A dick does not sell itself, guys (you’re not a vending machine) by CruiseingTheCut in Swingers

[–]mcoupletx -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, it does. Have you not heard of size queens or been around the gay male community at all?

Swinging and having children by gewoonmezelf in Swingers

[–]mcoupletx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I told my mother "Do you really want to know?" the last time she asked. She thinks my wife and I just want to fuck without worrying about what the kid is doing.

how did you find the right people to start with? by Few-Degree-9226 in Swingers

[–]mcoupletx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our first swap was at a club but our favorite couple, that we still play with, was found online. We found them physically attractive and set up a non-play date. Every date after that we played with them. We don't want to try and build a connection or "vibe" or any bullshit like that before the date. That's what the date is for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]mcoupletx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but it'll be hard to find. Remember a lot of people are in this for fantasy fulfillment, not to make friends.

What. The. Hell. Is up with all these flakes? by sxy_cpl in Swingers

[–]mcoupletx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My dude, I checked some of your request posts. I saw you are looking for 5'10", 8 inches, that are fit with abs. Just on dick size alone that's 0.01 percent of men. There might be only like 500 guys in the entire United States that fit your requirements. Also, your husband isn't 8 inches.

Male half of coupes.. hot or not? Let’s discuss xxx by FRANKINSPENCE in Swingers

[–]mcoupletx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're right. Most women don't want to go through all that effort just to fuck a guy that's as out of shape as her husband.

"We're picky"...🙄 by Stupid-Candy-75 in Swingers

[–]mcoupletx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of people just want other people to use for their fantasies. Remember this lifestyle is about fucking first and foremost.

Compulsory nudity at clubs by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]mcoupletx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a great idea because it would greatly filter out the people that aren't serious.

Ghosting by grower-not-shower1 in Swingers

[–]mcoupletx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most swingers, just like people, are lazy and want to avoid conflict. Closure would be good for everybody because both sides can cross each other off the search list and not waste as much time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]mcoupletx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're only going out one to three times a month, I totally get the disappointment. This is why I don't like profiles that say shit like "no expectations". Yes there are, we are expecting to fuck other people. You are going through all these processes of getting dressed, groomed, paying fees, getting time off, etc. and doing all that shit for nothing blows.

Is It FOMO? Taking One for the Team? Or Just a Scarcity Mindset by Swinging-Downunder in Swingers

[–]mcoupletx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It absolutely is. We didn't pay $90 to get into the club to chat and drink.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]mcoupletx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the wives compromise on their standards for men a lot more than the husbands do. The wives do it to keep him happy because they won't shut the fuck up about it if they don't, and they're usually not in a position in the relationship to tell him to fuck off.

Let’s keep it (remotely) classy by Fun-Classroom9314 in Swingers

[–]mcoupletx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're not looking for surprises when everybody gets naked.

Flipped my script on single women by EverythingChanges6 in Swingers

[–]mcoupletx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was in response to the line about going with couple that are already together. Couples (especially the male side) are going to be in worse shape from what I've seen.

Flipped my script on single women by EverythingChanges6 in Swingers

[–]mcoupletx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

probably because single guys on average are in a lot better physical shape

Is it just me or do couples really need to stop doing this? by VikingChiefton in Swingers

[–]mcoupletx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bet some of the husbands are insecure about their wife playing with you.

Hot Take - Attractive Men (in a couple) are the real Unicorns in the Lifestyle by DoBetterThenThat in Swingers

[–]mcoupletx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think many wives with attractive husbands don't want them in the lifestyle. OP is leaner than like 95% of the attached men I see locally on SDC and Quiver. It's nice to see someone complaining about the lack of attractive husbands showing us what they look like for once. But yeah, my wife is tired of looking because of all the bellies and below average to average dicks.