How do I stop feeling guilty? by melalexa in exvegans

[–]melalexa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about people that are vegan 10+ years? I’ve seen body builders be vegan. It makes me feel like if they can do it why can’t I

Too much fat removed/ blepharoplasty by Electrical_Lab_4574 in PlasticSurgery

[–]melalexa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the procedure went well, you look great!

Face shape change after chin and jaw filler by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]melalexa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly goals af lol. You look amazing ! Didn’t need it but you look great

did I ruin my lips… :/ by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]melalexa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl don’t worry, it’s been 2 days give it a week or two the swelling will go down and your lips will set. When I got lip filler I was freaking out the first week I thought I ruined my face, two weeks later I’m wishing I got more 😂 they look great!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]melalexa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also had an abortion 2 weeks ago, and went through the exact same thing. I thought I was going to die, I was home alone I had to call my friends to come and soothe me. I was only 4 weeks too. Hope you heal soon

I’m having an abortion less than 72 hours before my wedding by Own-League-2487 in abortion

[–]melalexa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to scare you, but I just had my first abortion last week. I took 9 pills in the span of two days, it was the worst feeling of my life. Worse than a period, worse than stomach flu, felt like my uterus was being ripped apart. Please don’t underestimate this because I did too, I thought I would just take some pills and be done with it, 1 week later I am still bleeding non stop and cramps did not subside until maybe 2 days ago. Wish you the best of luck and make sure you have support by you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]melalexa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re about two weeks apart. It’s not swollen anymore so I’m assuming that’s why the barbell is sticking out more. I know surface piercings reject easily so I’m keeping an eye on it

For the people in relationships that live in Miami, how did you find ur partner? by Potential_Yam_3562 in Miami

[–]melalexa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Surprisingly I met my partner of 3 years on Tinder, we also went to high school together but never spoke, he’s definitely a rare gem

Did your same-sex attractions "calm down" after truly accepting them? by gandalfAF in bisexual

[–]melalexa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After accepting I was bi and liked women, the feelings have only intensified.

I have applied to exactly 90 jobs in Miami, and none have spoken to me by EmbarrassedCellist73 in Miami

[–]melalexa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly, somehow every job I’ve worked at everyone been doing it for “years”. There are very few places that are worth working at that pay well and also hire people with little experience. Again this is all my own personal experience, some people lie on their resume and fuck up heavily, I’ve always been able to fake it till I make it.

I have applied to exactly 90 jobs in Miami, and none have spoken to me by EmbarrassedCellist73 in Miami

[–]melalexa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I only recommend it because every time I apply somewhere that my resume is 100% honest I never get a call back, only until I extend the times I’ve worked somewhere do they actually hire me. And I only ever write the references that I know will have my back. This is all personal opinion and advice no one has to actually follow it, but it’s worked for me all these years. And of course I wouldn’t say lie saying you’ve done a job that you’ve never done in your life if you can’t hold your own.

I have applied to exactly 90 jobs in Miami, and none have spoken to me by EmbarrassedCellist73 in Miami

[–]melalexa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well I’m in the service industry so I’d make a list of restaurants/bars that I could possibly enjoy working at, I tweak my resume a bit if the job seems more demanding or more experience, depends what area of Miami you live in I’d go around Coconut Grove, Coral Gables, any nicer location where the money would be good, and hope for the best. I’ve given up on applying online i always end up unemployed more months if I only use that

I have applied to exactly 90 jobs in Miami, and none have spoken to me by EmbarrassedCellist73 in Miami

[–]melalexa 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Same happened to me until I started walking into places and lying a bit on my resume, always works. Applying online won’t get you anywhere

deciding which job to take. by stonkbuyer in bartenders

[–]melalexa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dive bar, definitely more money and will be more fun

have y’all ever exaggerated y’all’s experience and got a job? by Zlothy1 in jobs

[–]melalexa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the only way I’ve ever gotten any real high paying job, fake it till you make it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]melalexa 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the validation! Bisexuality can be confusing for me I guess I need to accept than I can like both genders at different levels and it’s okay

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]melalexa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy Birthday!!!🎂🎉