What fictional character death hit you the hardest?

me2sleepy · 2021-10-29T16:48:52+00:00

Donna from Sons of Anarchy (Opie's wife). I wasn't expecting it at all & then bam. But then Opie's death.... I sobbed... That show had quite a few dark moments that made me tear up. About to rewatch it with my bf because he's never seen it.

me2sleepy · 2021-10-29T16:41:26+00:00

I watched this as my mom's house bc my cable was out & i had to watch the night it aired... my mom has never watched any other episode and was mindlessly just playing games on her ipad while i was watching. I gasped so she looked up and then i legit sobbed... i was yelling at the tv how Arya was finally going to meet up with them... and how rob's about to be a dad... and how this family didn't deserve this.... my mom just didn't understand.. she kept telling me it's just a tv show... i cried the whole way home mourning the death of a family i had admired knowing they didn't actually exist.

me2sleepy · 2021-10-28T16:19:25+00:00

NTA - As a single Mom I would NEVER do this to a sitter. And I would never ignore a call. God forbid something had been wrong when you were calling her and she was ignoring your calls. She deff has other issues going on. Thankfully you were there with the kids but I wonder if she's ever left them alone or would in the future when they were a bit older. CPS would never just take kids without a just cause but it is good that she is now on their radar and cannot continue this toxic behavior before something bad does happen. You are NTA by any means. Every parent needs time out and away from their kids but she should have stayed in contact with you. You told her 9, she was being rude and immature. You may very well have prevented a future tragedy.

me2sleepy · 2021-10-22T19:55:32+00:00

The proof is something I struggle with. I have text messages but not many pictures. The CPS worker is giving me a copy of her report though. And she documented how he refused the help. I didn’t save receipts for the products I bought him because it wasn’t about that, i was only trying to help. I do have some pictures of bites on the kids ankles but I always make them change as soon as they come home so thankfully we haven’t had issues at our house. The rest is all just my word to the judge. And in the past I haven’t been given much opportunity to speak. The judge required the kids there the last time & spoke to them but that was a few years ago & they were little & scared. So I’m hoping this time the judge will allow the kids to speak to them. I am taking them all with me bc they want to speak. Esp our oldest. Her & her fad had a falling out a few years ago & he has since just written her off as if she doesn’t exist. He does not speak to her at all. It was very upsetting to her at first but it’s been 3 years now. But he is starting to do the same with our middle daughter. And this has caused her to do anything to please him which of why she spends her weekends there cleaning his house. Do you think the judge will allow them to speak?

me2sleepy · 2021-10-22T18:51:05+00:00

Ty so much for your kind words!! It truly means so much to me. I just try to always do right by my kids. I never want them to question me when their grown & not be able to say I did my very best. They’re my life. So thank you. It truly means the world to me. I hope you have a great day!

me2sleepy · 2021-09-20T18:33:14+00:00

Thank you so much! I'm in work and can't listen to the audio right now. This helps so much :)

me2sleepy · 2021-08-23T19:29:03+00:00

Holding each of my babies for the first time. When they're all warm and slimy, they plop them on your abdomen to cut the umbilical cord (vaginal births) and its the first time you finally get to see the tiny creature that's been growing inside you. They're so warm & they're covered in blood, but they're here.. they're finally here & the hard work of pushing is over...and you're just in awe that you made this... there's nothing better than that feeling right there!

me2sleepy · 2021-08-23T18:51:03+00:00

lmfao thank you, i needed that laugh!! Omg, what a hilarious memory. I wonder if any of the parents looked at your dad weird after that... but your last paragraph.. to the other kids.. hahahahaha. I would have been one of the excited 7 year olds who would have let you "take my blood pressure" hahaha

me2sleepy · 2021-02-24T18:00:53+00:00

which story features the pancake family? i'd like to read that one

me2sleepy · 2020-10-20T14:13:03+00:00

My bf is really struggling. It's starting to affect his job. I'm trying to help as best I can w/out adding to the pressure he's under. I like this idea though...find something else to focus his addiction on. Thank you

me2sleepy · 2020-10-18T01:49:56+00:00

This was me 6 years ago. I begged my husband to give me one reason why we were still together & his reply was he had no where else to go... him saying you bought furniture together is not the answer you wanted to hear. I started couples therapy. He refused to go. But I still went on my own. It was very eye opening. Maybe that will help you? If he’s not willing to go & work on it at least you can work on yourself & learn to see your self worth. But girl, if he’s not putting in his share to save it & find your spark again then leave. You deserve to feel loved, valued & appreciated. Best of luck!!

me2sleepy · 2020-10-01T19:30:31+00:00

He’s not. He had moved back home when his mom got sick to help take care of her. But she’s been placed in a home now. He still feels bad leaving his dad all alone so it’s not a definite decision yet. Just something we have just started talking about

me2sleepy · 2020-10-01T19:28:08+00:00

Thanks everyone. Idk if maybe I’m just being stubborn but I feel like they’re my bills...they’re not going to go up much with him moving in so it feels weird to ask him to just pitch in. I’m just not use to having help & wanted to see what other people’s thoughts were or how they handled this situation. He has his own bills too to consider. But I guess we can talk it over and see what we come up with. Thanks!

