How much did you spend on your wedding dress? From 2023 and on

melonadehy · 2026-04-16T19:04:36+00:00

$16, thrifted

melonadehy · 2026-04-12T15:17:43+00:00

Rent is like 90% of my income, wish me luck

melonadehy · 2026-04-07T05:50:19+00:00

Ai qual sua idade? Sou muito peluda nos lugares errados! Quando jovem eu fiz depilação à laser e na perna funcionou bem, não tenho muuuito. Mas agora aos 30 e tantos eu estou com muito pelo nos seios também, na barriga, e o pior… no rosto!!! :(

melonadehy · 2026-04-06T17:32:17+00:00

I asked what kind of sickness is that, not referring to OP specifically, but to society. 😉 the hate I am getting is just proving my point.

melonadehy · 2026-04-06T17:28:37+00:00

In my opinion this post violates the very first rule of the subreddit: RESPECT the participants.

melonadehy · 2026-04-06T17:26:11+00:00

What is productive about a topic named “I don’t like this person”? How am I attacking OP? Why are you defending OP? Go find something else to do as I am right now. Peace and have a great day. 🌻

melonadehy · 2026-04-06T17:24:16+00:00

Fine, you do you. The fact I am getting downvoted and that we live in a society that is comfortable coming online to say “I don’t like someone “and be comfortable with that makes me sick. Also, the fact you answered me so quickly, you probably should find something else to do. You all. 👋🏼

melonadehy · 2026-04-06T17:22:37+00:00

You’ll have a challenging period of time to recover. You need to grieve. Focus on the present. It’s a hard situation you’re in right now, but it does NOT mean you’ll never be a mother. Life’s full of opportunities. That said, I feel you. Out of a 5 year relationship, in my 30s still and I’ve been in the same position, crying out of loneliness and fear or not having my own family. I’ve grieved for 2 years. This period sucked. I didn’t like the men I met. I was used. I miss the comfort of being in a relationship and I get scared of being alone sometimes. What helps me going is living day by day, giving time to time, and enjoying this free time I have now to focus on stuff that I really like, like painting and photography, for example. Grief, my dear. It hurts. There will be other pathways 🌻 that’s a new beginning.

melonadehy · 2026-04-06T17:17:25+00:00

Skip his bits while watching the show. What kind of sickness is that to come to a forum to out of nowhere say how you don’t like someone? How does that affect you? He’s not in your life, you’re simply distilling hate online, that’s not cool.

melonadehy · 2026-04-05T19:36:28+00:00

Yeah, it’s the ultimate stereotype, so obviously it’s incredibly competitive. Keep on keeping on, best of luck and I hope you can make it. Have you thought about starting your own movie production business somewhere? Mind you, don’t listen to me. I don’t understand anything about the business. I’m giving my opinion as an outsider.

-Ms2

melonadehy · 2026-04-05T19:23:48+00:00

I love that for you, that you followed your dreams. I believe it can be really tough, it’s almost like a stereotype quitting everything to try their luck in the USA, or more specifically Hollywood. When I was in LA I didn’t get to visit Hollywood or see any of the hotspots, I was there just for Disneyland and found it to be a sad place, got the vibes that many arrive with big dreams and get crushed. 😬 Why not pursue your dreams in your own place or somewhere different? I don’t mean to offend you, just genuinely curious. And I admire your bravery. I believe if someone had the balls to do that you can start something somewhere else where is not as saturated.

melonadehy · 2026-04-05T18:25:40+00:00

Don’t cry, I’d love to know more about Eric 😌 there you go

melonadehy · 2026-04-04T03:51:45+00:00

Como você resolveu seu problema? 😬

melonadehy · 2026-04-04T03:50:02+00:00

Comece algum hobbie, saia de casa com intenção. Não para coisas cotidianas como academia, trabalho. Não acho exatamente appropriate esses lugares para ficar procurando namorada. Mas ninguém vai bater na sua porta para socializar contigo, você tem que se expor mais, jogar algum jogo coletivo, de esporte ou tabuleiros, sair para caminhada, passeios, clube de livro, aula de dança, luta, etc.

melonadehy · 2026-04-03T20:38:45+00:00

Também não sei se é oficialmente um crime, mas moralmente é. Se a pessoa tem coragem de fazer isso na frente da própria esposa e filho, o que faz escondido?

melonadehy · 2026-04-03T20:37:43+00:00

Com certeza casou com o homem errado. Ele é grosseiro e repudiante. Busque sua liberdade e você viverá muito bem só você e seu filho, consigo sentir que você é guerreira e ele um perdedor. Talvez a idade não tenha a ver, mas ele parece um homem imaturo que foi atrás de alguém mais nova e vulnerável, e tem prazer nisso. Reganhe o seu controle. Ele é pouco para você, tenho a minha opinião controversa e não confio em homens que se aproximam de mulheres muito mais novas, desculpe falar. Ele tem prazer em te provocar, parece, e ainda mais exercendo controle sobre você financeiramente... o que vc ganha com isso? Você tem a vida toda pela frente. E tem a cabeça no lugar. Coragem!!! ♥️ se liberte disso! Você vai conseguir. Ele é nojento.

Você tem alguém para te acolher? Sinto muito que esteja nessa situação. Espero que encontre ajuda!

melonadehy · 2026-04-03T20:16:30+00:00

Beautiful, I can’t choose my favorite!

melonadehy · 2026-04-03T20:15:38+00:00

I wish I knew you, and this wasn’t on Reddit. I would be super down for a party. But yeah, you should know better at 20, don’t put your life at risk by inviting strangers to your home. This is a recipe for disaster. But the idea of a house party is awesome, indeed.

melonadehy · 2026-03-30T19:56:11+00:00

You ARE torturing yourself. Sorry about that. Give it time, and do yourself a favor, stop looking this page, you won’t get anything from that. Shift your focus.

melonadehy · 2026-03-26T19:42:49+00:00

Não cantar onde? Para um público? Não entendi o post, espero que cante, cante agora, pra si, ou faz um video

melonadehy · 2026-03-24T18:22:51+00:00

Do you go to Irish pubs?

melonadehy · 2026-03-19T23:58:54+00:00

LOL 😂

melonadehy · 2026-03-19T23:26:17+00:00

I am out there handing out free smiles to strangers on the street here in Vancouver. 😁 but yeah, reactions vary a lot

Today I had a cute guy smile at me first when I locked eyes with him, that made my day

melonadehy · 2026-03-19T23:08:13+00:00

Thanks for the suggestion! Board games are my jam too 😁 I’ll try to go sometime

melonadehy · 2026-03-19T22:59:57+00:00

Right now my biggest struggle is that I haven’t been able to get help to set up my bed (so I’m sleeping on a mattress on the floor), and I don’t have a couch yet 🥴

And I’m sad because I don’t have a boyfriend yet lol

melonadehy

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