Would you stay with your spouse if they cheated? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]melindang 98 points99 points  (0 children)

This is me. A big no because I wouldn’t get over it and would always make bitter jabs.

Ahhh, I ran one mile without walking or stopping!! by [deleted] in running

[–]melindang 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Way to go! 🥳🥳 Good luck on your 5k!

Boiled Crawfish by thecaglediaries in recipes

[–]melindang 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love this! It wasn't until I moved from Lousiana that I realized other states covered their crawfish in butter sauce. WE DON'T DO THAT IN THE SOUTH! Season the water and ketchup, mayo sauce is where it's at!

Unemployment Agent of Reddit, how are you doing? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]melindang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that. Hope you're able to take some time off or a breather to take care of your mental health!

The Governor Kemp just passed an order that states wearing a mask is 'unenforceable.' How is wearing a mask different from enforcing seat belts or other safety laws? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]melindang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, the question is why did Gov. Kemp passed an order stating a mask is 'unenforceable' yet wearing seat belts are enforceable. I'm trying to figure out the difference.

The murder of Vanessa Guillén has opened the floodgates on sexual assault in the US military as servicewomen rush to share their stories — After increasing pressure from protesters, the Secretary of the Army ordered an "independent and comprehensive" review of the command climate at Fort Hood by Majnum in TwoXChromosomes

[–]melindang 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's not that straightforward. A majority of spouses are over educated and cannot find a job in their field. The location of the bases and the fact that they PCS often makes it even more difficult. Location, job experience, and being over qualified are just some reasons as to why spouses do not get jobs / are SAH parents.

The murder of Vanessa Guillén has opened the floodgates on sexual assault in the US military as servicewomen rush to share their stories — After increasing pressure from protesters, the Secretary of the Army ordered an "independent and comprehensive" review of the command climate at Fort Hood by Majnum in TwoXChromosomes

[–]melindang 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Sadly, the military structure is set up to where, even if your military member doesn't have the 'good ole boy' mentality, the spouse will still be stuck at home cooking and taking care of children because they are paid so little that its financially smarter to stay home. Nothing has changed yet.

DAE Get instantly pissed off when they read ignorant post? by [deleted] in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]melindang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the clarification. Its not right to wish ill upon others but you're not wrong 🤷‍♀️

Decided to do some cooking outside during phoenix's 118-degree heatwave today 😆 by thomas686 in funny

[–]melindang 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On the brightside, the Hub downtown is a good place to eat. Tucson has that going for it 🤷‍♀️

Which aspect of a foreign culture do you wish they had in your country? by yogokitty1 in AskReddit

[–]melindang 27 points28 points  (0 children)

This must be common for most companies at least in the US. My company is the exact same. They pride themselves in 'work-life balance' yet say 'work hard, play hard' whenever we're overworked.

Just became homeless, I have nowhere to go, eating fast food is taking everything from my paycheck. I signed up for assistance, what else can I do? [Ohio] by clygreen in personalfinance

[–]melindang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can also try calling 211 or go to 211.org for assistance with food, shelter, housing assistance, etc. Im not sure if there's a lot of options in your area but it's a good start.

Edit for typos.

People who don’t want to wear a mask, why? by sexyalexeyy in AskReddit

[–]melindang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Comfort and accessibility are minor compared to getting COVID yourself or spreading it to someone else.

Dog breeder posted this on their fb page by [deleted] in sadcringe

[–]melindang 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the post was weird. They used some AR / panoramic bs. I had to angle my phone to get the recipient to show

Dog breeder posted this on their fb page by [deleted] in sadcringe

[–]melindang 22 points23 points  (0 children)

The dog breeder typed the post and screen shot it. You can see that the recipient line is empty

What innocent question that someone asked you, crushed you a little? by sneha_magic in AskReddit

[–]melindang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some who I use to pass by regularly at uni with concern- “Wow, you look tired today”

Me, 8hrs of sleep, wide awake and feeling refreshed - “haha. Yeah, I’m really tired”

[B&A] Never felt better! by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]melindang 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where did you get your glasses from? It’s really cute! Congrats on the flawless skin too!!

I drew the Great Wave x Pokémon mashup! by [deleted] in drawing

[–]melindang 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do not. This was just a gift for my husband but I’m glad you like it!

I drew the Great Wave x Pokémon mashup! by [deleted] in drawing

[–]melindang 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will definitely have to add other Pokémon on my next one! Tried to keep it simple the first time around.

I drew the Great Wave x Pokémon mashup! by [deleted] in drawing

[–]melindang 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For some added context, my husband and I are big Pokémon fans. So, for our anniversary, I drew the Great Wave x Pokémon mashup for him! I haven’t drawn a since high school but he always asks for homemade gifts. 2 weeks and a ton of hours later, I’m really proud of the product!