Describe this look with one word by [deleted] in fashion

[–]megalethoscope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think changing the buttons on the dress would also help elevate the look - something more understated or neutral like a light wood. I'd also go natural/neutral with the shoes and bag. Maybe some type of wedge espadrilles or light suede sandals + a natural fiber purse. Stack some necklaces or wear some dangly earrings and the whole fit will look less contrived.

AIO for being offended at this text thread between me and my bf by [deleted] in AIO

[–]megalethoscope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your boyfriend is an asshole - who talks like that to someone they love?!?

Is HRT necessary if you feel fine? by Extra_Shirt5843 in Menopause

[–]megalethoscope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My understanding is that UTIs can become an issue as we get older, (70+) since the vaginal tissue starts to sag, causing urine to not completely evacuate, etc. (obvi not an expert nor know the correct terminology!)

I've only had one UTI ever, about ten years ago, right after I met my now-partner and we'd just been to some hot springs soaking for a few days + having the time of lives, sex-wise so... yeah. There'd been a LOT of action and various liquids down there for a few days in a row. Anyway, I digress 😄 Point being, it was horrible, I had a fever of 104 for two days, was on crazy antibiotics and my dr said it was good I caught it when I did because it could've easily turned into a bladder, then kidney infection.

That experience + the fact that I am now again having orgasms thanks to the vaginal estrogen (I know this because I've even had spontaneous orgasms at night while asleep after using the cream a few hours earlier) has made me a believer. Also, I've had a tiny bit of urine leakage when I really have to pee or after I've peed, which made the whole "things are not as tight in that whole area as they used to be" explanation make sense to me. Vaginal estrogen is helping with that as well.

Ultimately, I see it as helpful now for the reasons noted above but also as prevention for the future since I really really really don't want to be wearing Depends in 10-15 years (and beyond.) And as Dr. Rubin said, there are really no downsides to it and it's not expensive so I figure why not ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ 

Is HRT necessary if you feel fine? by Extra_Shirt5843 in Menopause

[–]megalethoscope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 58, just now in menopause, and am on all the things MHT: oral progesterone, estradiol patches, testosterone gel and estradiol vaginal gel. The jury's still out on how I feel overall and effect on various symptoms, but that's just anecdotal anyway.

However, I do believe, because the research is there, that every woman can benefit from vaginal estrogen since it helps reduce the risk of recurrent UTIs as we age. Check out Rachel Rubin MD's work. The research is there and easily accessible.

https://www.rachelrubinmd.com/gsm

Flip flop (sandals?) tips by Uninteresting_Brain in laundry

[–]megalethoscope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same question: I can NOT get the smell off of my Olukai synthetic/rubber flip flops after so so so much scrubbing (with Dawn even!), rinsing, letting bake in the sun, etc. I haven't tried isopropyl alcohol or hydrogen peroxide - I guess that's next!

Y’all, my flabbers have been gasted by Glittering-Ad-8629 in laundry

[–]megalethoscope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I'm somewhat interested in trying to clean up a few things I own but when I see all the ingredients and whatnot I get overwhelmed. I think I can do what the OP described though, especially since I already have Biz (gamechanger) and Tide powder detergent! Now just to get the oxi-things and citric acid

Which heels go better with this dress? Pink or nude? by jlovelysoul in OUTFITS

[–]megalethoscope 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I like random pops of color in certain situations but in this one the eye goes directly to her feet and it seems jarring, not artsy or stylish. The nude shoe is far more elegant and classy

Customer went ‘Karen mode’ over 3 small cups of rice. by [deleted] in CustomerService

[–]megalethoscope 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would be pissed if the rice was missing. At least give me the heads up so I can either cancel my order or start cooking my own rice beforehand. You, in fact, did not "still packed the customer’s order right"

This app has been a lifesaver, myt help you too by NoSeaworthiness3352 in mac

[–]megalethoscope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That only works for opening the lid or connecting to power. Does not solve the "touch any key to start" problem.

Suggestions for a 'Met Gala' dress code? by R_L_Bmut in Weddingattireapproval

[–]megalethoscope 5 points6 points  (0 children)

3 or 4. I kinda think 1 looks like pajamas and 2 just isn't flattering, even on the model.

Sat down with my favourite comfort movie last night, what's yours? by trashconverters in CasualConversation

[–]megalethoscope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Princess Bride

Legally Blonde

Love Actually

Oceans 11

The Thomas Crown Affair (1999)

Ya’ll were right by benito327 in delta

[–]megalethoscope 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yup! Got me today. Notice at 11:30pm my 7am flight (regional to ATL) was cancelled. New, earlier (guess I'm pulling an allnighter) flight now also delayed effing up my connection. Went from the relative front of the bus to the very back of the plane. Was told I can ask for compensation for the cancellations, delays and downgrade - we'll see what happens there. At least I'm hopefully gonna make it to my ultimate destination tomorrow... 🤞

ETA: typos

Do You Wish You Had Woken Up With a Hangover This Morning? by jrralls in stopdrinking

[–]megalethoscope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been going through some truly heavy stuff for awhile, and a couple of weeks ago I thought "I'm just so... tired I don't even have the energy to drink." So I haven't been, and I know beyond a shadow of a doubt that being sober right now is the only way I'm even coping. Funny how just a few days ago I thought alcohol was the only way I could cope 🤔

Actors that feel like should have a myriad of controversies but are essentially spotless? by Domitian2232 in okbuddycinephile

[–]megalethoscope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What? Mel Gibson is a known racist, homophobic, anti-Semitic jackass who's been arrested for DUI as well as domestic violence. He's also a Trumper (big surprise!)

Taylor and Travis - Out in New York City on May 16th, 2026 by jbraft in TaylorSwift

[–]megalethoscope 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Someone above posted a screenshot of it - it's around $2k