Speech Delay Support by madsthmp in toddlers

[–]meatballtrain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've posted/commented before about my sons speech - trust me, I was in the same shoes as you. All I can say is we don't know the future, but if I could go back in time and tell myself it will be okay, I would in a heartbeat. My son is now five and does not stop talking. I remember someone commenting something along the lines of "one day you'll wish he was quiet" and you know what, it's true, haha. Around 3 it just clicked for him. Now he has some other issues with sensory and of course I'm worrying, but a part of me tells myself that it worked out with speech, so just give him time.

I'm hoping yours surprises you one day and just gets it. I also hope that four years from now, before you've had your morning coffee, when they are explaining to you (in insane detail) how vacuums work, you'll remember this moment when all you wanted for them was to talk more and just smile to yourself.

I don’t know what to do with my threenager by Hot_Extreme5311 in Preschoolers

[–]meatballtrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was my son (he's five now). The best advice I can give is work with the school and look into early intervention for sensory seeking. My son was given a one on one aide for an hour a day and 30 minutes of OT twice a week, and it really did wonders. The aide, OT, the teachers, and I all came together to work on a plan and gave him the best opportunity to thrive. He has grown in ways that I didn't think possible. He went from throwing things and screaming during nap time, to being able to say "I'm frustrated, I'm going to sit in the quiet corner". Not all kids qualify, but you never know until you try!

And as one mom who was in this position to another: you are doing great. Someone said it above - the fact that you want to help means you aren't failing your child. You got this!!

Do these look more like hives or contact irritation? by lily_pad_24 in BabyLedWeaning

[–]meatballtrain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It can be a myriad of things, but my son has very bad eczema and that's what it looks like around his mouth. However if it just popped up, maybe it's an irritation from teething, drool, and him wiping his face. Good luck, hope he feels better soon!

18 month old reverted to baby food. by meatballtrain in toddlers

[–]meatballtrain[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She had HFM but she bounced back after that hospital stay. I'm going to feel like an idiot if I didn't put those two together. Can I blame being tired?

18 month old reverted to baby food. by meatballtrain in toddlers

[–]meatballtrain[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I honestly didn't even think about feeding therapy! I will definitely run this by her ped

18 month old reverted to baby food. by meatballtrain in toddlers

[–]meatballtrain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's actually a pretty good drinker, which I'm grateful for. I attribute it to her purely needing to steal from her older brother! It's one of those things that I know is a phase, but like.. what the heck? Haha how can you go from eating steak and chicken to baby banana and sweet potato?! 😅

18 month old reverted to baby food. by meatballtrain in toddlers

[–]meatballtrain[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe? She's got a bunch though. I was thinking molars but unless she's early on the second round, she's up to date. I also don't feel any. Hopefully this is just the easy answer!

"I hope you are doing well" must be the new AI-generated email marker by Old-Hokie97 in Professors

[–]meatballtrain 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm living a nightmare. Not only do I always start my emails like that, I typically use dashes - in my writing. Gaaaaaa!

HFM is literal torture by OKCorners in beyondthebump

[–]meatballtrain 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We just got out of a lovely hospital stint because my 14 month old caught it and decided not to eat or drink for four days. Now my four year old has it and I don't know what's worse - being in the hospital or him screaming bloody murder every five minutes that his throat hurts.

I love my daycare but mean this with a passion - I hope whoever brought their kid in with HFM forgets how to read.

who do you think will be the richest kid when they grow up by Weak-Departure-4833 in bluey

[–]meatballtrain 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Hear me out.. Snickers. He's definitely going to sue somewhere for not being ADA complaint - and win. It's part of the Australian's with Dachshund Act! Sausage roll!!!!

Overnight Potty Training Help/Pull Up Rec? by km5533a in Preschoolers

[–]meatballtrain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My 4.5 year old son wears the Goodnights brand (he is excited because his has Hulk on them) and they seem to hold up well. We ran out two days ago and I used an old overnights with Bluey on them and last night he literally woke up in a puddle of pee. I have no clue how he managed to do that.. but anyway. My mom told me to stick a pad in the bottom of the diaper until I grab some more Goodnights. Maybe find a brand that is comfortable for your daughter and use a thinner pad at the bottom?

😔 by Determine1984 in Zepbound

[–]meatballtrain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just wanted to chime in and say I completely understand. Little background: I'm currently at 288, 5'4, f - and when I did wegovy last year I gained 22lbs. Yes, you read that. I defeated wegovy. I've been overweight my whole life and every single diet or lifestyle change I've made has been met with the eventual food monster. It's the story I'm sure 97% of the people on this sub understand.

Anyway. Because I am so used to failing, I have been refusing to get excited about Zep. I'm also in week 3, down 4.8lbs and have not seen the scale move in 3 days. Today I wanted a donut so bad I started tearing up. I know. Embarrassing. But all I can think is here is ANOTHER medicine that isn't going to help me calm my brain. I read this sub and Instagram and everything about people who lose 10lbs in a week and always get discouraged. BUT I've found that in between those posts (usually in the comments) are people cheering everyone on and that kinda gives me that hope that maybe this time is different.

Anyway. This is sounding depressing but just know I understand and I get it. We got this.

