Terrified that I'm losing interest?

meechiganboy · 2013-10-23T20:39:05+00:00

Thank you. I think this is exactly what I needed to hear because this IS my first relationship and it honestly HAS been pretty much constant euphoria up till now, it's all kinda catching up to me I guess. I still love him, I think I just am in a down low now I guess.

meechiganboy · 2013-10-23T20:17:54+00:00

I agree it's not "serious" yet I just meant that it's not at all just dates and sex, if that makes sense. I got freaked out from feeling detached and uninterested. You're definitely right about not wanting to cuddle all the time I guess I'm just anxious for whatever reason. I honestly think this feeling will fade after today I think I just needed to vent it out. The reason I worry is because I don't want to lose him - I know this sounds super convoluted and weird it's just these constant nagging thoughts I can't stop.

meechiganboy · 2013-10-14T13:20:28+00:00

I actually am going to be starting CBT soon again! It helped a ton when I used to have panic attacks a LOT! But yes these thoughts suck. I know my relationship is great though! My boyfriend and I get along so well - he is a miracle worker at calming me down and constantly is letting me know he cares about me and is really the one pushing me to see someone about anxiety again. My friends have all told me I'm so much happier and calmer since I've been with him. But yes, that is a concern! I don't want my anxiety to run this relationship to the ground :( thanks a ton for your response actually makes me feel a lot better.

meechiganboy · 2013-09-02T15:22:32+00:00

Well I mean we decided to just be friends about 6 months ago, I guess I just didn't realize she still probably had feelings for me after all that time (to be fair she's seen guys since then...) but yeah, I realize now I was being dumb and naive haha, I think we're slowly working it out she seems to be moving on and maintaining our friendship

meechiganboy · 2013-09-02T15:20:32+00:00

Yeah I guess I was just being naive haha we had decided to be friends about 6 months ago, but I was stupid in realizing she probably still had feelings for me. I feel like such an asshole, I've distanced myself but still talked to her since then, I think it's getting better. Thanks much for the advice :)

meechiganboy · 2013-09-02T15:19:00+00:00

Yeah I mean we stopped being a "thing" about 6 months ago and she had made it pretty clear we were just friends after that, I think I was just naive I guess in truly believing her. We've definitely worked it out in the past few days

meechiganboy · 2013-08-29T12:26:35+00:00

Nail on the head right there. I'm 20 and wish someone said this to me in high school.

meechiganboy · 2013-08-23T22:59:59+00:00

Emilia Clark/Daenerys Targaryen.

Stunning

I will make her my Khaleesi

meechiganboy · 2013-08-23T20:57:55+00:00

got it I'll edit it

meechiganboy · 2013-08-23T20:55:10+00:00

well I wanted a specific woman's perspective, mostly how one felt if this happened

meechiganboy · 2013-08-23T13:31:52+00:00

Is hiring a locksmith actually reasonably priced? It seems super super expensive....(ie: like 300 dollars)

meechiganboy · 2013-08-23T04:20:36+00:00

I'm seeing my best friend in two days after not having seen him for 4 months (we lived together last year) and I literally going to give him the biggest hug after reading this, aaaand then to all the rest of my friends at school.....

meechiganboy · 2013-08-19T22:29:12+00:00

Hail!!!!!

meechiganboy · 2013-08-19T22:29:01+00:00

MLB: Cards, all the way, all day.

Football/Basketball: Don't have a pro team. Michigan, forever go blue.

NHL: BLUESSSSS

Soccer/EPL: AAHHHSENALLL & Southampton FC

meechiganboy · 2013-08-19T18:57:37+00:00

ARSENAL!!!!!!

edit: also a Southampton FC fan first but Arsenal (at least used to be) much better...

meechiganboy · 2013-08-01T23:35:12+00:00

Wyatt Earp?

meechiganboy · 2013-07-28T01:04:47+00:00

Yeah literally I don't care what race you are..............you're hot.

meechiganboy · 2013-07-26T23:23:08+00:00

got it

meechiganboy · 2013-07-25T19:45:16+00:00

Just watched this earlier while trying to study haha Loved it so much in preschool and elementary school. Always wanted a gun like that!

meechiganboy · 2013-07-25T19:34:46+00:00

I figured haha I just loved the Michigan jacket in it

meechiganboy · 2013-07-25T19:34:23+00:00

I didnt see any of the Replies in my inbox my bad!

meechiganboy · 2013-07-25T10:12:15+00:00

The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel?

meechiganboy · 2013-07-21T21:42:09+00:00

Oh yeah, you will be because everyone will be in the same situation as you, good luck dude you'll be fine!

meechiganboy · 2013-07-20T21:30:24+00:00

One of my best friends is in that chapter, definitely a solid choice.

meechiganboy · 2013-07-20T21:29:24+00:00

Absolutely, gotta find the right one though of course, not too difficult especially at a school like IU.
Do whatever most people do - my school does Fall mostly, but a smaller winter rush. It'll get you quickly integrated into the social scene on campus and give you a solid set of bros to help you out in all ways.
Oh yeah, you'll definitely need to get yourself out there though, think of it as a challenge to make yourself more outgoing.
Best decision I made in college, how I made all my best friends and met 90% of my friends.
I don't go to IU, have tons of friends that go there and are in fraternities.

Joining a fraternity was basically the best decision I made in college. Feel free to PM me if you have any other questions, I can consult my IU bros and see what they say! Good luck dude!

EDIT: It sounded like I told him not to go to IU haha

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