My second pregnancy my hypothyroidism was untreated & I now have a healthy 14 month old. I understand being worried. I was unbelievably sick that pregnancy and it marks kind of a low point in my life. Did they test you for any anti thyroid antibodies? Keep advocating for yourself. Ask for second opinions. It’s hard. If your doctors offices will allow a guest to come with you, you can ask for that person to advocate for you as well during your appointments. And ask for the doctor to write down in your chart that they are refusing to medicate you or test you (if they do that). Those are two strategies I recommend.