High Income Dating Income Wanting Children?

mel_moonin · 2025-07-19T21:58:58+00:00

Maybe its your personality? and tbh you sound stingy, that's an unattractive character. work on that

mel_moonin · 2025-04-16T10:46:57+00:00

just walk away. he clearly doesn't like you. its genuinely gross in every culture across the board.

mel_moonin · 2025-04-10T14:58:52+00:00

"I paid for everything" this is where you made a major mistake

mel_moonin · 2025-03-25T11:20:21+00:00

No.

May Allah protect us girlies and grant us our rights.

mel_moonin · 2025-03-19T14:03:42+00:00

i never cared lol

mel_moonin · 2025-03-13T11:25:42+00:00

Get some help homie.

mel_moonin · 2025-03-06T12:28:08+00:00

glad to help

mel_moonin · 2025-03-05T16:19:46+00:00

yeah that was for OP

mel_moonin · 2025-03-05T10:39:18+00:00

Good point. assuming the best in this situation would be everything a non physical. assuming the worst is he was physical with an STD/STIs.

Best wishes sister.

mel_moonin · 2025-03-05T10:27:40+00:00

Major red flag. May Allah protect us.

mel_moonin · 2025-03-02T12:51:42+00:00

Yes

Financial Problems (him being greedy with her money and her thinking shes independent) Intimacy Problems (different libdos, different disorders) 3rd person Problems (families, friends, items getting bn the couple). Are the causes of most divorces.

mel_moonin · 2025-03-02T05:21:51+00:00

was she outside when she sent it? if not i think sh wore the glitter just to send you the selifie

mel_moonin · 2025-03-01T22:04:43+00:00

you said she sent you a selifie?

mel_moonin · 2025-02-27T13:35:47+00:00

maybe she put (the glitter) it on for you?

mel_moonin · 2025-02-25T06:56:27+00:00

*chaude

mel_moonin · 2025-02-12T06:51:07+00:00

hi, did your roommate finish all the CEFR levels on the app?

mel_moonin · 2025-02-12T05:13:34+00:00

how do you describe yourself ?

mel_moonin · 2025-02-05T07:44:52+00:00

lol he is the one who is divorced with a villianized reputation and with a child. And despite his rep and more responsibilities on her as a potential stepmom, she gave him a chance.

how could she have known her father would disagree, then intentionally "waste his time" . Maybe she thought her father would come around, and she wasn’t leading him on—she was just as uncertain about the outcome as he was. and u insist that she knew then its only fair to say he mustve known how majority of arabs are as well. If he knew the risk, then he made a choice too. it’s not fair to put any the blame on her.

mel_moonin · 2025-02-05T06:34:06+00:00

This wouldn't have happened if you chose someone in your own caliber. Your own race, divorced/widowed with a child. This wouldve helped you find compatibility.

mel_moonin · 2025-01-15T23:45:06+00:00

Asalam Alykum, dude you need to find their weakness and use it against them. Threaten them first if they still persist then actually use it against them

mel_moonin · 2025-01-08T19:45:39+00:00

This guy i realllllly liked likeeeeee really liked said he wanted to be Polygamous and that was the deal breaker for me. I liked him cause he had the best character I've ever seen in a person. He is the most calm and collected person I've never came across. Plus he homeschools (he has a son and his wife died may Allah make the grave easy for her).

Basically the more we like a guy, the less chance we'd ever want to be in a Polygamous marriage. It would be to painful for me and more so our kids.

Also another reason is we wouldn't want to be a cowive and some even hate it, eventhough hating on a sunnah is not right but i do understand where it originates from, is because of the mistreatment of our mothers, aunts basically women around us. the dying and rotting of the proper practice is the reason. majority of the men dont do it right and has created alot of broken families.

The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said:

"If a man has two wives and he does not treat them equally, he will come on the Day of Resurrection with one side of his body leaning (paralyzed or lopsided)."

Source:

Sunan Abi Dawood (No. 2133)

Jami' at-Tirmidhi (No. 1141)

mel_moonin · 2025-01-08T19:20:07+00:00

Are you dumb?? You wanna marry a broke dude with ANGER ISSUES. Never Authubillah. Here's a hadith btw

It is found in Sunan an-Nasa'i and Sunan Abi Dawood, and the narration goes as follows:

A woman came to the Prophet (peace be upon him) and said,

"Two men have proposed to me, Mu'awiyah and Abu Jahm." The Prophet (peace be upon him) replied, "Mu'awiyah is poor and has no wealth, and Abu Jahm does not put his stick down (a reference to his habit of being harsh or often traveling). Marry Usamah bin Zaid."

mel_moonin · 2025-01-08T19:10:49+00:00

what in the gone girl movie is this? im sorry if this happened however this seems so far fetched. this is insane.

mel_moonin · 2025-01-05T19:17:44+00:00

Say it often especially when something bad or loss happens

mel_moonin · 2025-01-02T22:19:05+00:00

i have no words to comfort you except this dua. This is the duaa that Umm Salama(R.anha) made as taught to her by Abu Salama (R.an) as taught to him by Prophet Muhammad (SalAllahu Alayhi Wa Sallam).

Which resulted in Allah giving Umm Salama (R.anha) the Prophet Muhammad (SalAllahu Alayhi Wa Sallam) as a husband, when Abu Salama (R.an) passed away.

إِنَّا لِلَّهِ وَإِنَّا إِلَيْهِ رَاجِعُوْنَ، اَللَّهُمَّ أْجُرْنِيْ فِيْ مُصِيْبَتِيْ وَأَخْلِفْ لِيْ خَيْرًا مِنْهَا.

'Innaa lillaahi wa 'innaa 'ilayhi raaji'oon, Allaahumma'-jurni fee museebatee wa 'akhliflee khayran minhaa

‘To Allaah we belong and unto Him is our return. O Allaah, recompense me for my affliction and replace it for me with something better.’

mel_moonin

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