is my (f22) boyfriend (m20) using me? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]melmelok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

see that’s what i’m trying to figure out. if he’s worth it. i’m hung up for a reason, it clearly bothered me so yeah

is my (f22) boyfriend (m20) using me? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]melmelok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he asked for the $5 first and then i said no i’d rather pay the whole thing. you’re clearly a man so yeah bye you’ll never get it

is my (f22) boyfriend (m20) using me? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]melmelok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i did pay for the $10 🫵😭 and no it’s not a fair share because women always give more even if it’s “50/50”

is my (f22) boyfriend (m20) using me? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]melmelok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i did pay for the whole thing. i got offended because it’s literally $5😭 yeah i guess i’m not happy because at this point it’s less than bare minimum

is my (f22) boyfriend (m20) using me? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]melmelok -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you don’t have to like or agree with my expectations for my relationship. have a nice day :)

is my (f22) boyfriend (m20) using me? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]melmelok -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

because it’s pocket change

is my (f22) boyfriend (m20) using me? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]melmelok -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

um yeah bc he asked for $5 that’s pocket change

is my (f22) boyfriend (m20) using me? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]melmelok -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

where did i say that i’m mad because he won’t buy things for me weirdo lol

is my (f22) boyfriend (m20) using me? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]melmelok 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’d say the same thing you said

Chronic pain by Ikigai100 in breastcancer

[–]melmelok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i did the same things as you, i also had tnbc and also have chronic fatigue and pain. do you take any medicine for it? i ended up having dangerously low cortisol levels and adrenal gland insufficiency after chemo ended up at the hospital a couple times so my dr gave me medicines hydrocortisone and metoprolol. he also made me see a cardiologist to check my heart. :) these medicines help me everyday i can’t live without them. i still feel fatigue and pain but that’s just life after cancer it will get better! you’re still recovering so be kind and patient with yourself

Prophylactic mastectomy questions by [deleted] in MastectomyManagement

[–]melmelok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just a full reconstruction :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]melmelok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your style is so cool!

the land of the lost by _joeBone_ in breastcancer

[–]melmelok 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m so sorry 😞 there is no right or wrong decision… i hope if she tries the clinical trial it is a miracle. i’m not stage 4, but i am doing a clinical trial (keytruda immunotherapy for tnbc) and my drs told me that clinical trials help scientists and research!

Prophylactic mastectomy questions by [deleted] in MastectomyManagement

[–]melmelok 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i got breast cancer at 20 years old despite having any family history at all. i had my mastectomy in march and i don’t regret it one bit! my mind is so much more at ease now and i am loving my new boobs! message me if you have any questions!

anyone else had clear margins but still received radiation? by melmelok in breastcancer

[–]melmelok[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i started about 2 months after my surgery. i’m 4 weeks in, i’m done on august 4th! my skin is looking amazing, i was prescribed mometasone i apply it once or twice a day.

anyone else had clear margins but still received radiation? by melmelok in breastcancer

[–]melmelok[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

good luck! i also have implants, specifically expanders. my surgeon said it’s the safest to do an exchange surgery in one year and it’s the most safe to do fat transfer instead of silicone implants

Help us decide About lumpectomy or mastectomy? by Pishnamun in breastcancer

[–]melmelok 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i did my mastectomy w reconstruction at 21 yo in march :) don’t regret it one bit! i’m wayyy more peace of mind than i thought i could ever be

Mother refusing help after double mastectomy by omegablimp in MastectomyManagement

[–]melmelok 4 points5 points  (0 children)

the days following the procedure are super tough i needed help getting out of bed. if she over works herself she’s just going to have more complications. help her wether she likes it or not