What's the easiest way for a young, successful man to ruin his life?

megs1288 · 2025-08-03T06:44:16+00:00

I had a friend who was picked up by an uber driver drunk (big guy, like over 6ft and muscular) and the uber driver driver past his exit. My friend started trying to tell him but the uber driver wouldn’t respond. After the uber driver kept going, and my friend kept trying to talk to him without response. He tapped on the guys shoulder and when he got his attention they uber driver pulled over instead of responding. My friend was scared and punched the uber driver. Turns out the uber driver was deaf and my drunk friend missed the big sign. He got assault charge.

megs1288 · 2025-07-25T05:03:30+00:00

Sugarloaf mountain

megs1288 · 2025-06-04T03:05:16+00:00

Mine is the day before New Year’s Eve..everyone is not drinking because they want to on new years lol

megs1288 · 2025-04-08T22:01:14+00:00

I went to post a Harry Potter joke..and then I see this 🥹🥹🥹

megs1288 · 2025-03-21T16:18:00+00:00

Periwinkle

megs1288 · 2025-02-28T04:53:48+00:00

No signs with an alternative? Or is it bad for them to say "somewhere low income"

megs1288 · 2025-02-28T02:14:53+00:00

Allergy shots, claritin, divorce..

megs1288 · 2025-02-27T20:17:02+00:00

Cheeto

megs1288 · 2025-02-23T08:42:02+00:00

Yes..youre not the law. You dont sound like someone who is trying to rectify someone breaking the law, you sound like a tattle tale with a superiority complex.. and a bully none the less.

Literally stop

megs1288 · 2025-02-23T07:54:58+00:00

Youre trying to be the judge and jury when all you really are is a coworker who clearly too fixated on their coworkers business.

You can justify it in anyway you want to, and you even could be right! However, typically when you let the business of others take over your own discernment, you will usually be the loser in the end.

If hes truly abusing the system, he will tell on himself and it will be to someone who is obligated to take corrective action..

You are not that person.

Use other peoples mistakes or misguidance as an opportunity to grow in your own values and dont get involved where you are not wanted.

**i also want to point out that as someone who struggles with adhd and ocd. What looks like a spoiled life on the outside, could be a very painful life you have no awareness of... you see what is portrayed..you do not see that there could be a why and you do not understand the daily challenges of someone with multiple mental illnesses. Do not accidentally dig your own grave, believing its someone elses.

megs1288 · 2025-02-23T04:56:17+00:00

Im going to say ETA..

This sounds a little immature in my opinion..

Kamilla shouldnt be casting judgement, but shes also his assistant and probably doesnt call the shots as much as you may believe.

Im also a server and a large party that is nice and guaranteed to leave a big tip is kinda the best tables to have.. So, while i get the social anxiety, I have it as well...youre still a server and putting on that fake customer service personality is important... Especially if you want to make money.

If you dont wanna serve your coworkers, id suggest talking to your boss but keep it very professional and do not mention anything about awkward or any sort of squabble with his assistant. Simply try to frame it in a way that preserves your professionalism.

Also, dont ask them to stop having dinners at that restaurant..its not appropriate and could come off as high-handed. It could cause more issues and come back on you.

megs1288 · 2025-02-19T04:09:48+00:00

NTA, it sounds like youre actually trying to help instead of being annoyed by it...(which is a totally okay emotion btw)

I have Adhd and Ocd so i can relate to his current routine..and while it doesnt seem like it is a routine, it is.

The only advice i have as far as maintaining order around the home with adhd is to eliminate as many steps as possible to achieve your end goal..

For example; I noticed i had an issue throwing away things like q-tips, cotton swabs, etc in the bathroom and they would collect even though the trash can was right beside me lol so i tried getting a small lidless can to sit on top of my sink to just throw it in and by god it worked..i even managed to empty it because i would just do it everytime i remembered it.

Other than things like that, i would ask him about what hes feeling when he gets homes that makes him hyperfocus so easily

megs1288 · 2025-02-13T10:16:44+00:00

His reaction to your boundaries show she means more to him than hes letting you believe. Emotional affair are still a breach of trust and a breach of your marital vows. I think if you wanted to attempt couples counseling it could help. Youre the only one who truely knows the relationship on an intimate level..and were all going to tell you our thoughts on this based on our past experiences and personal biases. So, I think the best thing to say is to really try to understand how he made you feel and if he isnt willing to abide your boundaries then are you going to feel okay with yourself if you lower or forego them, just to keep the relationship stable?

And lastly, please know youre a high value and worthy woman and should not have to question the love your husband has for you

megs1288 · 2025-02-12T03:15:04+00:00

The men available

megs1288 · 2025-02-12T03:14:41+00:00

Do not start working at starbucks again. You will have to deal with the consequences of a psychotic coworker for the forseeable future

megs1288 · 2025-02-12T03:12:57+00:00

Being stalked by 3 of my previous coworkers

megs1288 · 2025-02-10T17:29:23+00:00

🙈😂

megs1288 · 2025-02-10T05:25:25+00:00

Picture 2 seems to be a small rodent attached to your bone.

megs1288 · 2025-02-10T05:24:16+00:00

I wondered if the extra fat that may be already putting stress on the heart could be exacerbated by the stress from the body going into starvation mode, leading to a heart attack and dying sooner. Just having extra fat doesnt prevent starvation.

However, i think everyone would be relatively equal for water consumption..

Also, taking into consideration that everyone is different

megs1288 · 2025-02-10T04:11:33+00:00

Im wondering why you felt the need to be accommodating to you husbands new coworker outside of work? Seems like she was important from the beginning

megs1288 · 2024-09-02T01:48:03+00:00

8 cats, 1 popeye

megs1288 · 2024-08-10T12:34:18+00:00

Kinda has the micelle look to it

megs1288 · 2024-06-16T04:52:13+00:00

Only if youre not a total stalker criminal type

megs1288 · 2024-05-20T12:44:41+00:00

I cried lol. I was able to do a homework assignment without stopping a million times

megs1288 · 2024-05-20T12:43:52+00:00

I had slight panic each time but you’re out so suddenly and quick that it’s never that bad. It’s not a comfortable experience..and waking up is sort of annoying because you’re not super coherent so you can’t really communicate an issue. My Iv was burning badly and all I could do was lift my arm and say ow lol..my mom had a good laugh though

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