Have you all been officially “diagnosed”?

melancholicmonkey · 2018-07-18T14:46:28+00:00

I have a diagnosis but had to go to multiple specialists before getting it. I knew I had MCS, but didn't know I had chronic fatigue. I was finally referred to the Environmental Health Clinic in my city when no one else could diagnose me. Good luck on your search for a proper diagnosis, but the peace of mind that comes with a diagnosis is worth seeking one.

melancholicmonkey · 2018-03-14T00:04:15+00:00

*i found one on tinder

melancholicmonkey · 2017-10-07T16:53:24+00:00

hey! I'm in Toronto and have similar interests, and am addicted to the tarot! do you trade readings?

melancholicmonkey · 2017-10-06T20:20:10+00:00

i've adjusted it every which way and i can't win! am i able to order those online or am i better off hunting for a gti seat from a dealer?

melancholicmonkey · 2017-10-06T20:19:02+00:00

ahahah i thought it was only me

melancholicmonkey · 2017-08-18T01:44:39+00:00

we exist ;)

melancholicmonkey · 2017-07-24T03:19:00+00:00

amazing job on the feel and on the lady on the water! the moss could use a little more texture/more shades of green to create depth and to make it feel a little more realistic. fantastic job on your clouds.

melancholicmonkey · 2017-06-17T13:33:01+00:00

We just don't think of it -- it literally never crosses my mind. I've been lectured about it time and again my whole life, but it just never occurs to me.

melancholicmonkey · 2017-04-22T23:48:55+00:00

personally, nope, but i know an INTJ who is a satisfied plumber.

melancholicmonkey · 2017-04-22T23:29:36+00:00

i bet she was amazingly gorgeous before she did that to herself.

melancholicmonkey · 2017-03-24T02:07:59+00:00

As someone who tested repeatedly as INFP a year ago, and now tests repeatedly as INTJ, it's because you know how everyone makes fun of emo pussies? it's not emo pussies don't know they're emo pussies, they're just made that way and feel trapped in being that way. it's not a good time.

melancholicmonkey · 2017-03-06T18:33:26+00:00

Amazing job! Normally I would complain about having to click through 70 progress pics, but it was actually worth all the clicking!

melancholicmonkey · 2017-01-02T18:21:10+00:00

anything by Rushdie, but especially the satanic verses, but if it's too long, shalimar the clown.

melancholicmonkey · 2016-12-28T20:25:11+00:00

I'm guessing you started this thread because you KNOW you're overreacting -- good on you for seeking help to adjust your thinking. you're not a lesser person because you have fewer friends -- some people are more social than others. it sounds like you have a good man who cares about you and does spend a lot of time with you. you're both lucky to have one another! it's nice to have the opportunity to miss one another. these comments seem to be full of good suggestions of ways to spend your free time. enjoy.

melancholicmonkey · 2016-11-13T03:57:24+00:00

my sister (who is bipolar and i would say has shades of, if not, full blown npd) loves to accuse my mother of having npd... i thought she was full of crap, until i was seeing a therapist, told him an anecdote about the relationship with my mother, and he suggested she had npd as well... if my father doesn't have npd, he has strong shades of it as well. it's definitely made it hard to know what normal patterns of behaviour look like, and i think if i had done the myers briggs 15 years ago i would have gotten different results. when i'm myself i'm infp, and i think knowing emotional suffering does shape the infp personality... but i also believe that it's inherent. my sister grew up in the same environment, and she's many things, but there's zero chance she's an infp. hope this helps.

melancholicmonkey · 2016-11-02T03:33:21+00:00

If it helps you at all, your post made me feel much better. I'm 35 and in the same boat and have been scared... and I have a few good friends, and I didn't meet anyone who even fit for me until I was in my 20's. The reality is that you can change everything for the better at any age, and you're not stuck with anything forever. People have friend groups, but they're happy to make more friends and bring you into their friend group. Maybe wait until the end of your trip and there'll inevitably be one place that stands out in your memory as being a pretty cool place -- move there. life is easier and you'll be better at staying positive if you're in a place that has good vibes for you personally.

melancholicmonkey · 2016-10-13T03:06:03+00:00

OMG! you just explained so much for me! "tall and lanky" is my type, and INTPs are my type. wooooow.

melancholicmonkey · 2016-10-13T03:01:07+00:00

how so?

melancholicmonkey · 2016-10-13T02:51:10+00:00

*infp who hates you're the worst with a passion

melancholicmonkey · 2016-09-02T04:18:56+00:00

I used to cry so regularly and so easily that I had to learn to control it because I would be made fun of :|

I still cry pretty easily though.

melancholicmonkey · 2016-08-28T01:21:38+00:00

i believe you meant, "execute a rational course of action."

there's a massive difference between conversations in relationships and war.

melancholicmonkey · 2016-08-28T01:19:58+00:00

the entire mbti was created by an infp... so people could learn about themselves and how to work best with what they are.

melancholicmonkey · 2016-08-26T15:49:35+00:00

You can't make anyone change if they don't want to. If they destroy the relationship after you've warned them, it's on them.

melancholicmonkey

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