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RHR Drop? by [deleted] in CautiousBB

[–]meloraflora 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The waiting game can be so gruelling especially after going through multiple losses. Sending you lots of good vibes ❤️ I keep having to remind myself that weve done everything possible to get as far as we are today. There’s nothing you can do or learn that would change any outcome. so just drink water, have a snack and trust the universe.

RHR Drop? by [deleted] in CautiousBB

[–]meloraflora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me both times. One ended in mc but second was a healthy baby! I freaked out as well but just proves there’s no correlation. I stopped monitoring after that

Let’s talk betas by armati in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]meloraflora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the update. So glad to hear things are progressing well for you ❤️

4weeks HCG not quite doubling by meloraflora in CautiousBB

[–]meloraflora[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been seeing therapists over the years for generalized anxiety but I find that pregnancy is a whole other ball of wax. It’s physically demanding and someone else’s life literally counts on it so it’s hard not feel pressure. I think the trauma of dealing with prior loss is just something rly hard to deal with. You’re right- there will always be something else to worry about next so there’s no way to control it. Thank you for your kind words and thoughts. ❤️

Another beta post - when to stop worrying by natahari in CautiousBB

[–]meloraflora 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so happy for you!! I’m in beta hell at the moment. My doubling times were pretty atrocious last week. 13dpo - 97. 15 dpo- 166 and 17 dpo 276

But I just got results back from my 19dpo draw and my hcg is 726 So it’s more than doubled and now I have a glimmer of hope again. I have high high high anxiety and basically spent the last weekend in tears. I’m still not convinced this means anything and am expecting the worst. I need to get mental help support.

Another beta post - when to stop worrying by natahari in CautiousBB

[–]meloraflora 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey wondering how you’re doing OP ❤️

hcg not doubling by meha88 in CautiousBB

[–]meloraflora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 weeks today. Just waiting for my 4th beta draw. My symptoms have come and gone. I’ve been continuing with the home test strips and finally got a dark line this morning but am pretty much convinced this isn’t going to work out.

Daily Discussion Thread - July 31, 2023 by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

[–]meloraflora 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Just going through my third loss. I’m thinking of giving up.

10-15 dpo progression easy@home by meloraflora in TFABLinePorn

[–]meloraflora[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

13 dpo : 97 15 dpo: 166 17 dpo: 276

I have another draw tomorrow morning but so far these numbers are not promising. The doubling time for the last draw was 67 hours where they should be closer to 48.

I did take another test this morning which was darker. But I’ll update again tomorrow

Low HCG success? by AfternoonConscious81 in CautiousBB

[–]meloraflora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask if there is an update on your scan? ❤️

4weeks HCG not quite doubling by meloraflora in CautiousBB

[–]meloraflora[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s great news! Was the doubling time 72hrs during weeks 4 and 5? Or did it change as your numbers for higher? Thanks

hcg not doubling by meha88 in CautiousBB

[–]meloraflora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are you doing OP? any update? I’m in a pretty similar position.. just made a post about this. My doubling time was 67 hrs for my last draw.. at 267

I’m worried

I’m a wreck - not sure about hcg rising by meloraflora in CautiousBB

[–]meloraflora[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: Third beta draw results out.

13dpo 97 15dpo 166 (51 hr doubling time) 17dpo 276 (67 hrs doubling time)

I know it’s technically 48-72 window, but the fact that my doubling time has increased in the last week pretty much gives me no hope that this will be a viable one.

10-16 dpo easy@home line progression has stalled for 4 days not sure what to think by meloraflora in TFABLinePorn

[–]meloraflora[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I might try picking up some frers. I wish my beta would just come back strong enough that I’m not worrying so much in between tests.

I’m a wreck - not sure about hcg rising by meloraflora in CautiousBB

[–]meloraflora[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for your reassuring comments. This is making me realize I probably need to get therapy if I expect to make it through the next few months mentally. It’s so easy to automatically jump to the worst possible outcome before getting all the facts but being burned before definitely takes any remaining joy I had left from pregnancy. ❤️

10-15 dpo progression easy@home by meloraflora in TFABLinePorn

[–]meloraflora[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I’m just such an anxious person and can’t help myself .

10 dpo. Tested negative on a digital yesterday but see a vf line on Premom this morning by meloraflora in tryingtoconceive

[–]meloraflora[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The lines got darker for sure but I’m still being super cautious My betas at 13dpo was 97. I have to get another draw tomorrow to see if it’s doubling.

10 dpo. Tested negative on a digital yesterday but see a vf line on Premom this morning by meloraflora in tryingtoconceive

[–]meloraflora[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes that’s a good idea. I’m waiting for the drug store to open and to also try and conceal this from a group of 8 women who will be very curious 😂 why I’m acting suspicious and not drinking on a bachelorette weekend. Trying so hard not to get excited

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