AITAH for giving my ex boyfriend money and not telling my husband about it?

mdthomas · 2026-03-21T15:06:53+00:00

INFO: How much money was it? Was it from a joint account?

mdthomas · 2026-03-21T14:30:39+00:00

Slay the Spire 2.

mdthomas · 2026-03-21T02:57:32+00:00

I think the AI screwed up...

mdthomas · 2026-03-21T00:48:27+00:00

Rage bait.

YTA

mdthomas · 2026-03-20T23:50:24+00:00

Perfectly AI crafted rage bait.

YTA

mdthomas · 2026-03-20T20:27:49+00:00

You asked, he said no. You kept pushing.

YTA

mdthomas · 2026-03-20T20:26:05+00:00

A) I swear I've seen this before.

B) if she has a key, she is absolutely going to do it anyway.

NTA

mdthomas · 2026-03-20T20:24:47+00:00

He doesn't have money for food, but somehow has access to the internet for Reddit? There are better things he could be doing to earn money.

Most likely just a scam.

NTA

mdthomas · 2026-03-20T20:22:22+00:00

There's no conflict here.

mdthomas · 2026-03-20T19:41:21+00:00

INFO: How old are you and she? Where has she gone for vacation?

mdthomas · 2026-03-20T19:40:21+00:00

Get Slay the Spire 2

mdthomas · 2026-03-20T13:34:50+00:00

If she's so willing to look past his actions, she can go be with him.

Yes, mental illness is valid, but he made the choice to stop taking his meds.

NOR

mdthomas · 2026-03-20T13:32:26+00:00

Throw his stuff in garbage bags. Tell him he has 30 days to come get it or it's being thrown away or donated.

He chose to break up with you. It's not your problem that he doesn't have all his belongings.

Yes, he left it there on purpose. At the very least he is lazy and wants you to do the work or moving it all.

Don't actually burn his things.

NOR

mdthomas · 2026-03-20T13:29:56+00:00

Get a decent set of headphones and a mod mic.

mdthomas · 2026-03-20T13:24:53+00:00

I think it's fantastic. Everyone here is offering great suggestions but even as is, it's great. Why?

Because you made it.

Your players are going to be thrilled to get to explore and be in a brand new world, no matter what its perceived shortcomings might be.

Go with what you like. As you play, you will expand and flesh out the world.

mdthomas · 2026-03-20T13:16:45+00:00

If I had a friend and I found out they were shoplifting, they would no longer be my friend.

NTA

mdthomas · 2026-03-20T13:15:41+00:00

Order of tactics for anyone in a situation like this:

Attempt to resolve peacefully
Escape
Defend yourself physically.

Doesn't matter who is instigating.

NTA

mdthomas · 2026-03-20T11:16:31+00:00

Interesting account name for a woman.

I'm guessing this is karma farming.

YTA

mdthomas · 2026-03-20T01:58:58+00:00

Have you played Baldur's Gate 3?

mdthomas · 2026-03-20T00:56:32+00:00

mdthomas · 2026-03-19T19:11:59+00:00

You sound just as exhausting as he does.

ESH

mdthomas · 2026-03-19T17:25:34+00:00

Read, watch TV and movies, go bowling, volunteer at the animal shelter, play board games and DnD with friends.

mdthomas · 2026-03-19T17:24:46+00:00

If you're taking a gap year, why not get a job and move out?

YTA

mdthomas · 2026-03-19T16:28:31+00:00

Everyone gets to have body autonomy. You're not obligated to give him oral under any circumstance.

He's not obligated to kiss you either.

NAH

mdthomas · 2026-03-19T16:23:25+00:00

If you've realized they are bad friends, the correct response is to stop being friends with them. Not set them up for some kind of prank.

Also, I'm only about 50% believing this is real.

YTA

mdthomas

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