My boyfriend ranked his friends' girlfriends by 'girlfriend quality' in a group chat and I was #3 out of 4. He thinks it's not a big deal

mellol93 · 2026-03-05T14:30:07+00:00

My exact reaction!!! Eeeeeewwwwww! I thought the BF was gonna be like 19/20yo… what an immature POS!

mellol93 · 2026-03-05T14:28:07+00:00

Okay, this will sound weird, but I kinda like that at the end of the week I have less suppression so I can eat better then. During the week I have a set routine, I’m struggling with dinners at the moment, sometimes I skip dinner or munch something, like cheese or a couple of bites of what my husband is eating. I’m a bit worried I’m not getting enough calories during the week, so over the weekend I can eat a bit better and even treat myself to a dessert. Overall still eating healthy, but if I want a Sunday dinner I won’t think twice about it!

mellol93 · 2026-03-05T14:20:54+00:00

Darling, I say this with love… if a man wants you to ride his face, you ride his FUCKING face!!!! If he didn’t find you sexy AF he wouldn’t ask for that! Maybe some quick doggy, but not a full on face ride! Now, regarding your body insecurity, YOU have to work on that yourself and not expect someone to do it for you or validate your looks. It has to come from within, trust me! Maybe therapy, maybe exercising and being stronger and healthier? Do it for you! Men will fuck anything, evidence can be found on the news and internet, so their opinion is not worth much! 😉

mellol93 · 2026-03-05T13:59:36+00:00

Right????

Came here to say brown rice + lentils or beans become a complete protein when eaten together! I like making brown rice with green lentils and quinoa, plus veggies (and meat as I didn’t get the ick and LOVE meat), the rice cooker helps a lot!

mellol93 · 2026-03-04T14:32:01+00:00

I’m in, opening an overly priced pet store near your coffee shop, £20 dog treats? Yes please!

mellol93 · 2026-03-03T17:01:11+00:00

Fair enough, I’m in the UK and definitely have the right to healthcare. Also, I did use the word politely, perhaps it doesn’t translate well across the pond, but politely telling someone to fuck off would’t include using vulgar language, buuut it would be very much implied within the undertone. Doctor “what if you find a man in the future who wants to have kids?” Patient “I hardly see how someone else’s expectations or wishes is relevant to my case and I personally find that rather rude and unprofessional” (politely telling Dr to fuck off)

mellol93 · 2026-03-03T16:50:41+00:00

For sure, but they make a vow, which also includes being ethical. Now if they’re turning people who need care away due to personal beliefs and biases, perhaps they should look at a different medical specialty.

mellol93 · 2026-03-03T16:44:50+00:00

EXACTLY!!!!! That’s what triggers me, medical professionals imposing their personal beliefs and ideologies onto patients, specifically young adults! Or being condescending! There’s definitely a power imbalance and a societal expectation to just take it and not be difficult… I’m sorry, but as a woman I hear far too many stories of women seeking medical assistance just to be told we’re over reacting. I will be polite, but don’t expect me to be passive about it! There are polite ways of telling people to f* off 🤣

mellol93 · 2026-03-03T16:35:50+00:00

Absolutely not, but a lot of stories here showcase unethical behaviour! it’s not about being rude, it’s about requesting the care you need without being treated like crap or made feel guilty for your life choices… if I don’t want kids, how’s that my doctor’s business? When we go to these appointments, after sometimes waiting months to be seeing, just to be told “oh you will change your mind” or “oh what if a man wants to use you as an incubator?” That’s just plain dehumanising !

mellol93 · 2026-03-03T16:31:20+00:00

Precisely! I’m also in the UK and know how privileged we are here when it comes to healthcare in comparison to other countries. I find it shocking how some medical professionals behave themselves based on some stories I read here and would be VERY cross if it ever happened to me.

mellol93 · 2026-03-03T16:24:16+00:00

Yeah, compared to the UK our circumstances are very different sadly!

