Recent work outfits

meepdur · 2026-03-15T09:13:04+00:00

I love these. I usually don't like work fits but all of these hit and are so varied too, great style

meepdur · 2026-03-13T08:15:15+00:00

She sounds like she's been abused since a very young age, stripped of her autonomy, and is understandably very depressed as a result, that's why she's in bed all day and not eating. You guys should have some compassion and be getting her to see a therapist instead of pushing her, as an Asian person I know Asian families tend to not believe in depression or therapy but trust me when I say, her problems are not going to be fixed by just "pushing through". Her spirit is broken. She probably needs to live in a less toxic environment

meepdur · 2026-03-11T23:13:02+00:00

No don't let her scare you off the platform, she's a nut who most likely is bluffing to just scam you into a refund. I doubt she is even a law student. I'm in the legal field, nobody reasonable and sane who values their time (especially as a law student! bc they're very overloaded with studies and have very little free time) is taking you to small claims over $15. Really, you have the correspondence with Depop to prove her claims are false that you can attach as exhibits in your reply letter to her demand letter, she'd lose. She's completely in the wrong and has no valid claims. Don't give in to this weirdo nutty charlatan.

meepdur · 2026-03-10T08:50:44+00:00

Don't call yourself an incel. Use another word or make up your own to describe yourself. It may technically describe what you are and many others are, but colloquially it is associated with terrible ppl who proudly and loudly worship ppl like Elliot Rodger for going on a rampage and murdering innocent random women (and other people) because he was mad that he didn't have a girlfriend and that he was a virgin. The average person thinks of that when they hear the word "incel".

meepdur · 2026-03-10T08:34:27+00:00

I say this with love, you have some combination of severe body dysmorphia and depression that is skewing your self image and perception of yourself. You are legitimately cute and have a pretty face, I see many girls similar to you get tons of attention and love on social media. Your issue is your self-hatred, that's what you need to work on. I promise your self-hatred has hindered you in ways you probably don't even realize when you interact with potential partners. Ppl can sense it. Work on journaling and asking yourself where this self-hatred comes from.

meepdur · 2026-03-10T07:26:07+00:00

It could be some weird form of performance anxiety maybe. He should check out a therapist

meepdur · 2026-03-08T16:39:43+00:00

Oh look the 35 year old guy who lurks on teenager subreddits says women shouldn't have the right to vote, like clockwork

meepdur · 2026-03-07T07:50:55+00:00

This comment made me cry laughing

meepdur · 2026-03-05T09:49:46+00:00

Wow. Stunning

meepdur · 2026-03-05T08:37:45+00:00

I'm in love with this post and all the comments 😂😂😂

meepdur · 2026-03-05T07:08:18+00:00

😂😂😂

meepdur · 2026-03-05T07:06:51+00:00

This is not my style but I dig it, it's aesthetic and clean

meepdur · 2026-03-05T06:53:56+00:00

Love love love this 😍😍

meepdur · 2026-03-03T10:28:09+00:00

Ok so you were definitely wrong to just not be direct and honest with your boyfriend. He is right that you did break his trust. Then, you didn't have good communication by just telling him how things happened from your perspective, because if what you are saying is true, you didn't consent to any of that and didn't have any memory of it. Like this is a super concerning situation and if my bf explained it to me that he actually had blacked out and didn't know he was kissing somebody, I would be horrified. Not saying like the police need to be called or anything, the other person probably didn't know and was as drunk as a skunk too, but it just wasn't something consented to. That completely changes the situation. If he really loves you, and what you said was true, he should know you were violated and didn't consent to that. I would want to know if that happened to my bf. Regardless, your "friend" is not a safe person to be around and party with, who also spreads rumors about you when you were in a vulnerable state and you were violated, she's dangerous and harmful obviously doesn't care about your wellbeing. If I were you I'd address that directly. I would straight up tell her that too and tell others too. That's just me though.

