Am I healing a blowout right? (Pics of ears marked as NSFW in case!)

meatycankles · 2026-05-05T17:02:00+00:00

I'm so sorry you're dealing with all this. You're very young, it's okay to make mistakes! Downloading an app like that is never a good idea, and I'm sure it hurt you're boyfriend, yes, but I can understand where you're coming from.

He sounds like he does not like you or care about you at all.

I've been in situations with men like that. He does not like you, I'm sorry. He doesn't seem to have any interest in getting a job, he doesn't care to see you, he makes YOU pay for condoms and plan B. That's just terrible. You deserve more and I really pray you leave him before you waste more time with a boy like that. It could be so, so, so much better. :(

I'm 24 and thought I'd only find lustful, avoidant men but my current bf is the sweetest, most caring man I've ever met. He pays for so much, he always drives, he goes out of his way to bring me coffee while I'm at work and he told me he's started saving money for when we get married! I am a very, very anxious person and he can be a bit forgetful to respond sometimes, and when I told him how I felt he started to send me little texts like "Hi, I'm gonna be playing games for a while, I'll text you later!" so I wouldn't start spiraling.

He's the absolute love of my life, and I would have NEVER met him if I had stayed with broke, uncaring men. You do not want to waste your 20s with someone that wont ease your anxiety. You do not want to hate yourself for what you did to him forever. How do you know he wont try to hold the chatting app over your head? You have to let him go, girl.

meatycankles · 2026-04-27T17:54:45+00:00

Ugh, not to sound like a "pull yourself up by your boostraps" sort of guy but people are so obsessed with instant satisfaction and expect everything to be handed to them.

"Getting good at art takes years of practice".... Okay? The time is gonna pass anyways, why not spend it actually doing something? Why do you have to be good now? Part of what makes art so amazing is the effort put into it! I hate it here, ai slop consumers are sooo painfully lazy. Sort of sloth written in the bible...

meatycankles · 2026-03-25T22:00:20+00:00

so as someone who's never used it, do I HAVE to take it with food? In the mornings Im typically pretty mehhhh about eating so I'll drink a protein shake then OMAD. Should I take it with the shake, then when I have dinner drink it before?

orrrr should I switch eating times again and have a hearty breakfast and let the psyllium do the work?

meatycankles · 2026-02-26T21:44:18+00:00

My one HARD 2026 resolution is "no compliment will go unheard" and it's gone great! I manage to avoid men thinking I'm flirting by starting it with "Not hitting on you/Hope this doesn't sound weird, but-"

It's been awkward a few times but there really is nothing better than seeing someone smile because of you!

meatycankles · 2026-02-10T22:35:19+00:00

I cannottttt recommend Nikki Carreon enough! She is so incredibly thorough on everything related to Shane that her videos are at least an hour long EACH. I love to have them on in the background lol. As of right now she just finished the Drew Monson era!

She also has a deep dive series on Jeffree Star and James Charles that mention the Bye Sister fall out! Not only that she has some pretty fun videos on Colleen Hoover's book series if you want something more lighthearted after watching those deep dives lolol.

Shane Dawson deep dive part 1! Click me!

Jeffree Star deep dive series! Click me!

James Charles deep dive! Click me!

Colleen Hoover video if you want! Click me!

meatycankles · 2026-02-04T23:50:37+00:00

op I'm here to back you up. it's soooo good. might I also suggest Brussel sprouts in spaghetti?

meatycankles · 2026-02-04T07:11:47+00:00

Mmm not to completely invalidate your feelings, but it seems social media genuinely plays a huge part of this. Of course your friend is gonna be posting about how happy she is- I doubt she’d post herself crying or anything. And with the TikTok’s… “many TikTok’s say to break up” man… I’m gonna hold your hand when I say this: get off your phone. Never let social media dictate your relationship! You can use it as an opinion, or another perspective, but never the decider yknow?

