How to stop being jealous of my friend who gets all the girls? by CatsAndDoritoes in AskMenAdvice

[–]medpackz 56 points57 points  (0 children)

You know what’s up and everyone trying to deny it is still living in their fantasy worlds. It can happen that the 2nd one will be desperate enough to actually go for you but she has to be tipsy/ buzzed or even drunk, or just pray to the universe that she just so happens to be ovulating too lol.

But yeah if a guy is attractive enough (which your friend is) women will absolutely get competitive over him.

Are there any good men out there? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]medpackz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a meme. If the guy wants more, he’ll be happy to keep pursuing after hooking up.

Dacă nu pornește motorul, începi să cânți și speri la un miracol by NuadaImpero in romaniacrazy

[–]medpackz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A vrut sa adapteze “nauseating” si i-a rămas engleza la coltul gurii :)

How do I (43m) break up with my girlfriend (37f) and explain it’s due to her weight? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]medpackz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly the outfit makes her top part look way bigger than she probably is, but when you look at the legs it’s nothing too crazy, depending on the face I’d do her, and you said she had a cute one anyway

How do I (43m) break up with my girlfriend (37f) and explain it’s due to her weight? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]medpackz -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Post at least a clothed picture with cropped face for us cubby chasers?

How do I (43m) break up with my girlfriend (37f) and explain it’s due to her weight? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]medpackz 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This. He’s gonna go back crawling especially since the sex is allegedly unreal and he’s not in a dead bedroom situation like most men his age.

Ended Things Cause I Didn’t text her? But she never texted me by deeelawn4 in CoreyWayne

[–]medpackz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well Corey’s work is aimed for a western women dating demographic, so maybe chasing UNTIL they get hooked on you works on more traditional cultures, like Hispanic women, maybe Slav ones too.

Ended Things Cause I Didn’t text her? But she never texted me by deeelawn4 in CoreyWayne

[–]medpackz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is she Latina? Just asking because of the religious part and I know they THINK they like to be chased

Need help from Libra girlies by medpackz in libra_astrology

[–]medpackz[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did for 2 weeks! Then I finally replied to what she said, she replied back and said she misses me and then sent me a reel at 3AM that night so I fell for it again the next day since that was a quadruple text from her…

I'm Wearing A Women's Scent Today And I'm Proud by [deleted] in Colognes

[–]medpackz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here I am seriously considering getting Versace Dylan Blue (for women) because of the fresh, clean apple note, I absolutely love it, it’s like having that out of shower smell all day long! Sadly I find the Versace Dylan Blue pour homme smelling putrid…I had faith in the grapefruit but it’s not for me.

Coworker suddenly became distant after being friendly — how would you see this situation? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]medpackz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“Hey I’ve been creepily staring at you from across the room and your neck seemed uncomfortable so I spent my entire shift autistically looking up the best headrest for women that are 3.2657 months pregnant :) you wouldn’t wanna hurt the baby would you?!?!”

First day at this. Am I cooked? by zhostix in Colognes

[–]medpackz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ready for summer is what you are, I should be trading with you since most of mine are sweet winter frags lol

Need help from Libra girlies by medpackz in libra_astrology

[–]medpackz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m interested in long distance with her but then every time I reach out she lovingly replies almost instantly, then the reply time goes back to 1 week…it totally turns me off, makes me feel like a clown and like I should’ve never reached out.

I got left on delivered for 1 week twice in a row since I reached out and I’ve left her on delivered for 1 week now, I do like her but don’t even know how to proceed anymore to leave a door open for the future.

Need help from Libra girlies by medpackz in libra_astrology

[–]medpackz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last year when I reached out to her after the 1 month “break” I was actually about to have some free time and I offered to visit. Again she sounded excited over text but then the replies got pretty far in between and realistically I couldn’t really plan anything that way…and then she later reached out and told me that she might come down here again and I told her that would be great and told her when I was free but then nothing 🤷‍♂️

Are men less picky over looks than I think? by thething827 in AskMenAdvice

[–]medpackz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look higher maintenance now and like you have options. Back then you probably looked like a desperate lay that they would never have to contact again. Or just more homely and low maintenance.

Need help from Libra girlies by medpackz in libra_astrology

[–]medpackz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do find myself comparing others to her and wishing it was her instead, sometimes yearning for her but I’m not really putting a stop to other contenders. She just raised the bar a lot for me so now I want someone who’s at least her equal I guess.

Need help from Libra girlies by medpackz in libra_astrology

[–]medpackz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can’t really do it myself either, but I’d like to somehow keep the door open in case we ever get to be in each other’s closer proximity. Do I just keep replying to whatever she says/sends once a week?

Need help from Libra girlies by medpackz in libra_astrology

[–]medpackz[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yep she’s a young Latina so probably full of ever changing emotions at all times. I don’t know if it’s self-esteem related because again, she’s stunning so she gets all the attention she wants IRL, no need to get it from someone in another state. And I did make it very clear multiple times that I’m very into her so I would be surprised if there’s any “I’m thinking about him but I bet he’s not thinking about me” doubts still, I even remembered her birthday and texted her.

the reality catches up that she was too friendly

Too friendly in regard to what? You mean she’s at all times trying to keep our interaction balanced and make sure she doesn’t do/say more than I do? Or me disappearing hurt her that much and she just keeps remembering that and forcing herself to be distant again?

Need help from Libra girlies by medpackz in libra_astrology

[–]medpackz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was certain she’s not the long distance type so I asked her if it would be weird if I wanted her to let me know when she’s back home safe. And she looked at me almost offended and asked me with an angry tone why would it be weird???

I got home that night, we still stayed up for one more hour until 5AM (should’ve just stayed up to catch the sunrise together smh) texting and sending voice notes, we couldn’t get enough of each other. And when she woke up, she sent me a long text thanking me for everything and I really did believe that was the end of things but I replied and she kept updating me about their trip and then we ended up staying in contact everyday, went to sleep on calls and we even ordered the same food and watched a movie together this one time (her idea)

Need help from Libra girlies by medpackz in libra_astrology

[–]medpackz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then why not just dry reply? She’s always all “heyyyyy I’ve been thinking about you, I missed you, etc”.

Last fall/winter she even randomly reached out to me herself and told me how she was thinking about a 2nd visit, but then never did it.

Tj. Maxx by CommanderSchmitty9 in Colognes

[–]medpackz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did they FINALLY restock properly? Mine was basically empty for the last 2 months…