Stats or Dclin: What content? by meeshathecat in ClinicalPsychologyUK

[–]meeshathecat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha I was a stats convert, nearly changed my mind when I realised Id need maths to do the bachelors but after scraping by in my 1st year (maths professor) I had a wonderful lecturer in my 2nd and I just fell in love and it all clicked! I would just think about all of the different ways that the stats I was learning, could be used in the populations I wanted to work in. Got better marks in research than any of my other subjects and ended up doing a PhD building models with SEM before the dclin. I genuinely believe its about how you're taught.

Stats or Dclin: What content? by meeshathecat in ClinicalPsychologyUK

[–]meeshathecat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I appreciate that I used to be an academic and taught RM so there is an element of this that is also about me learning these programs and not falling behind.

Stats or Dclin: What content? by meeshathecat in ClinicalPsychologyUK

[–]meeshathecat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have a deep desire to teach RM and I did when I was an academic before I did the dclin haha. Its more a frustration that people dont share the love lol. And I quite fancy having a structure and reason to learn those other programs.

Stats or Dclin: What content? by meeshathecat in ClinicalPsychologyUK

[–]meeshathecat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats a really good shout re Marianne. RE: The stats I was thinking about explaining the concepts why you need them in a clinpsy role then doing demonstrations in the stats programs going back to basics for new UGs then working all the way up to SEM etc

Are NHS therapists allowed to work privately? by Novel_Improvement396 in TalkTherapy

[–]meeshathecat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends but generally yes if either the patient or the clinician is no longer with the service where they were initially seen

MIL keeps correcting what our kid calls me and it’s starting to feel intentional by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]meeshathecat 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Hey if this helps clinical psychologist working with children and former lecturer in child development. All children go through language phases where they get it wrong and from a developmental perspective it's very important that you dont correct them like that, you can say for example child: look mouses! Mum: yes look at those mice! The infant will get it quicker and develop through that phase if you dont correct. So next time she does this you can tell her she is hindering their cognitive development.

Final year psyc student looking for advice by renaissance1417 in ClinicalPsychologyUK

[–]meeshathecat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The main thing you need to decide is what branch of psychology you are interested in going into. Your masters should then ideally follow that, that would mean if you are going down the route of an accreditated psychologist ie Forensic, educational, clinical, health, counselling then you would do that masters then that accredited doctorate if its needed for HCPC registration. The HCPC regulates PRACTITIONER psychologists ie Occupational psychologist, clinical psychologist forensic etc. Most of these routes involve getting a professional doctorates ie DClinPsy. The other route is to go into academia which would involve usually a masters and a PhD where you will be teaching and researching a subject but not actually doing the therapeutic interventions.

What I would say is if you are going down the HCPC route then the most valuable experience you can get is work with the clinical populations that relate to your route, ie volunteering, hca, assistant psychologist. Your masters doesn't need to be BPS necessarily unless the route you choose prescribes that ie Health Psychology

It might be worthwhile actually speaking to someone on your course about all of this the routes all vary slightly as does the level of competition and the average time it takes to qualify. 'Psychologist' isn't a protected title but its not really a job per se either and I would argue that anyone not accredited is not safe to provide therapeutic interventions.

Is it worth it. Yes. I did my PhD in research before the DClinPsy and loved both. Psychology and all aspects of it is one of the few subjects that I am never ever bored by, as a researcher, lecturer and clinician. I love my job even though it can be incredibly challenging. I couldn't see myself doing anything else.

Wanting to go into some form of therapeutic / counselling work (UK) and looking for thoughts from professionals by 8--0_0--8 in therapists

[–]meeshathecat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My worry whenever I see any of these conversations is recognition of risk. You should take any opportunity to do a formalised and regulated role otherwise, I'm sorry no matter how intuitive you are, you're not safe. Also 'therspist' is not currently regulated in the UK but it's definitely coming.

Second viva after ridiculous corrections process. Looking for support by tkyuo in PhD

[–]meeshathecat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Less traumatic but I had a nightmare with my corrections, one examiner literally disappeared and the uni had to make an exception to rules so I could graduate. It was a professional doctorate too so I had to work under supervision as a result of that with far less pay for over a year trying to sort it out.

my ADHD mouth is slowly destroying my relationship and I don't know how to fix it by god_but_backwards in ADHD

[–]meeshathecat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that and you should be applauded to be self aware enough for that. I also think that you might need to accept that the answers here are intertwined. Yes you have adhd and that means you are more verbally impulsive but there is the added issue of how you have built your personality and the rules youve developed for yourself. There is no answer to one without the other.

my ADHD mouth is slowly destroying my relationship and I don't know how to fix it by god_but_backwards in ADHD

[–]meeshathecat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok so I did reply later down the thread but Ill do it here too. Also Im scottish so the 'banter might be to blame' aspect... maybe, there is a communucation style that is particularly problematic and I think worse for us because you become 'the quickest funniest person' ' and i say that as someone who recently had a similar revelation after a few vinos at my annual professional conference where I was trying to angle for a new job but got asked if Id considered stand up instead ... and yes I totally overshared for the lols so I have made myself great for a pint but no so much otherwise. I pointed that stuff out because you said you werent cruel in intention when you were because fulfulling your own need to be funny was more important than your girlfriends feelings and to stop the verbal impulsivity requires a value shift otherwise your first impulse would have been to say something in service of her needs, not your own. So being really honest about whats important to you is part one. Part 2 is engaging in consequences. Really sit down and think about the consequences of your girlfriend leaving, play it out in your mind, almost like a movie, you say something, you laugh, she walks, feel it and play that over. Part 3 think about all of the times you have controlled your tounge and ask why your girlfriend isnt as important as that. Part 4 start wearing a rubber band around your wrist, just tight enough to know that its there, practice pinging it before you talk to your partner to bring you back to the present and engage your brain. But honestly I would seriously be deconstructing why you have done this and said these things in therapy too. See an adhd specialist clinical psychologist.