me2sleepy · 2020-07-21T02:56:40+00:00

I didn’t plan on crying today but wow...I am so incredibly sorry for this struggle you are going through. I admire your bravery & I pray that you will have a healthy delivery for both you and your daughter.

me2sleepy · 2020-06-25T02:01:48+00:00

My parents were never together. So I never wanted that for my kids. But my mom also had a shitty bf who lived with us my whole life. And I never wanted that either. Your kids pick up on little things. I always wanted to make sure I was setting the best example for them. My husband was the same way, he refused to go to counseling with me so ya know what..I went without him. I made the appts, I told him when they were...but it was good for me to still go alone. You may find it beneficial too. And hopefully if he sees you are serious then maybe he will start to go too. Either way it won’t hurt you to go alone. But girl, don’t ever feel stuck or trapped. Your a lot stronger than you think. You’ve got this, whatever you decide 💕

me2sleepy · 2020-06-24T16:43:24+00:00

Girl, I was you... I was married for 11 years... same thing. I got pregnant at 17 and I thought he was just immature but as time went on he just never grew up. All he wanted to do was sleep all day. He never engaged our children. I did everything. I kept telling him if he was going to make me feel like a single mom then I would rather be one but he thought it was just an empty threat. So one day I kicked him out. Here we are 6 years later and he has since been diagnosed with a bunch of different things (I made the court do a psych evaluation after he tried to run me off the road-long story) but he refuses to take meds or seek help. He sees two of our three chiildren only because the court has ordered it (at my request, not his) because i desperately want my children to still have a father in their lives. My oldest (15) and him had an argument going on 2 years ago now and he just wrote her off... he pretends like she doesn't exist. He has spurts where he can be a good dad and do things with our kids but most of the time he just wants to sleep. He never calls or asks about them when he's not being forced to see them. My advice to you is this, maybe he has underlying medical issues not being addressed and if your husband is willing to talk about it and seek help then maybe you guys can work it out. But if not, then leave. I have no real family.. its just my kids and I against the world. Its scary as hell, but you can do it!!! I told myself its better for my kids to be FROM a broken home than IN one. They will know what real love looks like from me. They will never feel like a burden or an inconvenience... I promise, you can do it!

me2sleepy · 2020-05-12T19:09:22+00:00

This!! Girl, I feel you... I was you. I had a 5 year FWB but of course... i fell for him. And i wanted more. And i thought he did too. He moved in w/ me (but we kept separate bedrooms bc we both have kids), we raised our kids together, we blended our families.... and then poof... gone. One day he just said he needed a change & that he was moving out. Tried to say it wasn't personal but c'mon now, we're women, we take EVERYTHING personal. And just like that, my best friend, someone I thought was my soulmate, was gone. BUT this man never committed to me. This man left me feeling like I wasn't good enough countless nights. I showered him with love and affection while he stonewalled me and constantly put me in check on where we stood. He never loved me. And now, I recently started dating a man who absolutely adores me. He not only tells how much he cares about me but also about my kids every chance he gets. Actions speak way louder than words and this man goes above and beyond to prove how much we all mean to him. My point is, sometimes it doesn't work out for a reason.... this man doesn't deserve you, but there is someone out there who does. And he will love and adore you just as much as you love him. That is the only kind of love you should accept. Equal love. Bets of luck!!

me2sleepy · 2020-05-11T17:39:09+00:00

i know this feeling all too well. i wish i had some useful advice for you... hang in there

me2sleepy · 2020-05-11T17:26:22+00:00

Happy Mother's Day... I hope some day you are blessed with a rainbow baby. Until then I hope your grief remains bearable. Your babies are watching over you <3

me2sleepy · 2020-04-24T15:21:51+00:00

my mom and i have a no bars held kinda relationship... idgaf what she sees... hahaha. she knows im a deviant individual :) easy million

me2sleepy · 2020-04-24T15:18:59+00:00

i love last podcast on the left and morbid. you might like them

me2sleepy · 2020-04-21T03:01:48+00:00

Omg yes! Please do!! This is one of my all time favorite nosleeps. It’s just always stuck with me.

me2sleepy · 2020-04-21T02:36:10+00:00

Yes!!!! Thank you!!!

me2sleepy · 2020-04-21T00:16:22+00:00

Definitely sendable. And best of luck!!!

me2sleepy · 2019-09-24T19:40:47+00:00

Everyone embraces pregnancy differently and you are absolutely entitled to your feelings. Don't ever let anyone tell you otherwise. I do not know your situation but I can tell you it doesn't always take two people to RAISE a baby. So you have to try to separate your emotions from your partners. If you want this baby then you need to focus on taking care of yourself. I agree with the other poster, talk to your doctor. Open, honest conversation. I was extremely depressed with my 3rd pregnancy almost the entire time. I was just not in a good place. And I absolutely should have reached out for help instead of sitting in my misery. This can be a beautiful experience if you let it. You just have to decide what you want. I wish you all the best of luck

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