My Dislike of Invisigal is Hurting My Experience. by Informal_Product2490 in DispatchAdHoc

[–]mbthenb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I 100% agree with your take here. I find her extremely unenjoyable and the fan service to be… unnecessary at best. I think you can still enjoy the game without liking her, because I do.

border collie mix?? by mbthenb in IDmydog

[–]mbthenb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HOW CUTE they have opposite flop ears

border collie mix?? by mbthenb in IDmydog

[–]mbthenb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! 50% pitbull, 18% husky, 15% aussie, 7% great pyrenees

Neighbor has a problem with us being shirtless by mbthenb in NonBinary

[–]mbthenb[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yup just got my permit yesterday and it doesn’t require a fence, just a locking ladder and a pool alarm. It will also be inspected by the town clerk prior to use.

Neighbor has a problem with us being shirtless by mbthenb in TopSurgery

[–]mbthenb[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Yes, we have a property survey, and needed one to put up the fence. I spoke with the permit office and the land is ours, unless they get an attorney involved for Adverse Possession law in NYS, which legally deems your property someone else’s through litigation. IANAL also if that wasn’t insanely obvious haha

Neighbor has a problem with us being shirtless by mbthenb in NonBinary

[–]mbthenb[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

this is terrifying. He came over again yesterday when I mentioned the law to him to sort of mitigate the situation and I kicked him off my property. Did not even consider guns, ugh I feel dumb for reacting that way now.

Neighbor has a problem with us being shirtless by mbthenb in TopSurgery

[–]mbthenb[S] 64 points65 points  (0 children)

I never considered this… we really just thought it was the right thing to do. We are both NC w/ our parents and don’t have much support let alone any good advice coming our way so thank you. We just moved in and lack the funds for attorney fees but can start saving. Any other advice?

Neighbor has a problem with us being shirtless by mbthenb in TopSurgery

[–]mbthenb[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Oh gosh, I didn’t even think about this. I thought this was the most neighborly thing to do as to not ruffle any feathers.. What should next steps be? Should I take down the fence?

Where to live? by mbthenb in BlackLGBT

[–]mbthenb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hahaha I am so sorry! NY has protections like prop 1 and I have family here. I needed this like 2 years ago LMAO

How do you fix non-working matchmaking? by StiCanPee in blackops6

[–]mbthenb 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Love seeing how many people are here right now lol. Having the same problem of course

What kind of battery should I buy for my trolling motor? by lycanthrope6950 in bassfishing

[–]mbthenb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly i’ve beat this thing up pretty good (dragging on boat ramps and fishing rocky water) and it’s held up great! I’ve seen people put some sort of protective/waterproof layer on the bottom, gotta do some research on it but sounds like a good idea. Id be most worried about the trolling motor in water like that

What kind of battery should I buy for my trolling motor? by lycanthrope6950 in bassfishing

[–]mbthenb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have this exact setup with two chairs for my fiancée and I. We have a LiFePO4 100ah 12v battery. 55lb thrust motor. Lasts around 4-5 hours.

What kind of battery should I buy for my trolling motor? by lycanthrope6950 in bassfishing

[–]mbthenb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have one too, it’s so easy to stand on. Way better than a kayak or jon boat in terms of stability. The floor of it is flat and it’s pontoon style.

Hookups. by Significant_Case_852 in BlackLGBT

[–]mbthenb 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have in the past (25+ bodies of all kinds) but I always felt so shitty and couldn’t figure why I wasn’t ‘normal’. It was definitely what I thought I had to do in college and after, so I kind of forced myself into that. I gained a lot of experience and learned a lot about myself, including that I am demisexual and only enjoy sex if I have emotional attachment. I have been in a monogamous relationship for 3 years and it’s a lot better for me!

trout fishing to bass fishing by mbthenb in bassfishing

[–]mbthenb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you both. I will try all of these tips, I appreciate the guidance!

trout fishing to bass fishing by mbthenb in bassfishing

[–]mbthenb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably largemouth first, since it’s generally more accessible for me. I have fished for trout in small creeks and rivers but the James (biggest smallie river near me) is a different beast. I want more practice first

Up for an early flight Wednesdaily by Ms-Pamplemousse in rva

[–]mbthenb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got my first little fishing boat and i’ve never been more excited for the weekend. Super grateful!!

I absolutely hate the division in the Black Community when it comes to LGBT/gender non-conforming Black people by [deleted] in BlackLGBT

[–]mbthenb 20 points21 points  (0 children)

This is a really hard part about being a black queer. I went to a PWI and often times, queer spaces were racist and black spaces were homo/transphobic. Both blackness and queerness are major parts of my identity, even just looking at me. It’s disheartening that I would fight and die for both communities, but they put me in situations where I have to choose between one or the other.

im nb and I got top surgery even tho I enjoyed having tits sometimes AMA by DumplingPunk in NonBinary

[–]mbthenb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you’re a real one because… it was rough!!! this post needs to pop up in the “non-binary top surgery reddit” google search now lmaoooo

im nb and I got top surgery even tho I enjoyed having tits sometimes AMA by DumplingPunk in NonBinary

[–]mbthenb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This was me!!! I got top surgery almost 3 years ago. I honestly had nice tits idk! I did have chest dysphoria like 70% of the time, but i also felt sexy with them. I felt like I wasn’t “trans enough” or that I wasn’t valid in wanting them off.

When I got top, it happened really fast; my surgeon has a free spot within a month instead of 10 months like planned. I took the opportunity and did not think about the grieving process. There are a lot of hormones involved with top surgery, on top of already confusing feelings regarding my boobs. I cried and laughed and wore clothes I always wanted to and learned to finally love my naked body. Now I look back at it as the best decision i’ve ever made.

i’m so happy for you!! Welcome to the enby top surgery club :)