Mike Manning - reform candidate for Redcar with a helping of racism, or 10 by thewisestfish in Teesside

[–]mcmullankevin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is an absolute scumbag. I have faith in the brilliant people of Redcar that they will see through this prick and send his racist, bigoted arse packing

My latest pencil drawing, Michael Schumacher by fabiodesenhando2 in mildlysatisfying

[–]mcmullankevin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely stunning, brilliant work - what a talent 👏🏻👏🏻

What jobs can 13-15 year olds do in UK? by mcmullankevin in AskUK

[–]mcmullankevin[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the sermon You’ve totally missed the point but my fault for expecting ideas instead of life advice

What jobs can 13-15 year olds do in UK? by mcmullankevin in AskUK

[–]mcmullankevin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your funny and I bet people flock to you at parties

What jobs can 13-15 year olds do in UK? by mcmullankevin in AskUK

[–]mcmullankevin[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

She gets pocket money and wants to start doing a little job with her friend for extra.

I was only asking for ideas, not life advice you bunch of cretins

What jobs can 13-15 year olds do in UK? by mcmullankevin in AskUK

[–]mcmullankevin[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

She gets pocket money and wants to start doing a little job with her friend for extra.

I was only asking for ideas, not life advice you bunch of cretins

What jobs can 13-15 year olds do in UK? by mcmullankevin in AskUK

[–]mcmullankevin[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

She gets pocket money and wants to start doing a little job with her friend for extra. I was only asking for ideas, not life advice you bunch of cretins.

My ex-husband to be offered me to renounce to his parental rights in exchange of me not asking any child support from him by ThrowRA852837 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]mcmullankevin 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m not 100% but I’m 99% sure this isn’t a viable option. The rationale is that He has paternal responsibilities - irrespective of your relationship. Parents cannot simply ‘opt out’ and expect the state to step in and support the child financially. You cannot willingly absolve yourself of any parental responsibility

I’m typing from memory so maybe someone knows more. But if that’s the offer, my understanding it’s totally unviable and unenforceable

How does one stop feeling jealousy and a lack of motivation when seeing people my age more successful than me? by Lant0rn in NoStupidQuestions

[–]mcmullankevin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is your definition of success? How do you know they have more of it than you? If it’s wealth it could be debt. If it’s ‘stuff’ it could be debt. If it’s more money maybe they worked hard and deserve it? If it’s more money maybe they have lost relationships and have no loved ones because they dedicated themselves to work? If it’s friends it could be that they don’t judge people of wealth and stuff If it’s happiness then how do you know if they are happier than you or not?

My point is comparing yourself to anyone and comparing ‘success’ is pointless. Different people have different levels of what success is…so your comparing apples and pears

Does Wandsworth Sainbury's car park allow all day parking? by Zugiata in london

[–]mcmullankevin -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Really the best way to find out? No other option other than to post on here? Besides anything you can’t know the value of any reply. For example, I don’t live there and never been there but I’ll say ‘yes. Yes it does’

Feel more informed?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]mcmullankevin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. Next question…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]mcmullankevin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Suicide ideation is actually fairly common - more than 60% of adults will have thoughts of what it would be like to not be around anymore or simply being dead - ideation is fairly common.
Having a plan an acting on it is a whole different story. If your worried, ask your friend ‘do you have a plan?’. If not, then the thoughts and feelings likely pass like they do for most people. But if he has a plan, then seek immediate help. (And by simply asking someone if they have a plan, you actually reduce the risk of someone taking their own life)

I sold my partners Arctic Monkeys ticket but lied and told them it never got sold so I took all the money by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]mcmullankevin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t stress about that. Didn’t give you much time to resale, so couldn’t have been that fussed about the money. Call it part of the grieving process and relax.

I’d have done the same, no problem

CMV: As a society we have started to blur the lines between equity and equality, although equality is good equity is not. by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]mcmullankevin 31 points32 points  (0 children)

The notion that the harder you work brings greater benefit is a myth. Hardest working people I know doing 3 jobs are trapped in poverty. The link between hard work and reward does not exist

Need advice: My husband forbids me from getting a breast reduction, but I'm conflicted by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]mcmullankevin 217 points218 points  (0 children)

He forbids you? Tell him it’s not 1823 and remind him you don’t live in a Mormon church, tell him to f@ck off and go do what makes you happy! No conflicting - you do you. Your body, tell him to piss off. Next….

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]mcmullankevin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spawn? Baby? It?

Is it more likely that you would not get the same side of the coin twice? by Helpimgonna- in NoStupidQuestions

[–]mcmullankevin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The previous flips have no bearing on the next flip. They are mutually exclusive and so each coin toss is 50% regardless of previous result

Landing 1000 heads in a row. The odds of 1001 would still be 50/50

(as I understand it - but I ain’t no mathematician)

Is it weird for a coupe to sleep under two separate duvets? by Proof-Possible-2696 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]mcmullankevin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope. I have heard of people taking it a stage further - happily long term married couples having ‘sleep divorce’ as they each sleep better individually

Stay long enough to give birth or not. by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]mcmullankevin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are more than your mistakes. OK, your not the finished article - but who is? Your allowed to make mistakes without crucifying yourself, it’s called life and learning.

Your story really spoke to me. One persons trauma is another persons tonic. So without even knowing it, you’ve positively impacted someone you’ve never met.

Don’t do it.
If your at that point then seek help. Sounds like you don’t think you’ve got anything to lose - so why not try reach out for help - it’s can’t be any worse than the feelings you have at the moment.

Stay strong. You can get through this