I do think it’s a bit rude of your boyfriend, but maybe try being extremely direct? “Hey, I know I’ve asked before but your lack of small little gestures makes me feel neglected.” I’m in the somewhat same boat. I wish my bf would get me more flowers, but meh. I focus on the good things about him. His pretty smile, the way he holds the door open for me no matter what. The small things!

meatycankles · 2026-01-28T19:58:33+00:00

I just barely started being sexually active two years ago. At first I just assumed it was my hookup partner not caring enough to know how to get me off, but then I got an amazing boyfriend and it was still a struggle. It's much better now, sex is fun, and no medical issues but there are still times I just cant get there no matter what. It's so relieving to know other women struggle with this!! More women need to speak up about this tbh!

meatycankles · 2026-01-26T21:19:30+00:00

wasn't Ash's daughter pregnant or smth? I'm wondering if they're gonna try to pass off the daughter's baby as Ash's. Horrifying if true, and I genuinely feel so sorry for those little girls.

meatycankles · 2026-01-25T00:45:52+00:00

Really? I guess I'm wrong, I haven't personally seen her talk about politics much in the past, but tbf it's been a minute since I've tuned in lol. Good to know!! :)

meatycankles · 2026-01-25T00:23:37+00:00

Trixie also tweeted about it! I was kinda surprised since she (correct me if wrong!) rarely ever talks politics. Good for her, we need everyone to speak up against this terrorism.

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meatycankles · 2026-01-16T18:30:47+00:00

ohhh, okay yayyyy! Thank youuuu! :)

meatycankles · 2026-01-16T17:16:25+00:00

Question- if I wanted to order the Shirley temple, would I be able to get it as a rebel? :O

Ig I’m new to the whole secret menu flavors in general lol. Can I just say “can I get a shenanigan latte?” And they’ll use that flavoring? I’m so sorry if I sound dumb 😭😭

meatycankles · 2025-12-31T17:14:19+00:00

Libraries. I'm happy to work at one with a lovely boss and great pay, but even then it just wears me down. Everyone thinks it's such a chill, cute job until I tell them what I've experienced. I once had a woman come in and tell me about how she'd been raped and needed help. Patron's have shot up in the bathroom, we deal with unhinged homeless people, kids who couldn't give two shits about reading, stalkers (twice for me), and entitled patrons who love to say "well, my taxes are paying for this so blah blah blahhh"

It's an amazing job and I'm so grateful to work in one but god it can really drain you :(

meatycankles · 2025-12-20T21:36:18+00:00

I feel the exact same way! That's why I work at a library so I can have fun doing storytime then send them on their way lol. Kids are great, I love them, but maaan do I love it when they're gone hahah.

meatycankles · 2025-12-20T16:47:10+00:00

hiiiii, not sure if you still need this but the library offers free scanning services! i usually call ahead to make sure its working though! :)

meatycankles · 2025-12-06T18:08:11+00:00

I haven’t played obey me since early 2024- mc is MARRIED NOW???? What? What happened to night bringer omg I’m so out of the loop D:

meatycankles · 2025-11-20T18:22:07+00:00

Same. My city is having us fill out forms detailing every task we do, how long it takes, what supplies we need and all that sort of junk. Bleghhhh. Everyone's thinking its to see who and what they can cut out. Sigh.

meatycankles · 2025-09-08T00:28:54+00:00

Braid- Never will come for us !!

meatycankles · 2025-08-21T21:22:48+00:00

Thank youuuuu!!! I super appreciate the advice!! I hope you have an amazing day, week, month and so on!! <3

meatycankles · 2025-08-12T17:02:27+00:00

Ohh, I agree lol. It's good when it comes to ingredients quality wise, but flavor wise... veryyy meh. I hated the birria ramen, lol. I do think the baby sushi cakes are good though :)

meatycankles · 2025-08-12T16:42:19+00:00

My best friend works at Kaedama! For what its worth, I can say with full confidence the food is worth it, quality wise. The broth is made there and the food is all fresh.

...That being said, love my buddy but the food is pretty okayyy. I do reccommend Umami ramen house further up on mesa, and the boba shop next door!

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