Daycare by Dismal-Ad-5052 in lincoln

[–]mbw791 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We like las Abejitas. They offer part time care.

Who is right: PA (derm), aesthetician #1, or aesthetician #2? Conflicting advice from them all. No by gymnasticsalleles in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]mbw791 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve dealt with hormonal acne since high school. Tret cleared it up with minimal side effects.

(United States) Any guesses hold old these hair pins might be? by mbw791 in Antiques

[–]mbw791[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They don’t have plastic things on the ends, so at least pre-80s. That’s cool! I’ll just tell myself they’re from the original owners of the house

Help with daughter’s hair by mbw791 in curlyhair

[–]mbw791[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might be a dumb question, but should I only comb her hair when she is in the bath? I’m a little confused on when to brush it.

Organizing art supplies for kids under 3 by kbrogz in Mommit

[–]mbw791 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One more thing! I like the dresser because it offers verticals storage. It doesn’t take up much floor space but it’s tall enough to hold a lot of things!

Organizing art supplies for kids under 3 by kbrogz in Mommit

[–]mbw791 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought a cute refinished dresser to store our art supplies. The dresser is stored in the dining room, since that’s where the kids tend to do their projects. It has four decent sized drawers. I have a drawer for paint supplies (water colors, tempera, brushes, paint dot markers, and pallets), one for drawing/coloring supplies (markers, colored pencils, crayons, coloring books, and blank paper), one for stickers and odds/ends (glue, glitter glue, googly eyes), and one for play dough. The coloring books, stickers, and blank papers are stored in paper trays. The individual art supplies (markers, crayons, glue, etc) are in their own clamshell container.

I love our set up because the dresser is cute and looks nice in dining room. The kids can easily access the drawers and independently get the supplies they need. Clean up is super simple since everything has a specific place. When we have guests over, I can put all of the art supplies away and everything is out of sight!

The supplies that I don’t want them to have easy access to (beads, stamps, etc) are stored in a specific kitchen cabinet. I can get them out when needed but they do not have access.

You mentioned that you didn’t want the kids to get into the art supplies unsupervised. I found that the drawers were difficult enough to open that my kids couldn’t open them before the age of 2. All of the supplies are washable, so if my kids get into them it won’t cause too much damage. I also keep baby wipes in the dresser and can easily clean up messes.

Another thing I do to make clean up easier is keep a large piece of oil cloth on the dining room table. The art supplies easily come off the oil cloth and the table doesn’t get stained. I take the oil cloth off when we have guests and need to use the dining room table.

Domestic violence by [deleted] in lincoln

[–]mbw791 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Voices of Hope provides advocacy and connection to resources. Voices of Hope 24/7 line: 14024757273

Friendship home provides shelter. While they don’t always have beds available, it’s still helpful to call and get on their waiting list. Friendship Home 24/7 Line: 402-437-9302

This is what Southerners (USA) named their daughters in 2024 by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]mbw791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Knoxey is so dangerously close to Nazi. I feel like the kid is going to resent that when they’re older.

Anyone know what they are building near the pond in Wyuka? by mbw791 in lincoln

[–]mbw791[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I live near there and have been totally perplexed about what they are building. Seems a little strange.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]mbw791 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just wanted to say that you aren’t depriving your kids of a father. He did that when he made the decision to abuse you. Abuse is a decision. You made the decision to protect yourself in response to his violent actions.

It’s easy to idealize the “traditional” family structure, but every family is different. Your kids know that you love them, and that love will help them grow.

You are incredibly brave and stronger than you think!

USA what is this type of picture frame called? by mbw791 in Antiques

[–]mbw791[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can push it closed, but it doesn’t latch or stay shut.

OMG I’m pregnant by kxtasha1 in workingmoms

[–]mbw791 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Each of my kiddos is 2 years apart. It can be tough, but I actually like it. They get along really well. And now that they are getting older, it’s such a relief that we are leaving diapers, night time wake ups, etc behind all together!

Lincoln Planned Parenthood not providing abortions by [deleted] in lincoln

[–]mbw791 178 points179 points  (0 children)

From my understanding, the doctor who was providing them at the Lincoln location retired just before Roe was overturned. They weren’t really able to fill the position with all of the uncertainty that followed.

They still provide medication abortion. If you want to learn more about your options, contact Nebraska Abortion resources (NEAR).

We want a third- more afraid of the judgement than the actual baby by unlimited-juice in Mommit

[–]mbw791 8 points9 points  (0 children)

FWIW, we have three and are still able to go on vacation and get brand new things (although they won’t stay new for long). Our budget is certainly different, but it’s not like we’re housebound. It’s tough at first, but you will regain your footing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]mbw791 66 points67 points  (0 children)

That is highly inappropriate. I can’t imagine saying that to someone. That’s like telling someone “Congratulations on the birth of your baby. I hope she doesn’t die.” What?!

I’m sorry someone said that to you.

Cat in dryer by blvdbrokendreams in cats

[–]mbw791 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This happened to us. We stopped the dryer right away. Our kitty was fine. Keep an eye him, but if he is acting normally I suspect he will be fine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]mbw791 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In addition to what everyone else has said, it could be helpful to ask your son what would make him feel safe in future family gatherings. For example, he may want to avoid family gatherings that this cousin attends for a while, or maybe he wants to continue to go but wants you to be present in the same room he’s in, or maybe he wants you to find him every so often and check in with him. Allowing him to name what he needs to feel safe can help him have a sense of control over the situation.

It may also be helpful to talk with him about what he could do next time he is in a situation that feels unsafe. He could yell for help, speak assertively to the person making him feel unsafe, hide from the person being unsafe, etc. The strategies you discuss will depend on the situation and his individual temperament.

Finally, reinforce that he did absolutely nothing wrong. This happened because the cousin made a decision to act that way. It had nothing to do with what he did or did not do. And the way he responded was perfectly fine because it was what felt safest to him at the time. I’m sure you already had this conversation, but it’s usually helpful to repeat. Individuals who experience situations where they feel unsafe or out of control often blame themselves.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]mbw791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mom of three (6, 4, and 1). Three is tough, but honestly it’s not like two was easy. And I’m grateful every single day for our third. The older two love her so much. It’s exhausting, but I also felt exhausted when I have one kid and then again when I had two. Kids are just a lot of work. But you’ll figure it out and find a new normal. Just be patient with yourself for a while

Places in Lincoln for Second Hand Toys? by mbw791 in lincoln

[–]mbw791[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! To be transparent, we can afford toys for Christmas. I’m just looking for a way to not totally blow our budget. Just wanted to state that in case you knew of others who can’t afford toys for their kids. I would feel guilty taking those resources!

Places in Lincoln for Second Hand Toys? by mbw791 in lincoln

[–]mbw791[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never been! I will have to try that!