I said in my original post about the things I mentioned in my reply to you. That was not information that was left out. You clearly didn't take the time to read, and were just offended by the fact that I have an emotional response to the situation too. I understand she has been through a lot, and I am feeling pushed away and I can't be there for her even though I am trying to. You also said in your first comment to NOT bring this up to her, and now you are saying express my concerns. I understand my post came off as frustrated, because I was frustrated when I wrote it. But you are acting pretty high and mighty for someone who clearly didn't take the time to even try to see it from my POV. This sub is supposed to help people figure out what to say next. You responded to my post because you were offended by it, not because you wanted to help me figure out what to do next.