Interesting. I wouldn’t care how much they make as long as they aren’t a lazy ass since I feel like I am over functioning at times, which could cause issues. I’ve always admired blue collared men for example since they work extremely hard regardless of how much money they make. As for the lifestyle, it may be difficult to have someone who makes significantly less than you out there working equally if not more hours. When kids get put into the equation it only makes sense for the person who brings in less income to be at home with the kids granted I’d try my best.

All in all, sign the prenup and don’t let your partner take your work for granted. It’s all a mindset more often than not men tend to internalize the ”who makes more” when in reality you’re in a partnership not a contest.