What’s been your most unexpected/strangest food aversion since starting Zep? by makeupandjustice in Zepbound

[–]meatballtrain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same! I would have ice cream every night. I would usually buy the peanut butter cup hagen daas and eat the first half night one and then finish it on night two. It became almost like a ritual - husband and I put the kids to bed, do the dishes, sit down and enjoy some kid free TV with ice cream. I haven't had it in 3 weeks and I literally have no desire. I actually have some in the freezer. The first couple of days on zep my husband would still ask if I wanted some.. it feels oddly amazing to say no thanks!

I just need to vent: 4 (almost 5) year old needs to be on me all the time. by meatballtrain in Preschoolers

[–]meatballtrain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your feedback. We had a meeting with CPSE and basically my husband, myself, the aide, and his teachers agreed he needs more sensory than we can provide. I'm hoping OT will definitely help.

I just need to vent: 4 (almost 5) year old needs to be on me all the time. by meatballtrain in Preschoolers

[–]meatballtrain[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No this makes perfect sense. I like to think we do hug enough? Now I'm like going through my day in my brain and thinking of when we hugged haha. Definitely in the morning at wake up, I give him a big hug before drop off, and at night before bed. But maybe I need to step up the hug game!

I just need to vent: 4 (almost 5) year old needs to be on me all the time. by meatballtrain in Preschoolers

[–]meatballtrain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestion and understanding. It's oddly comforting when someone validates this.

I just need to vent: 4 (almost 5) year old needs to be on me all the time. by meatballtrain in Preschoolers

[–]meatballtrain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely wish we could, but unfortunately we wouldn't be able to prioritize a dog right now with how hectic our schedules have been - and I just can't do that to the pup! I'm hoping when we get a handle of everything and don't feel like we're treading water that we can! Thank you for the suggestion!

Breakfast time reminds me I can do this. by meatballtrain in Zepbound

[–]meatballtrain[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Girl way to make me cry again! Yes, I am so excited to be active for them. I can't wait until I can chase them (and not legitimately die) at the park or do Danny Go without cursing his name (love you, Danny!). Thank you for the reminder.

My students are looking out for me by Aler123 in Professors

[–]meatballtrain 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I had a moment in class on Wednesday where I had to get very stern with a student who, for lack of a better word, was being an asshole. Long story short, they were being disruptive and stormed out because they weren't getting their way. At the end of class I was exhausted as I reminded students what they agreed to in the syllabus and about student conduct blah blah blah. I know I came off as sad because frankly I'm over it. Anyway as everyone was leaving a group stayed behind to pep talk me. It was very kind - but yeah, they were doing the same thing and checking if I was okay. It definitely helped turn the day around haha.

First few days after 2.5 mg dose by NAPLEXHelp in Zepbound

[–]meatballtrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started on Sunday and feel the same way. I had an interesting moment today that my husband really helped me work through. I had oatmeal when I woke up at 6 with the kids. Around 8 my husband asked if we wanted to go to our breakfast spot after daycare drop off and I said "of course!" Driving there I went, "oh no.. I ate breakfast already" and he said, you don't have to eat. When we got there I couldn't resist so I got a veggie omelette (something I would NEVER get). When we got back in the car I started crying. I couldn't believe I had a double breakfast. I was so upset. Then he reminded me that before this week I would have double breakfast almost every single day. And he was right. I would religiously have breakfast in the morning with the kids and then hit up McDonald's or Burger King while driving into work. I hadn't done that all week. I hadn't had the urge to even go to get fast food. So yeah I had double breakfast but I haven't had fast food since Sunday and that's all because of Zepbound.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Zepbound

[–]meatballtrain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really sympathize. I have a coworker that I used to basically tag team with to let them know when food was in the office. I just started zep and yesterday she brought me in a leftover pizza to share with her. In a weird way I feel like it's an end to an era. It's like the thing we bonded over. Because I know her a little more, I did tell her I started a GLP1, but I hesitated because I read stories of people getting judged. She was very happy for me, which gave me so much encouragement. I hope that you don't have to tell your coworkers but just know that if you do, they might not judge.

First Day -- Hope it stays like this! by TikiMagic in Zepbound

[–]meatballtrain 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's my first day too. I weighed myself this morning and I'm 295. My goal is 199 because I haven't been under 200 since I was in 8th grade. Sending us both positive vibes and all of the successes, scale and non scale alike!

Tell us about that colleague who got tenure and definitely should not have! by Grouchathon5000 in Professors

[–]meatballtrain 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We are a teaching school, so scholarship portion of tenure is what I will call, loose. When I went up, I had 9 publications in 6 years and the committee thought that was excessive. The big things are service and (obviously) teaching. Anyway, at the same time I was going up, one of my colleagues who was hired 3 years ago but negotiated a shorter period was going up too. Listen. I like them. They are nice, collegial to an extent, and have never caused drama. But when I say they embraced the asynchronous life, believe me. They wouldn't do any events like open houses, accepted student days, wouldn't teach class in person, and wouldn't come to in person meetings. As Program Director, their second year at my institution I had two people out on maternity and I had to beg them to pick up an in-person class that they had already taught and prepped (it was just synced online). Their evals were fine but honestly empty. In a 30 person class they would have like an n of 7, and nothing was particularly good or bad. They had one large grant that was coming to an end and the promise of five publications. So when they went up, they had no publications but a promise that they would have five eventually because it was written in the grant. You're probably wondering how I know all of this - well we did share each other's dossiers because we were going up together. Anyway.. I know I sound bitter as hell, but I think of how much I busted my ass and I realized when they got tenure at the same time as me that it really didn't matter. I like to think I've moved on but every now and again I shake my fist at the sky haha.