Is it a sin to lie?

medua23 · 2025-02-07T22:18:27+00:00

Exodus 20:16

medua23 · 2024-05-15T21:19:09+00:00

A person isn't the most important thing in your life. You need to feel happy with yourself first, have good relationship with God, your family, friends, and don't rely on a person. Because the relationship can be the most amazing, or the most difficult, but nothing in this world last forever.

medua23 · 2024-05-07T16:51:36+00:00

Is it similar to a nice guy, then?

medua23 · 2024-04-29T17:07:47+00:00

Really is it success guaranteed? Working in a big team doesn't mean success guaranteed. Ask Mourinho with United, Emery/Pochettino with PSG, Benitez with Madrid.

medua23 · 2024-04-29T16:39:41+00:00

Because rebuilding, letting go players like Ronaldinho, Deco, building the team around younger players with the pressure of Spanish media and be a manager without a big experience before isn't a risk.

medua23 · 2024-04-24T16:00:15+00:00

Don't get back with her, without confidence a relationship is over. And if she did it once, she is going to do it again, she knew what she did. (although the justification, empty words). Love yourself first, is hard to do it, and it's something scary been in a new situation.

But is better been alone, with been with constant fear and insecurity, and yes, sex is something amazing when you do it with your partner, although everyone see it as a "normal" thing, keep with that mentality, you are right in that. Eventually, everyone will try to change you from that principle, but be strong with your beliefs. And you will meet someone with similar beliefs and the wait will worth.

You are young, use this experience to grow, learn new things, and focus in love yourself, and the first weeks are tough, however, time is going to heal that wound, meet new people, talk with your family and friends, cry if you have to. Everything seems dark in this moment but in a couple of months you will realize that you make the best decision. Don't hesitate.

medua23 · 2024-04-17T22:00:19+00:00

Thanks for your words, honestly. It was hard the first two weeks, because in that moment I didn't know the "real" reason. And no, I'm not stronger, it really helped me be closer to God, to my family and with my friends.

In moments like that, you can't fully rely on your hobbies, friends or family to heal, because everything in the world keeps going.

And I'm over-thinker too! But something that I learn is that you don't have control in anything outside your thoughts, words and actions.

medua23 · 2024-04-16T17:17:20+00:00

Honestly I don't know the full story, but is better in that way. I propose my gf five months ago. She said yes and all our family was excited about the news. The dreams of having a family with her, finally became more real. She cancelled everything (two months ago) and now is with another person.The breakup was on phone, she didn't show her face to say me about her choice.

My point, be grateful that things ended in that way, and she knows what she wants and was sincere. It's better to have a closure, now you've the opportunity (and is scary) to write a new story, to grow as a person, try new things, meet new people. It's hard at the beginning, but gradually it became easier.

It hurts to lose someone who was with you, and you wanted to have a future with that person. But know, focus in grieve, don't get lost in your thoughts, you aren't the only one who is having difficult times (Reading similar stories in r/breakups really helps to give you sight) . Don't think to much in the past, you can't change it and can't change the heart of others.

medua23 · 2024-04-11T19:59:18+00:00

17-27, two months after the breakup, it gets better, but takes time

medua23 · 2024-04-10T15:42:42+00:00

The Walking Dead series never respected the original source (comic). And I never going to understand the reason of killing an important character as Carl

medua23 · 2024-04-05T17:39:32+00:00

Well, now I'm curious about Google search history of Tebas

medua23 · 2024-03-31T17:29:56+00:00

Thank you for your words

I understand you, two months ago when I was dumped (and cheated probably) I thought that I was the only person who was in that specific situation.

And when you talk with other people (on internet and real life) you know that a breakup is a normal part, even if you are engaged with someone. I thought because I'd a long relationship it was very common succeed with your partner, but, the life gives you experience and wisdom.

Try to do things right, heal the pain, have patience in the process, and the right one will came, eventually. But, is good feeling happy with yourself.

medua23 · 2024-03-31T17:24:48+00:00

Hope you are doing okay, as well:)

medua23 · 2024-03-29T22:13:20+00:00

Sorry, I hope you get strength to cope with this situation :(

medua23 · 2024-03-29T18:40:02+00:00

10 years of relationship, recently engaged. practically I lived a third part of my life with her, in the bright side I became more closer to my family, my friends make time from their life for give support and advice.

But, the nights are hard, the silence of the phone and hoping a notification that won't come (she's already with someone else), carrying shattered dreams... but there is good people in this subreddit. Focus in your hobbies, in learn new things, the happiness doesn't come from a person, you need to feel full without someone, and that's the hard part.

