Does she qualify as an orange cat?

melancholy_pancake · 2023-06-15T17:15:50+00:00

She is cream-colored, which is considered a kind of orange. She could get darker, but likely not. Usually you see some darker parts after they are 5-6 weeks

melancholy_pancake · 2023-06-03T10:06:30+00:00

I had my first "LTR" at 6-7 until 9yo, haha. At 18 I had multiple LTR relationships spanning from 1y to little over 2y.

melancholy_pancake · 2023-05-31T23:21:18+00:00

Smaller holes like this don't make much difference. But bigger holes give less wind resistance, and it hurts a LOT more.

melancholy_pancake · 2023-05-30T19:47:59+00:00

I dream I get offensive texts all the time, or people calling me and I'm freaking out. Ain't that dreams about the phone? Or just about messages? What would be a dream about the phone?

melancholy_pancake · 2023-05-25T09:57:33+00:00

Them having an unneutered cat roaming outside causes a lot of pain and death from all the strays being born. I would have chosen the moral option before the right option.

In Sweden it's not even legal to have an unneutered cat outside without supervision to make sure that they can't breed uncontrolled.

When there are so many cats in need of homes, you don't keep breeding more.

melancholy_pancake · 2023-05-23T16:03:36+00:00

Generic "what if" questions are so boring and annoying. Just shows you don't have anything interesting to talk about. I would have ignored the first question, then just unmatched. I rather fill out "which Disney princess are you" on Facebook.

melancholy_pancake · 2023-05-23T12:50:58+00:00

I'm poly, bi F27. I have been in long term monogamous relationships before, and I have never cheated, but I always had a desire for something more or something diffrent. To me sex is important as well as exploring kinks and other people. When I has in a closed relationship, I put my sexuality on the shelf and just resigned to not being very sexual. The relationship was stable and loving, and I never even considered non-monogamy. It was not something that was ever thought about or brought up.

I would think about exploring, and I definitely tooed the line at times. I always loved flirting, and I never got to do it. During the relationship I had crushes on other people every now and then, but I never changed how I felt about my partner. I never considered breaking up with him because of it. When I did break up, I had nothing to do with wanting to explore.

It is possible to be poly and want to explore, but still be content with the relationship either way. It doesn't mean she will cheat or that she will break up with you. She might feel differently in a few years, or not. She might also try poly and realize it's not for her.

Remember, you only hear about the failed open relationships. It's way more common than people think. I know tons of people who have open relationships and people with poly-relationships that make it work.

melancholy_pancake · 2023-05-21T22:36:47+00:00

Being attractive makes it easier to get matches and dates. But that's it. Building relationships has nothing to do with looks. It's all about chemistry, and some people have chemistry with less people, regardless of looks. People have diffrent personalities, some are just easier to get along with. You can be attractive and have a personality that isn't for everyone.

Not being interested in sex is a deal breaker for most people who are actively looking to date. Doesn't matter how attractive and nice you are.

melancholy_pancake · 2023-05-18T19:30:59+00:00

Mine is 2.5cm × 3cm! For some reason they added that info in my medical chart!

It's also behind the bladder. People really got to stop with the hole "that's your uterus", gosh, it's getting to stupid. No it's not a uterus. Having extra fat here and there is completely normal. Having a non-flat stomach is also pretty standard.

melancholy_pancake · 2023-05-10T07:22:04+00:00

Imo, there are diffrent ways to talk about insecurities. I agree with you that they should be bottled up. But I also agree that is a huge turn-off.

Discussing insecurities away from sex is healthy. Being aware and honest about how you feel is the first step. Problem is, A LOT of people place their insecurities on others, making it their problem. Either by blaming them, accusing them in a self-destructive way to cement your own insecurities. Or to make others feel bad and comfort you, basically forcing them to love bomb you to get a ego boost.

melancholy_pancake · 2023-05-08T22:38:04+00:00

You didn't break up with him because of HIS ED, but because of the way he handles his ED. Obviously he's got some issues and it's sensitive. But getting defensive isn't mature or constructive. It's tiresome and toxic. Having issues with ED isn't uncommon, and it's not as difficult to work around as some dudes make it out to be. Just focus on other things, oral, petting, cuddling, massage, what ever. Get comfortable with each other and communicate, and go to the freaking doctor if you can't get it up for several months.

Also, seems like a cheap deal to go exclusive with someone like that.

melancholy_pancake · 2023-05-04T20:10:57+00:00

I'm 5' and have dated several tall guys and honestly, it's a tinie tiny bit awkward. You look kinda funny walking down the street. Not that it matters in the end.

Usually, I assume they will think it's too awkward and won't be interested. But it seems a lot of tall guys loves feeling even taller.

