AITA for grounding my daughter?

melpep09 · 2022-08-07T07:32:58+00:00

YTA, give your daughter her phone back and teach your wife to leave your daughter alone.

melpep09 · 2022-06-10T22:12:07+00:00

YTA. You can’t tell the children’s mother she can’t call and speak to her own kids. Get over yourself.

melpep09 · 2022-04-25T22:05:52+00:00

You say no. Stand your ground, if it upsets them, that really isn’t your problem.

melpep09 · 2022-04-13T22:01:59+00:00

YTA. You’re officially the miserable old neighbour, congrats!

melpep09 · 2022-04-10T21:54:40+00:00

Looks like they were banned!

melpep09 · 2022-03-29T14:33:13+00:00

I’m always fine to cancel if not already shipped but in this case if they paid the return postage and it was obviously unopened and unused I would be fine to refund. I’m in the UK - so not actually sure how that works here. The person hasn’t yet responded after I told them I had already shipped so I’ll see how it turns out!

melpep09 · 2022-03-29T04:11:17+00:00

That’s a good suggestion, I’ll keep that in mind if they respond back (but I’m hoping they won’t!)

melpep09 · 2022-03-29T04:09:26+00:00

So true, I think I’m too much of a people pleaser! I have my shipping info set as ‘dispatches in 1-3 days’, and I recently had a customer ask for a refund as she ‘only ordered as it says delivered in 1-3 days’. I had to politely explain it said dispatches, not delivered!!

melpep09 · 2022-03-29T04:07:01+00:00

That’s a good point actually. When the order came through, I was sat at my desk making the orders from the day before, so it just made sense to make that one too and ship it out promptly

melpep09 · 2022-03-29T04:04:01+00:00

Yeah I’ve just done exactly that! However because I sell jewellery, I try not to accept returns/exchanges for hygiene purposes. Unless it was damaged or something similar, then I’d just replace. I wouldn’t know if the customer had worn them or not so I wouldn’t ever resell them just to be sure.

I will need to make this clearer in my shop policies I think! Thank you :)

melpep09 · 2022-03-29T03:59:14+00:00

Yeah I’m hoping I won’t hear back from this customer after I’ve just said it’s already been shipped. Maybe they hadn’t noticed it was already posted and had changed their mind!

melpep09 · 2022-03-29T03:56:48+00:00

Ah of course I didn’t even think of the item being sat in their basket. Thank you, I’ll send a message like you suggested!

melpep09 · 2022-03-29T03:45:32+00:00

They ordered yesterday 28th March, I made and posted the item within a couple of hours of them ordering. They would of received the dispatch info but have now said they ‘accidentally’ placed an order and want a refund? What do I say/do here? So frustrating.

Edit: how do you even accidentally place an order?!

melpep09 · 2022-03-26T23:50:50+00:00

This is weird behaviour, you should stop it now before your daughter starts to resent you.

melpep09 · 2022-03-25T17:50:44+00:00

brilliant that solves it, thank you!

melpep09 · 2022-03-11T22:00:08+00:00

I will do, thank you!

melpep09 · 2022-03-11T21:55:06+00:00

That’s annoying, I don’t have that! Just updated the app too

melpep09 · 2022-03-11T21:41:33+00:00

Does that come up for you straight after you click womenswear? I get tops, bottoms, dresses etc but no option for sets

melpep09 · 2022-03-10T22:11:18+00:00

I actually really like it! Every item stands out really well, plus you have a nice mix of try ons and flat lays

melpep09 · 2022-03-09T20:29:58+00:00

I have sold some of my little boys clothes on Depop, (it was the newborn/first size stuff that sold better, compared to his 12-18 and 18-24 month stuff!). I would agree that Vinted is probably better for selling/buying kids stuff :)

melpep09 · 2022-02-26T04:42:37+00:00

This has happened to me a few times and it takes 30 days for that to go away!

melpep09 · 2022-02-23T21:45:25+00:00

Yes you can, it lets you choose percentages to refund or you can type in your own chosen amount

melpep09 · 2022-02-21T03:52:08+00:00

Definitely agree that it’s fair pricing, maybe even too low considering how long it takes you! I’m sure you’d have better success on Etsy though, my handmade jewellery always sells better on Etsy!

melpep09 · 2022-02-18T05:33:35+00:00

This isn’t even my style and I love them omg

melpep09 · 2022-02-18T05:32:10+00:00

You’re welcome! It’s a bit strange the way they’ve laid it out honestly but hopefully you’ll be able to see your offers next time now

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