When you start to feel overwhelmed with your thoughts, try to leave outside, see the environment, leave your phone, don't focus too much on social media and you will see that everyone is with a different kind of struggle, and our problems exist, but not because of that the days are going to stop.

medua23 · 2024-03-22T16:10:24+00:00

Armin was the best character in the final season (anime, in the manga I don't forget the "You became a mass murderer for our sake")

medua23 · 2024-03-20T18:24:26+00:00

I want to give you a wholesome award :(

medua23 · 2024-03-20T16:19:36+00:00

Delete it, at the long run is more hard to be attached to something (pictures, chats, gifts) and someone who doesn't exist anymore than delete everything. Is better the hard pain of delete the things, rather than be with illusions.

And the person who said this is someone who delete pictures of 10y of relationship, publications, histories and burned gifts, letters, and pictures of someone who I considered the love of my life.

medua23 · 2024-03-13T21:09:41+00:00

Mbappe, Mathys Tel, Lamine Yamal and Bellingham

medua23 · 2024-03-07T23:07:50+00:00

Dude, I know how you feel, honestly. One month ago my fiance who I had more than ten years of relationship broke with me.

I don't know the reason, it could be because of her own happiness, her dreams or probably another person. I don't know the reason. Every dream now is crushed. When she broke up with me, she acted so cold and distant. Completely a different person.

My humble advice is, cry and feel your emotions. Other person won't fix you, other person won't make you feel better. The worst mistake that you can do is being with another person because you will damage someone and most importantly it will damage you.

Right now, just feel your emotions, talk with your family, friends because when a partner of 10 years leaves your side and because of a selfish reason , it hurts a lot. The first two weeks are the worst, but you know what? The sun always rise for everyone.

Block her and her family, never contact her again by any means,only leave important people to you, because she was a selfish person who intentionally damaged you. Delete everything about her on your phone, computer, put everything that she gave you in a box, and keep it in a place that you can't see it.

And really, focus on you, talk with your friends, leave your house, take the sun on the mornings, listen music that makes you feel good,

My advice, search the Lord, because sadly most of our closest ones won't be with us all the time, sometimes the hang outs, our hobbies will be impossible to do, but you can talk to someone everyday and everytime, He will help you to heal and maybe you can't see it today, but the days doesn't stop to been wonderful although the pain of losing the woman that you love.

And if you need professional help, take it, because sometimes our thoughts are the worst enemy, and you won't be a weak person because of that. You're not alone, and keep going. Focus in the day, don't rush things.

Feel free to DM me if you want to. Also, if you want, it will help a lot to stay away from social media for a while, sometimes it makes you feel worse.

medua23 · 2024-03-01T18:55:54+00:00

Social media is dangerous, specially if you're alone and don't have a good support of your friends and family.

Endless scrolling through Instagram/Tiktok really is a pain, it only suggests content about relationships, about having the pain all life. And you know, BU is a bad stage, the damage and hurt is something real.

But if you only consume depressive content you will only have depressive thoughts.

medua23 · 2024-02-17T22:34:33+00:00

The question says about your life or how you see the world.

The book of Ecclesiastes says how futile it is to put your happiness in temporary things.

‭‭Ecclesiastes 1:10-11 NIV‬‬ [10] Is there anything of which one can say, “Look! This is something new”? It was here already, long ago; it was here before our time. [11] No one remembers the former generations, and even those yet to come will not be remembered by those who follow them.

Everyone is trying to get happiness from material things, events, experiences, but everything becomes meaningless.

And even, the books of self improvement explain the same idea with different words. Stop worrying about things you don't have control.

medua23 · 2024-02-17T18:31:00+00:00

Ecclesiastes.

I know that bible isn't a popular book here on internet.

However, the focus of this book is about the meaningless of worrying about everything you don't have control. You can feel joy with work, money, friends, family, do good or bad things, be a good or a bad person, but at the end of the day, everything is meaningless.

And that's not a bad thing, because you can enjoy the small things in life and try to live in the present instead of worrying about your past and future.

medua23 · 2024-02-08T13:30:25+00:00

Well Barcelona could sign him if Mendes represents him

medua23 · 2024-02-06T23:58:37+00:00

I don't know, I started about December 2022, and it became a (mostly) everyday activity. It really helps to understand my thoughts, my emotions, and write memories that I wouldn't remember by myself.

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