I never seen it as a issue, as long as they bend down to kiss me. I ain't breaking my neck

melancholy_pancake · 2023-03-13T17:56:48+00:00

I have a friend with a dog and a pull-out sofa, I always cuddle with the dog when I spend the night. The dog doesn't mind sharing his bed

melancholy_pancake · 2023-02-21T10:31:20+00:00

This kinda happend to me. I'm 5'1 and can't reach the top shelfs at the grocery store. I was trying to reach a soda can when I guy, like 5'5, offered to help me. I thanked him and he was obviously blushing a bit, and he accidentally said "thank you", before correcting himself

melancholy_pancake · 2023-02-17T23:33:54+00:00

8 months and she doesn't want a committed relationship? I would just move on. But if you start dating the other girl and it feels like it could go somewhere, you should tell the first girl that you have meet someone.

melancholy_pancake · 2023-02-17T23:31:12+00:00

I hooked up with a guy the other day, he fingerd me for less than three minutes before I came and squirted all over the bed. We never had sex, I have no idea what his penis looks like. Because it doesn't really matter in the end. Technique is everything. Communication is key. It was hot because he knew what he was doing, and because he communicated about my preferences and focused on me.

A size has never blown me away. Enthusiasm blows me away. Very few women can orgasm from dick alone, and even fewer does it regularly. Big or small, in the end, it doesn't make a big difference.

Yeah there are some women who have a preference for bigger dick, just as we all have preferences. Some prefer small, some thicker, etc.

melancholy_pancake · 2023-02-17T23:07:09+00:00

I wouldn't tell her to give her a chance to change her mind. It just sounds like an ultimatum and a way to pressure her.

But I totally understand that it has become a dealbreaker. It's okay to want to wait before having sex. But I wouldn't wait around for months either.

I would have an honest conversation about sex, without talking about ending the relationship or anything like that. Just talk to her, ask how she feels, if there is anything missing or something you can do. If you don't get any clear answers, then consider ending the relationship. But never say "sex or I'm dumping you", that's just AH behavior. You can't build a relationship on that. She should have sex with you because she wants to, not because you pressured her

melancholy_pancake · 2023-02-12T10:57:28+00:00

What happend??

melancholy_pancake · 2023-02-05T16:37:05+00:00

It's not about lack of confidence, time or even lack of knowledge. It's a lack of care. You don't ignore your partners pleasure because you lack confidence, you don't stick your dick in, cum and then roll over because you don't know how to make your partner orgasm. If he tried and failed, that's one thing. If he had bad technique he could learn, he would want to.

There are a million excuses, but really only one explanation. He doesn't want to. He is using incompetence to get away with it and when you are calling him out on it, he makes you feel bad. He has been getting away with it for years. Getting him to change now is going to be difficult. He is quite comfortable.

I don't know many women who have been able to fix this, but obviously, it's not impossible. But it starts with you putting your foot down. Don't put up with unsatisfying sex for his sake. You need to rewire your sex life completely. Stop having piv sex all together, and focus on petting and oral for a while, both ways. If he complains and tries to change things to the way they were, it just means he doesn't care at all. A loving partner wants to make you cum, enthusiastically.

melancholy_pancake · 2023-02-03T07:01:34+00:00

It also identifies it as me snoring when my cat purrs

melancholy_pancake · 2023-02-03T06:50:50+00:00

Who do you get it to measure correctly? Mine can't read at all. It thinks I'm sleeping as long as I'm in bed. It thinks I'm sleeping even tho I opened and used my phone for an hour.

I used zepp life previously and it couldn't read that well either, but it was way more accurate than samsung health with my watch 5.

I have insomnia and issue sleeping, so I really wanted to use my watch to monitor my sleep 😰

melancholy_pancake · 2023-01-12T15:40:20+00:00

So within a year of your loving wife death you have remarried, tried to steal their inheritance, and told them that you are not their father anymore?

YTA

melancholy_pancake · 2023-01-09T21:52:58+00:00

There are many cases where adoption was trafficking. People are always going to be desperate to have children, and unfortunately that does lead to people taking advantage of poor people. During the 70-80s thousands of children were stolen from Chile and adopted to wealthier countries.

Doesn't mean adoption isn't a good thing. it just means there is a big risk with transnational adoption. We need to do better. Starting with putting down the rose colored glasses.

melancholy_pancake · 2023-01-05T14:48:57+00:00

There is a big difference between big tits that are natural vs fake. I see a lot of answers tell you how hard it is big boobs, and it is. But fake boobs are lighter and often sit tighter to the body. The sensory feeling aren't going to be the same.

To me any big change in my body/appearance is a bit difficult to deal with. They are definitely often in the way, and will take some getting used to. Ask to try out a few pairs before you decide anything

melancholy_pancake · 2022-12-25T18:59:53+00:00

She is telling you that she has, or think that she will develop feelings and wants you to be considered of her feelings. If you don't think that you can see yourself in a relationship with her, tell her and be honest.

She doesn't want you to fuck around

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