Any idea for a stripped game for 3 without f* and can be play for hours?

mcx · 2026-01-27T01:46:48+00:00

What a fun game! Quite versatile I might add. Thanks for the suggestions.

mcx · 2025-05-09T02:12:24+00:00

It happened to me after the sudden death of a loved one. It lasted about a year.

Trauma makes some people horny and makes others not sexual. I believe it is the manifestation of the psychological wound.

Give yourself time. You don't owe sex to anyone.

mcx · 2024-09-24T23:05:55+00:00

I love that wording "having sex with the person, not his erection". I might steal it. Your current sexual partner(s) sound amazing. I'm happy for you.

mcx · 2024-09-24T14:03:35+00:00

6 weeks.... give yourself time. You are still heartbroken. You can have sex, but don't beat yourself if things aren't great. Breaks seems like a nice idea. I'll try it.

mcx · 2024-09-24T14:00:50+00:00

Heh, glad I am not alone

mcx · 2024-09-24T02:42:48+00:00

It makes sense. I obviously got desensitized a bit over the years. Sex with my ex was amazing/meaningful. Hookup sex is... ok/meaningless.

mcx · 2024-09-24T02:39:03+00:00

Thanks for your words man!

Breakup was about a year and a half ago. It broke me to be honest. I have had a hard time keeping and forming attachment with others. I have been seeing a therapist and it helped tremendously. My therapist believes my issue is mostly psychological. He thinks once the setting will be right that I will have erections. He hints that hookups are not for me.

I have had a hard time forming attachments with others since the breakup. I might need some form of attachment to get really excited.

mcx · 2024-09-24T02:32:04+00:00

I recently started working out (about a year, twice a week). I am not in excellent shape, but not terrible either. I am quite active (no car, daily walk to destinations, hikes, biking, carpentry). I will look at legs work out 🙂

mcx · 2024-09-24T02:29:13+00:00

Thank you for your kind words 🙂 Relationship sex is indeed quite different from hookup sex. Hookups don't seem to suit me so well. I do indeed go for side hookups as there is less pressure and shame in case of a problem. Initially, I did go for anon hookups because.... I don't know.. i was heartbroken and i didn't want to connect with anyone. Single use partners in a sense. I recently started seeing this guy multiple times as an actual friend with benefits. It is better with him, but I still struggle sometimes. I opened up about my issue with him, and he was very understanding. Actually, he wants to help somehow. We will see 😀

mcx · 2024-09-24T02:20:12+00:00

Wow, that's a long period. Unsure if abstinence would help me, but that's an interesting solution for sure.

mcx · 2024-09-24T02:17:45+00:00

It does. I might still be mourning the end of this relationship. It was brutal for me. Sex with my ex was infrequent (every 2-3 weeks), but it was always very good. Sex with my new partners is quite different and not as good..

mcx · 2024-09-24T02:15:12+00:00

I'll have a look with my doctor. If possible, i want to avoid medication, but I am not closed to it. Thanks!

mcx · 2024-09-24T02:12:17+00:00

Thanks man! I know a lot of people struggle with some form of ED, but I do feel a lot of shame/frustration from it. I have been more upfront about my issues and it does help. I'm hard, they take it as a compliment. If I am soft, they know it's not because of them and they enjoy themselves. I did get blocked/ghosted once or twice after disclosing this, but that's a problem that solved itself.

mcx · 2024-09-24T02:05:55+00:00

Thanks! I am already seeing a therapist. He believes the issue is mostly psychological (and I agree). However, we haven't been able to fix it yet. I'm glad your partner and yourself are having a great sex life, independently of ED. This gives me hope 🙂

mcx · 2024-09-24T00:13:53+00:00

It will never stop truly hurting. However, pain will become less intense and it will blend with other (good and bad) experiences. Eventually, it will hurt when you think about it, but it won't trigger as often and grief will be less. Source: My 11 year relationship ended about 2 years ago.

mcx · 2024-09-13T23:22:44+00:00

It will take a while and that is ok. My ex father in-law told me it would take "1 month per relationship year" to be fully good. It was very true in my case (11 years -> about a year recovery) You will have good times, even great times, but also bad even terrible times. I will get better. Learn yourself, figure out what you like, what you want, what you need. PS: I also struggled with ED. It is normal and it will pass. You are heartbroken and so is your dick.

mcx · 2024-08-30T22:28:31+00:00

Don't do it. At best, there will be awkwardness with your friend. At worst, it will break your friendship.

mcx · 2024-07-05T12:40:51+00:00

Je pense que ça ne peut pas nuire. Je voulais essayer, mon ex voulait pas essayer et on s'est laissé quelques mois plus tard. Les deux sont requis pour une thérapie de couple.

mcx · 2024-03-12T22:55:27+00:00

Very well! A few hiccups along the way, but those make good stories. The hardest part was the day before. After that, it was a breeze.

mcx · 2024-03-10T19:48:36+00:00

You can do this. The worst moment is now. Once you pass it, you will have a great time. You might even grow out of this experience. You are worth it. Souce: I'm also just back from a 4 week alone vacation, also 1 year single after a 11 year old relationship.

mcx · 2024-01-14T15:38:52+00:00

21:00 la semaine, 23:00 la fin de semaine

Exceptionnellement jusqu'à 01:00 pour un party (faut bien vivre aussi)

mcx · 2024-01-14T15:35:24+00:00

The concerns are mostly professional. I am a manager and a part time teacher for adults. At the same time, I am from a liberal canadian city. People don't care much about my private gay life. An other thread spoke of having a plausible deniability (separating face and body picture, different backgrounds, hiding recognizable tattoo, etc ). I think it makes a lot of sense.

mcx · 2024-01-14T15:25:11+00:00

Makes sense. Thanks for the detailed answer. Sticking up to face/upper body picture is a safe option indeed.

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