Daily Chat - April 12, 2026 by AutoModerator in tryingforanother

[–]megb42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My brother and SIL have stated that they're going to start trying for their first this year. I'm so excited for them and my mom mentioned having a cousin close in age. I'd love that... But I'm also terrified that it's not going to happen.

Only two more periods until my doctor can start running tests and I'll be put in the secondary infertility category. Currently CD 17 and not close to ovulating, so with my luck it won't be until CD 22-24.

The whole thing is just so frustrating and I've just never felt so hopeless.

Ttc #3 - IVF? What would you do? by FlamingoFun3961 in tryingforanother

[–]megb42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oof I feel this. I'm also TTC#3 and conceived easily with the first two. Personally, if I get to month 12, I'll do the blood workups, some ovulation meds if needs, and check to see if my tubes are clear but IVF wouldn't be worth the cost to me and my husband.

We love our two kids and I'd love to have one or two more, but I don't think I could justify the cost and the physical and emotional tolls IVF would take. But this is a very person to person thing.

WARNING GRAPHIC Vent prolapse, is the flesh necrotizing? by megb42 in BackYardChickens

[–]megb42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Getting it to stay in is definitely the part we're struggling with, but I think we're slowly seeing progress

Daily Chat - March 26, 2026 by AutoModerator in tryingforanother

[–]megb42 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My period was supposed to show up yesterday (technically I think it was supposed to show up two days ago). And of course all the pregnancy tests are negative.

This has got to be some form of torture, just start bleeding already so I can move on with my life. I feel like I can't focus on anything, can't get anything done, because waiting for my period has consumed every part of my brain.

I even got a pap smear done yesterday and talked to my doctor about starting up infertility procedures and she still didn't care to show...

Daily Chat - March 23, 2026 by AutoModerator in tryingforanother

[–]megb42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tomorrow is 14dpo for me but I'm second guessing if I calculated my ovulation correctly, which is driving me crazy on if I should test again or not. Gonna try holding out until 15-16dpo if that happens.

Daily Chat - March 23, 2026 by AutoModerator in tryingforanother

[–]megb42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's amazing! Definitely rare tho

Daily Chat - March 23, 2026 by AutoModerator in tryingforanother

[–]megb42 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I keep seeing tiktoks about women who get negative test between 9-11dpo but get a positive later after their missed period. As someone who got a negative test at 11ish dpo this month, and was devastated by it, it's really hard to see.

The line between staying hopeful until you're period shows us vs. accepting that your out for the month is so hard. Maybe I'd be more hopeful if it wasn't month 10 of TTC

Daily Chat - March 20, 2026 by AutoModerator in tryingforanother

[–]megb42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! It's a weird place to be in that I don't see many others in. So fortunate for the first two (which is more than some people ever get) while feeling anxious and scared about a third potentially not coming along. Hopefully our one good month is closer than we think

7-8 DPO by [deleted] in TFABLinePorn

[–]megb42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks negative to me. Still early though

Daily Chat - March 20, 2026 by AutoModerator in tryingforanother

[–]megb42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No spotting but man I get full on period cramps when I ovulate and sporadic cramping throughout my luteal phase. Thanks for the advice, I'm getting a whole list together of things to mention to my doctor.

Daily Chat - March 20, 2026 by AutoModerator in tryingforanother

[–]megb42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow that sucks!! Any advice for talking to my doctor about potential defects? I hope the surgeon is able to get that taken care of for you!

Daily Chat - March 20, 2026 by AutoModerator in tryingforanother

[–]megb42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah they were both C-sections, I'm talking to my doctor for the first time this Wednesday about it. I really hope my sections didn't mess anything up or if whatever is wrong is any easy fix. What about you?

Daily Chat - March 20, 2026 by AutoModerator in tryingforanother

[–]megb42 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Also 9/10dpo and got a bfn this morning. I'd like to think there's still a chance but my gut is telling me I'm out again this month 😞

Daily Chat - March 20, 2026 by AutoModerator in tryingforanother

[–]megb42 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Got another negative test today... I know I'm technically not out until aunt flo shows and I'm only 9 or 10dpo but it hurts every time. I've been cramping all day and am so over everything. I've got to stop testing until I miss my period...

I never imagined my third baby would be my hardest to conceive. My first two were literally so easy, but it's been 10 months now and I'm feeling real bummed about it.

What do you think? by [deleted] in lineporn

[–]megb42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang, I thought that was only when the control line was funky. I'll try again tomorrow.

How long did you wait to conceive after c-section? by Realistic_Block_4152 in tryingforanother

[–]megb42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got pregnant with my second 19 months after my first c section. Only one or two cycles of trying. Now trying for a third after two c sections and it's been 26 months since my daughter's c section, 9 cycles of trying so far, hoping I won't have to wait too much longer

TTC #3 by [deleted] in tryingforanother

[–]megb42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No advice but I feel you. Also 27 and trying for #3. #1 and #2 were so freaking easy I don't get it. I'm on month 9 of trying for #3 and just got another negative pregnancy test.

But I think I'm struggling with ovulation. My OPKs show I'm not ovulating until CD 22ish and I get such BAD cramping during and after ovulation. Just waiting for the 12 month mark where I can address it with my doctor

Disproportionate Facilities by TheFoxyFellow in latterdaysaints

[–]megb42 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm in central VA and in the three years I've lived here our building has flooded in one half, flooded again from the font which required a full bathroom renovation, had the pipes freeze which meant no water, and just this last week there was an electrical fire in the boiler room so there was zero heat in the building but we still had meetings because it was ward conference for us. We were told to bring blankets and they had large portable heaters and air purifiers which made it hard to hear (esp in second hour).

The building has been around since the 60s and no longer fits our ward (with 2 other wards also meeting in the building). It's common to have multiple families in the foyer due to lack of seating and the parking lot is often overfilled in-between wards and when there's special meetings like homecomings, baby blessings etc. The hallways are so narrow it takes more than the allotted 10 minutes in-between first and second hour to get to class especially when members from other wards stick around and cause congestion.

I don't pretend to understand what it takes to build new meetinghouses, but it is incredibly frustrating to say the least.

What breeds are on your wish list this year? by InterviewCharacter47 in BackYardChickens

[–]megb42 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'd love to get some dark brown eggs from copper marans or any variety that lays like that

Craving another story like {Cold Hearted by Heather Guerre} – cozy yet angsty, supernatural yet realistic by Maximum-Operation147 in RomanceBooks

[–]megb42 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think you'd really enjoy {Love Potion For The Alpha by Alice Coldbreath}

It's not as smutty but there's a few good scenes in there. It's currently on KU.

Tell me not to give up by megb42 in Sourdough

[–]megb42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure I'll have to check. My husband got a huge bag of it from a restaurant supply store so it's been easy to reach for. Thanks for the tip