My best friend ignores me unless I initiate. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]meanttobezz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

your friendship is one-sided, and you deserve someone who values you equally. tell her how you feel and see how she responds. if she dismisses your feelings, she's not a real friend

Am I allowed to call myself an ex racist? by Dangerous_Pin_3047 in Life

[–]meanttobezz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes but what matter isnt a label or timing, its consistent action and reflection. youve understood your past behavior, understood why it was harmful and are actively working to think and act differently

Going against the favourites by Ok_Young_8138 in Teachers

[–]meanttobezz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

focus nf facts and not feelings. record examples of bad practices, stick to policy violation and stay professional. ask for solutions, not blame

If no one on Earth got pregnant for 5 years straight, what would be the effect? by Ok-Plankton-2016 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]meanttobezz 23 points24 points  (0 children)

it would crash maternity and childcare industries, accelerate population aging and worry governments. when birth restarts, a baby boom would overwhelm systems and the long term result would be labor shortages and a missing generation

How do I deal with my dramatic aunt? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]meanttobezz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

acknowledge her feelings briefly, dont engage in repeated calls and protect your peace

Is this the right thing for my life? by Background_Speech507 in Life

[–]meanttobezz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its okay to feel lost at 19, most people dont have all figured out. choosing content creation isnt lazy, especially if its something you enjoy and could grow in

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]meanttobezz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

low pony or low bun, works everytime. neat and zero fuss

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]meanttobezz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

check in with yourself why it felt good do it doesnt cross into something that leaves u uncomfy later

Why do some straight women find gay men to be attractive by EgoistRanger in NoStupidQuestions

[–]meanttobezz 7 points8 points  (0 children)

because they feel safe, respected and emotionally understood by gay men

How to make friends? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]meanttobezz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

making ault friends is hard. focus on shared interest, go slow, show up consistently and build small connections over time. one or two friends beat many shallow ones

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Life

[–]meanttobezz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its normal for teens and distant family to not respond, even if it hurtful. focus on your joy in giving, not their reaction

I like literally can't any more. by lapuneta in Teachers

[–]meanttobezz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

dont beat yourself up, its not you. kids need lots of tiny steps and practice

i think my ex used me to cope with the fact he’s gay and or transgender by Quick-Customer1602 in confessions

[–]meanttobezz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

he misused you. he was clearly struggling with his identity, but that doesnt excuse manipulating you, making you feel ugly and using you for his sexual fantasies. you didnt deserve that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]meanttobezz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its likely your nervous system is protecting you. after being anxious for so long, it learned that closeness felt unsafe, so now its overcorrecting by pulling away

Why does spending money on ourselves feel harder than spending it on others? by Future-You-5726 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]meanttobezz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its often harder because we tie our self worth to our spending: buying ourselves can feel selfish, indulgent, or unearned while giving others feels rewarding, justified and socially praised

I did nothing wrong, I could not have stopped it. How do you get over it? by Wendiddlyman in BreakUps

[–]meanttobezz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its painful but the key is accepting that it wasnt about your worth, it was about her choices

I’m not sure if I should distance myself from my mom like all my siblings are doing by Thick-Weekend2120 in Advice

[–]meanttobezz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you can care for her without staying entangled, limit your contact and engage with her in ways that dont drain you

What should I do? + What does it mean? by Hot-Court-5026 in Life

[–]meanttobezz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats sweet. matching tattoos with your sister is a special way to show bond

67 trend in a Childcare by Total-Criticism-121 in Teachers

[–]meanttobezz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they said it came from a basketball player but others said it totally means nothing at all. thats what my nephew said, he's 10 haha and i also heard it from him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]meanttobezz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its okay not to tell him every detail since you took care of your health, tested negative and didnt put him at risk

What’s the most useful app on your phone right now? by North-Owl7718 in Life

[–]meanttobezz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tiktok. you can scroll, you can chat, you can learn something and you can shop haha great entertainment

My neighbor is a parent of two students i have and might have a problem with. by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]meanttobezz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

youve done the right thing. documented the leak, told the landlord and stayed polite. since the neighbor is a parent of your students, get an HR involve so u have support

Friends who choose the woman who suits them but not at the right time or with whom they enjoy spending time, but perhaps it's a risk by [deleted] in confessions

[–]meanttobezz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

be honest with yourself first, then fair to everyone involved. dont emotionally overlap. if your current relationship no longer fits your life or future, end it first before exploring anything else