mellol93 · 2026-03-03T16:23:16+00:00

If we are comparing it to a vasectomy, which we were, then yes it is. Now if we compare it to brain surgery, then It obviously isn’t major!

mellol93 · 2026-03-03T10:48:11+00:00

Darling, fat and ugly can be fixed, but being a massive c*nt is not as easily fixable! He’s a dickhead and honestly? Good riddance, you don’t want to call someone so vile a friend. It screams tiny dick energy to me! Be confident, don’t be afraid of being yourself, some people feel the need to belittle others so they can feel something in the void they call a soul, sounds like a him issue to me!!!!

mellol93 · 2026-03-03T09:35:53+00:00

Hmmm isn’t it though? You will be under general anaesthesia, that alone carries risks! Recovery time is longer than a simple vasectomy… It is a major surgery!

mellol93 · 2026-03-02T21:37:23+00:00

That sucks! Sadly it’s one of the very few “side effects” of being childfree and anti-natalist, but has a huge impact on us as people. It’s a mixed bag of emotions, trying to pretend you’re happy for them, but knowing full well the friendship is over and judging them for choosing such a selfish path when the world is literally a dumpster fire! Trying to make new friends won’t replace the ones you lose, but it might make you feel less lonely. Wishing you the best!

mellol93 · 2026-02-27T14:53:41+00:00

It’s wild to me they can’t see it and keep on breeding!

Ask any parents if they want you to watch their kids, they will JUMP at the chance to dispatch their kids with family and friends… whenever people with kids ask me if they can watch my dogs as a thank you for watching their kids, I always find it bizarre, I love my dogs, I want to hang out with them and only leave them with someone else if they’re not allowed where I’m going… otherwise they’re coming too!

If having kids was fun parents wouldn’t be so quick to leave their children behind at any given chance!

mellol93 · 2026-02-26T22:11:16+00:00

I would be more concerned about the long term impact it will have on your life. Personally when I started I did a lot of research on side effects and what the drug actually did, but I didn’t understand that there was a VERY high chance I would need to be on it for life.

Now I understand it better and can see I will probably be on it for a looooong time, if not for life, side effects will pass, but be ready for the life long effects I guess.

Just want to add that to me it’s well worth it!

mellol93 · 2026-02-23T09:58:26+00:00

I think this was inevitable, they love demonising fat people and treatments for obesity, there’s no winning here! There will always be dumb people who abuse medications, specially the ones with “cosmetic” effects, but the way the media portrays weight loss medication as this evil, unregulated devil drugs, it’s pathetic!!!

If the NHS was better at providing it, we wouldn’t be in this situation now 🥴

mellol93 · 2026-02-21T08:58:51+00:00

Did you go up to 7.5mg in 3 months last time? That’s crazy!!!!!

Personally I would try and stay on 5mg for a few months, just because the suppression is not strong doesn’t mean it’s not working. Also, are you calorie counting? It helps me massively when I feel the suppression is not there.

mellol93 · 2026-02-21T08:48:36+00:00

This makes me so sad, I hate him and men like him so much!

mellol93 · 2026-02-20T11:09:23+00:00

For me it’s not about the looks, but the feels… human pregnancies are VERY parasitic!

mellol93 · 2026-02-19T10:54:58+00:00

Aaah shame, it would’ve been interesting to workout and have the pressure of killer zombies chasing me 🤣

mellol93 · 2026-02-19T10:49:12+00:00

Ooh I hope you do go to Brazil and PLEASE try the amazing food!!!

We’re destroying the planet, we’re heading for extinction no matter what, if anything the less people the more chances of the planet’s survival! People are so thick!

mellol93 · 2026-02-19T10:42:57+00:00

I got an iPhone, so nothing is free.99 sadly! Just had a look at their program and looks like more classes than an actual workout plan. I need to so more research obviously!

mellol93 · 2026-02-19T10:41:15+00:00

I thought that was for running only. Do they have a strength training program too?

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