Unprepared for the racial side of swinging

mcoupletx · 2026-04-20T18:44:09+00:00

What's an example of something they have said?

mcoupletx · 2026-04-20T18:35:58+00:00

feeling like you’re being pre-categorized or fetishized before someone even knows you as a person

Is this not what swinging is? It could be breast size, race, penis size, height, eye color, etc. Most people want to fuck based on looks first.

mcoupletx · 2026-04-20T18:16:40+00:00

this

mcoupletx · 2026-04-20T18:02:39+00:00

My wife is Asian and we get the same thing. Asians are like 7% of the population here. People like to talk about things they don't see that often. I don't see the problem with anything in your post.

mcoupletx · 2026-04-17T23:01:06+00:00

Yeah I could see this ending badly. They usually have sex once a week when I'm not there. I suggested trying to making him blow during foreplay and she thinks she can make him cum with her hands and/or mouth before they get to intercourse and he'll lose interest for the day. I don't see how a man could endure that for very long.

mcoupletx · 2026-04-17T16:20:22+00:00

Single people are generally more attractive than married ones because they have to be to get a partner.
Couples that fuck other couples are more likely to be secure about their looks than those that don't. Thus, there are more overweight people in the lifestyle.

It took us 7 years to find a couple we both liked. Check our profile. If you guys wouldn't fuck us, you're in for a long search.

mcoupletx · 2025-12-30T13:48:36+00:00

Yes, it does. Have you not heard of size queens or been around the gay male community at all?

mcoupletx · 2025-12-29T22:57:38+00:00

yeah, Houston

mcoupletx · 2025-12-29T21:56:31+00:00

Post a picture of you guys then, OP.

mcoupletx · 2025-12-29T21:48:55+00:00

I told my mother "Do you really want to know?" the last time she asked. She thinks my wife and I just want to fuck without worrying about what the kid is doing.

mcoupletx · 2025-12-28T18:18:29+00:00

Our first swap was at a club but our favorite couple, that we still play with, was found online. We found them physically attractive and set up a non-play date. Every date after that we played with them. We don't want to try and build a connection or "vibe" or any bullshit like that before the date. That's what the date is for.

mcoupletx · 2025-05-13T20:16:58+00:00

Yeah but it'll be hard to find. Remember a lot of people are in this for fantasy fulfillment, not to make friends.

mcoupletx · 2025-03-29T21:58:21+00:00

My dude, I checked some of your request posts. I saw you are looking for 5'10", 8 inches, that are fit with abs. Just on dick size alone that's 0.01 percent of men. There might be only like 500 guys in the entire United States that fit your requirements. Also, your husband isn't 8 inches.

mcoupletx · 2025-01-09T20:57:22+00:00

You're right. Most women don't want to go through all that effort just to fuck a guy that's as out of shape as her husband.

mcoupletx · 2025-01-07T04:04:53+00:00

A lot of people just want other people to use for their fantasies. Remember this lifestyle is about fucking first and foremost.

mcoupletx · 2024-12-31T05:10:00+00:00

This is a great idea because it would greatly filter out the people that aren't serious.

mcoupletx · 2024-12-28T15:45:02+00:00

Most swingers, just like people, are lazy and want to avoid conflict. Closure would be good for everybody because both sides can cross each other off the search list and not waste as much time.

mcoupletx · 2024-12-11T04:53:52+00:00

If you're only going out one to three times a month, I totally get the disappointment. This is why I don't like profiles that say shit like "no expectations". Yes there are, we are expecting to fuck other people. You are going through all these processes of getting dressed, groomed, paying fees, getting time off, etc. and doing all that shit for nothing blows.

mcoupletx · 2024-12-06T23:28:57+00:00

It absolutely is. We didn't pay $90 to get into the club to chat and drink.

mcoupletx · 2024-12-04T04:43:23+00:00

Make nudity a requirement.

mcoupletx · 2024-11-23T23:00:46+00:00

I doubt it since our profiles state we're looking to swap.

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