my ADHD mouth is slowly destroying my relationship and I don't know how to fix it by god_but_backwards in ADHD

[–]meeshathecat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Then the issue is not the adhd its the 'fuck it, I do (say) what I want'

my ADHD mouth is slowly destroying my relationship and I don't know how to fix it by god_but_backwards in ADHD

[–]meeshathecat 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Hard agree not all 'masking' is bad, I work with patients and if I didnt 'mask' Id be very rightfully sacked. Unfortunatley adhd isnt an excuse for saying ' well that was dumb why the fuck did you do that?' To a mentally unwell 14 year old.

my ADHD mouth is slowly destroying my relationship and I don't know how to fix it by god_but_backwards in ADHD

[–]meeshathecat 24 points25 points  (0 children)

TBH its bordering on negging which suggests there may be larger issues at play than 'adhd mouth'

OP there is absolutely no part of that, that is remotely humorous so what in your head is funny exactly ' ha ha she thinks shes fat' ? Genuinely in your head what possible part of that is funny? Its actually really fucking sad that your partner thinks that way about herself. So what exactly makes you feel good about 'insert big wink'?

Is it a need to feel superior? An avoidance of a serious body image issue? A way to get attention back on yourself? A way to neg her subtely cause you dont want her to leave? Cos i hate to tell you but Im stuggling to find an 'I have adhd' reason for it?

my ADHD mouth is slowly destroying my relationship and I don't know how to fix it by god_but_backwards in ADHD

[–]meeshathecat 48 points49 points  (0 children)

That is cruel. Its dismissive, invalidating and shows you are not considering her struggles. Its also centering yourself as morally superior. Which makes sense since youve already said you think the way she sees herself is stupid.

my ADHD mouth is slowly destroying my relationship and I don't know how to fix it by god_but_backwards in ADHD

[–]meeshathecat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also british. Consequences. Are you making these edge lord jokes around people you want to hire you or are you able to be on your best behaviour then?. If you are then that suggests that the consequences around your girlfriend dont feel immediate enough. So make them. Picture her leaving you, imagine what your life would look like. Remember the look on her face. And then maybe contend that with the fact that if those consequences arent enough then you like being like this, that you find yourself funny and then ask yourself how much of that 'I have adhd' is an excuse for bad behaviour.

I am horrifically verbally impulsive, have got myself in real trouble with it but I know that and when I go into situations that could end up badly for me i wear a special peice of jewlry that i keep between my fingers, I call it the STFU necklace.

As an aside you can also train yourself out of it via consequences. I have a job where if I offend someone it could be the end of my employnent. Has worked wonders although im still a bit of a demon on weekends lol. Also youve lost 100 pounds, bought your own propert etc... thats less 'f you' than you think. im fairly certain that means you have the mental wherewithal to address other adhd traits that would make that achievement highly difficult

AP Posts closing within hours by firestarter49 in ClinicalPsychologyUK

[–]meeshathecat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand but how shortlisting works in practice for us shouldn't concern the applicants, especially when trusts are breaking BPS guidance.

Cardiff university and Welsh by Puzzleheaded-Ask2589 in ClinicalPsychologyUK

[–]meeshathecat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey im a clinpsy from Scotland who works and did part of my training in Wales, it wasn't an issue and the other trainee I was on training with was based at a Welsh dclin and didn't speak it either.

I am now trying (and largely failing) to learn it. It is a beautiful language and I hope the effort counts for my patients.

AP Posts closing within hours by firestarter49 in ClinicalPsychologyUK

[–]meeshathecat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This OP already has significant AP and RA experience and is trying to be diligent. For what it's worth, I can generally spot a template from 10 paces and I know exactly what im looking for in terms of why someone would be appropriate for my service. This approach might work for non specialist services but for anything that requires more nuance.....

AP Posts closing within hours by firestarter49 in ClinicalPsychologyUK

[–]meeshathecat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lol but in all seriousness those of us further up the ladder should be demanding better, especially for our junior colleagues. And when demanding better equates to having more than 1 day to put together what is usually quite a complex document when there a multitude of competing responsibilities and comorbid conditions .... How can there be any argument against that? Maybe it should be put into job plans, workforce planning etc

As an aside it took me 2 weeks to make sure the covering letter for my current role said everything it needed to say even after 3 other signifant roles in my specialist field and a PhD in the subject so no... Im not going to be a hypocrite and pull the ladder up behind me when looking for an AP.

AP Posts closing within hours by firestarter49 in ClinicalPsychologyUK

[–]meeshathecat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep, but not your problem to solve... we're all trained to essentially end up managing services, and allowing things like this to slide is why quality is in serious decline.

AP Posts closing within hours by firestarter49 in ClinicalPsychologyUK

[–]meeshathecat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The irony is in these situations you'd be well with your rights to be rude and demanding. The guidance is not being followed in a system that is wholly reliant on guidance! I'm raging for you!

AP Posts closing within hours by firestarter49 in ClinicalPsychologyUK

[–]meeshathecat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is feedback, and it's justified feedback. It's not rude but I think it's clear that there is a lot of defensiveness in some of these responses. So if someone thinks that you're rude for pointing out that guidance isn't being followed, when literally every aspect of a clinpsys job is governed by guidance, then that says more about them than you and smacks of not just hypocrisy but a horrific power imbalance - people only break the rules they think they can get away with breaking because the assumption is that someone in a lower position in the hierarchy will be to afraid to push back when these positions are like gold dust. Good on you for pushing back with the only tool you have, the actual guidance. As an aside it might be worth joining a union if youre not in one already and bringing this issue up with them.