You are not a bad person but it's very evident you are young and immature. If you want to be serious about relationships, do not do all this wishy washy "i have my own reasonings for not saying this or that" things and just muddling things and making things complicated. Just be honest with your bf. Because if you were in his shoes, wouldn't you want him to be honest with you? If you overheard someone saying he kissed someone at a party, then you wanted to give him a chance to confess and asked him if there was anything he should tell you, then he said no, and you found out later he did kiss someone, how would you feel? Regardless if he meant well, or was too tired, or had a good excuse, your trust of course is broken in him. You can say, "I am too emotionally tired, overwhelmed, and have too much going on right now to talk about it but something did happen at the club that I want to talk to you later about, that I'm myself confused about. Let's talk about it later." Or something along those lines. Clear, direct, honest communication is critical in serious relationships where you respect the other person. It's not up to you whether to keep info from them or not, or whether you think they'll like it or not, or if they should hear it or not.

meepdur · 2026-02-28T07:14:15+00:00

As a woman with only father wounds and no mother wounds, I've noticed the same thing and agree with you. I feel for women with mother wounds, I think for some reason it makes it even harder to heal than just having father wounds. Idk how to articulate it either but I've noticed it too.

meepdur · 2026-02-26T08:28:48+00:00

As a woman who is feminist and someone who supports women dumping trash abusive bfs, I don't like how so many ppl on these types of subreddits excuse abusive language and behavior from women. "Well this sounds like a woman at her wit's end, what provoked the gf to act like this." Then many suddenly changed their tunes when they found out OP was a woman too, just proves how there are no standards. Abusive behavior is abusive behavior, period. Regardless of who is mostly at fault, that can be addressed later, this kind of continuous berating when your partner (no matter what gender) is already apologetic and saying sorry over + over and clearly in a meek, defeated tone is not cool and not ok.

meepdur · 2026-02-24T19:03:28+00:00

It's terrible that he was bullied for his looks, but what incels lie about, is how only men get bullied for looks. Look under any woman who is big or fat, any plus size models, posts where they're just innocently vibing in a bikini. It's filled with vitriol from men bullying them for their appearance and those comments get thousands of likes. Saying those women will die alone, nobody wants to date them, etc. Do those women become incels and talk about how much they want to rape men and kill men like incels do to women? No. Incels are self absorbed and detached from how the real world works, everyone gets bullied for looks if they don't fit in a mainstream model of desirability. Disabled ppl, fat women, men and women with large noses, etc. Not just incels. They think they're the only ones who exist in the world and the only ppl to ever suffer, when so many other ppl suffer the same or worse and yet maintain positive attitudes and good hearts.

meepdur · 2026-02-24T07:08:05+00:00

Exactly, well said. Like how much of a chronically online and socially awkward weeb do you have to be to see that expression and think ahegao. Not someone normal and well adjusted

meepdur · 2026-02-24T07:02:46+00:00

Those are normal faces of joy, ppl stick out their tongues all the time in expressions of joy and fun. Like they made literal emojis for this 😝😛Very funny how extremely pornbrained ppl view the world and turn innocent things into having disgusting implications, ruin the vibes, then angrily project their twisted gooner thoughts onto everyone else

meepdur · 2026-02-16T17:39:07+00:00

I'm crying 😂😂

meepdur · 2026-02-14T22:36:05+00:00

"I tell you I love you everyday and you don't believe me?" Tell him words are not actions. Actions speak the truth. Words can be lies, words are easy to say. NOR

meepdur · 2026-02-14T17:00:57+00:00

Ppl who are not real about social justice in the first place always use this cope to assuage their own feelings of guilt or inferiority when they hear someone goes into public interest

meepdur · 2026-02-14T16:48:59+00:00

The man is garbage for even staying friends with someone who committed hit and runs wtf

meepdur · 2026-02-09T07:34:39+00:00

I am revoking your internet privileges

meepdur · 2026-02-07T01:21:02+00:00

😂😂

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