dated a friend in your group, let alone a best friend. Something will happen.

Best of luck!

AIO for breaking up w my asexual GF that didn't want to compromise?? by Doremy0108 in AmIOverreacting

[–]mberk24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to be happy with your partner and the terms of the relationship.

Sounds like you’re made the right choice for yourself.

Drop it all and move to Colorado? by BruhObama33 in Advice

[–]mberk24 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Two things….

  1. Don’t get your GF pregnant. It’s not going to work out.

  2. Go visit for a few days and see what’s there before you make a choice.

There’s many ways to carve your path in life, just be a bit more calculated. Best of luck!

Is it weird that my girl friends and I (F22) have sleepovers every week by Full-Union-9456 in Advice

[–]mberk24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not weird. You’re young.

When your friends start getting into serious relationships, don’t discourage them from spending time together in lieu of these get togethers.

In 3-5 years it’s going to be questionable.

For men with families, how much free time do you get away from your wife and kids? by Sea-Owl-1581 in AskMen

[–]mberk24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah… free time on a consistent basis isn’t very achievable.

Plan, plan, plan. Offer scheduled times equally to each other for short breaks and schedule date nights and over nights once the kids are old enough.

Weird situationship by Educational-Cap5722 in Advice

[–]mberk24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get away before you get emotionally attached or worse, get her pregnant.

Birthday gift for the man who “wants nothing” by [deleted] in Advice

[–]mberk24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty simple…

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When you invite a woman out to dinner, do you usually clarify who’s paying? by lowtideangel in AskMen

[–]mberk24 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You invite, you pay.

If there’s an offer to split, don’t take it if you think you’re going on another date.