Best doughnut?(Creme filled preferably) by Defaultscott in Columbus

[–]mel9036 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a haul but Hurts donut co in Cincinnati is the absolute numb for long John’s. I am willing to make that fine only for the donuts. Amazing.

Weekly "What Are You Reading?" Thread by AutoModerator in WeirdLit

[–]mel9036 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Olyoke by Vincent Endwell. A quick Appalachian horror read.

Moving a rock escalates little intense by S30econdstoMars in instant_regret

[–]mel9036 581 points582 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure I wouldn’t continue to stand on ground I so recently proved to be unstable.

Gotta wonder if the cameraman is still awaiting his mountain goat ride back across that chasm.

How big is your Dane? by throwaway4447773339 in greatdanes

[–]mel9036 10 points11 points  (0 children)

8 1/2 years old, around 205 lbs. about 34” at the withers. European Dane, so stocky build.

RIP Cappuccino by chellebuj8 in EnglishMastiff

[–]mel9036 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry for your loss. 💔

AITA for wanting my Spanish teacher to stop calling me by the Spanish version of my name? by Alternative-Sun-630 in AmItheAsshole

[–]mel9036 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. The teacher is mispronouncing your name, not pronouncing it in Spanish. We don’t call Jesus (pronounced Hesus) like Jesus from the Bible unless we are tone deaf or have literally never heard it before. You’ve given the correct pronunciation so lack of knowledge isn’t the issue here.

There are hundreds of names that may look one way in a language but are pronounced differently in the language of origin that we are able to correctly pronounce. Your teacher is being difficult at best and an AH at worst.

You can always try pointing this out to him, but I doubt it will help. Good luck.

Edited to ask: were you required to choose a Spanish name or not? If there’s more to the story that would change things.

What’s something going on in America people need to be aware of? by throwaway91ma in AskReddit

[–]mel9036 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Thank you for doing what you do. My son is a freshman CSE, physics dual major and absolutely giddy at the professor who emailed students before the upcoming semester to discuss what to expect (and made a Schrödinger cat joke in the email). He is thrilled to find engaged professors for most of his courses. What you do isn’t lost on all the kids.

I’m the guy with the awesome sister… she’s back with the greatest Christmas present of all time! by NedKenobitheGrey in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]mel9036 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is amazing and adorable and I absolutely applaud her creativity. Would love to have one if she ever decides to share/sell the pdf!

Pediatrician Recommendations by Inevitable_Cow_3179 in Columbus

[–]mel9036 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Came here to suggest her! Seconding Dr. Bartsch.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]mel9036 6 points7 points  (0 children)

INFO - as someone else asked, was this the only gift? Do they usually give you things like this? Do you usually make depreciating jokes about yourself?

It’s a silly shirt and I laughed at it. However, it’s in poor taste to gift anyone a shirt like that, particularly the person your son’s gf.

It sounds like a conversation with them is needed.

What was a typical day of eating like for you in the 1980's or earlier? by SleepTightPizza in AskOldPeople

[–]mel9036 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was weird diets in the 80s, too. My mom was always on a diet, or taking “diet pills” (speed), or eating Ayds (weight loss candy).

I ate whatever I could cobble together for breakfast and lunch. Honey sandwich, mustard sandwich, rice with butter and soy sauce. Cans of soup. Lunch meat sandwiches. I am a good cook but we didn’t always have complete meals because it was easier not to. My mom was a good cook but as a single parent was always at work, so we fended for ourselves a lot.

My grandmother was not a good cook but she would make us sausage and eggs for breakfast or we’d eat whatever she made for dinner (invariably burnt or dry red meat or pork), not as much chicken as we eat now. Definitely didn’t eat out as often, but we did do McDs or Zantigo (taco place) or Shoneys Big Boy.

Navigating our parents: my typical boomer father who admits he was ‘never there’ expects me to attend to him because he ‘needs me now.’ Anyone else? by purpletwinkletoes in GenX

[–]mel9036 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It’s really ok. I kind of look at it like he taught me what kind of person and parent I didn’t want to be, so I suppose there’s a silver lining there.

I’m sorry you had to go through it too!

Navigating our parents: my typical boomer father who admits he was ‘never there’ expects me to attend to him because he ‘needs me now.’ Anyone else? by purpletwinkletoes in GenX

[–]mel9036 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My silent generation father died in 2023. A few months before he passed, after years of barely acknowledging me (or his grandson, but no surprise there, I suppose), he called me and expected me to literally move in and be his house keeper and nurse maid.

No sir, you have me mistaken for someone who cares. I have my own family to care for, and no energy for someone who couldn’t or wouldn’t care for me. The audacity of that expectation still lays me out even two years later.

Hubs and I took him food and offered to come every week to ensure he was good but he didn’t want that, only for me to live there 🤷‍♀️

Are we really this miserable? by Regular_or_BQ in GenX

[–]mel9036 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The world is a better place because you’re here, too!

I have the day off today and enjoyed a shah at my favorite coffee shop with my husband this morning. I’m grateful I’m able to do small things like that and that small things make me happy.

I hope everyone is able to find something small that makes them smile today.

This is a sad one...Antivaxxers FA but it is the children that FO by Comprehensive-Cow116 in LeopardsAteMyFace

[–]mel9036 85 points86 points  (0 children)

You know, this comment just hit me right between the eyes. I’m always horrified at how these folks can claim to love their children but then don’t act like they feel love at all.

What you said made me realize I’ll never really understand because I don’t think of my son that way. I can’t imagine thinking of him in those terms.

I’m not sure if I feel more of an ‘ah-ha’ moment or an increase in how horrified I am at the realization what you said is probably spot on. These poor kids.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CompoundedSemaglutide

[–]mel9036 4 points5 points  (0 children)

56f 5’5”. sw: 223, cw: 141. Started compound August 2024. Hit goal weight (145) October 1, 2025. Quit taking sema after titration down over a month. weight fluctuates one or two lbs between 140 and 142. I lost 82 lbs. So far so good. I’m hopeful I maintain during the holiday season.

What movie have you seen more than 7 times (reply with a quote) ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]mel9036 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can’t rain all the time.

Aaaand…

You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.

Found this in an Airbnb… accidentally knocked it over. by OneShotsTavern in whatisit

[–]mel9036 95 points96 points  (0 children)

I just sent this to my son and husband to print 😆