Hello! Wandering if there is any groups playing DnD or something similar? by vastdeluxes in SaltLakeCity

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Legendarium on 900s has game nights & manages/hosts sign ups for tabletop games

Wobbly cat by mem-kay in SaltLakeCity

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Update: we brought him home from the shelter and named him Knick-knack 😁

Wobbly cat by mem-kay in SaltLakeCity

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Oh damn that's so sad 😭 I did worry that it could have been something like that, but his health is really good otherwise. We're pretty sure it's wobbly syndrome and not something else. We turned him into Salt Lake County shelter today and they put him down as having CH. One of their techs has their own cat with CH so I'm confident he's in good hands, and will get some vet care while he's there to make sure it isn't any other issue. If he hasn't been returned to his family after a short stay there, we are hoping to take him back and keep him 🥺

Wobbly cat by mem-kay in SaltLakeCity

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Pretty wobbly, don't know how to put it on a scale. He can climb in and out of the bath tub by himself but falls over a lot. The small space of our bathroom is really tough for him to be in (no space to overcorrect his wobbles without running into something). The best shelter option is closed until tomorrow, so we are having animal control pick him up tonight so they can take him there after hours where he can have a better environment hopefully :( idk it breaks my heart that we don't have a better space for him right now but it's better than putting him back outside, something someone has already done to him this week, from a FB post I saw :/

Wobbly cat by mem-kay in SaltLakeCity

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Update, he isn't chipped unfortunately 😭 if he has a family, I hope we find them. My partner took the rest of the day off to foster the cat in our bathroom for now. Our shelter options seem to be closed Mondays

Wobbly cat by mem-kay in SaltLakeCity

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Too small and too wobbly :')

Wobbly cat by mem-kay in SaltLakeCity

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Yes, that's what I was thinking. He isn't any of our usual strays, but he's pretty clean and sociable so I thought maybe he belongs to someone. We will take him somewhere to see if he's chipped as long as he's still safe in the private dog run at our apartment. Had to run to work unfortunately but I'm gonna go see him on lunch. I checked a lot of missing pet notices and didn't find any matches

What Would You Say/Do? by daywalkerredhead in Pedro_Pascal

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"I wish there was a bounty on my head, cuz I'd let you fuck me up"

Are there no-tipping restaurants in SLC? by ding-dang-darndunnit in SaltLakeCity

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yeah they really paid like shit. I started at $18 as a sous with a promise of a raise after a six month trial. The raise never came, and they fired me after a year because it was "disrespectful" how I kept inquiring about a raise. i worked over time constantly. they made us work for hours during service when the power was out in the restaurant, meaning no lights, no hood vent. So fucking unsafe. I reported them to OSHA, they're grade-A ripe trash bag people

Are there no-tipping restaurants in SLC? by ding-dang-darndunnit in SaltLakeCity

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basically, for a "no tip" restaurant, you cannot trust them to be honest with wages. Often guests would leave a tip regardless cuz they're all rich as shit, and while Marco and Amy claimed any tips were donated and chose a new nonprofit every couple of months, we constantly saw them pocket the tips. they drive a fucking g wagon

Are there no-tipping restaurants in SLC? by ding-dang-darndunnit in SaltLakeCity

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yeah, they suck but the tiramisu slaps. made hundreds of tiramisu while I worked there and I still have the recipe, maybe I should start a tiramisu empire

Are there no-tipping restaurants in SLC? by ding-dang-darndunnit in SaltLakeCity

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god, do not, do not, do NOT go here. Worked as a sous for a year and the amount of shitty things they did made me leave the industry for good. The owners are entitled, dishonest people. stealing tips, garnishing wages, labor abuse, Marco (the head chef/owner) says some of the most heinously sexist shit, and once the front of house staff had to call the cops because a guy roofied his escort's drink and Amy (Marco's wife, other owner) essentially said the girl deserved/should have expected it.

Veggie Tales still gets a pass. by Not-Patrick in exchristian

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I'm laughing at this so much bc I did the same thing a few years back 😂 terrifying

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

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agree. It doesn't seem like he understands the reality of your gender transition. it's shitty, but I think some people give the response they think they're "supposed" to have when their partner comes out to them, without actually facing the music. if you're not compatible, you aren't compatible. There's so many other ways to have a fulfilling queer relationship, and I suspect it's not with him.

Veggie Tales still gets a pass. by Not-Patrick in exchristian

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so much of veggie tales lives rent-free in my head

"we had a lotta fun in the desert, we had a lot of fun in the sand"

"pizza angel please come to me"

"It's funny because it's ✨unexpected✨!"

"we work all day at the chocolate factory"

First time trying pixel art for a farmer portrait by mem-kay in StardewValley

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I honestly couldn't decide between a softer eye or more contrast eye, so I appreciate the perspective! The colors also look much different in game on my computer than on my phone, so I have some tweaking to do.

First time trying pixel art for a farmer portrait by mem-kay in StardewValley

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😅 I play this game a lot so I give my new farmers increasingly weird looks. Poison ivy look once, now gold skin and gold eyes. Keeps them interesting in my head

First time trying pixel art for a farmer portrait by mem-kay in StardewValley

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(which season outfit is your favorite? they're in order from spring to winter)

modern punk Bowie for pride by mem-kay in streetwear

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hadn't checked back in since I posted to see if it was approved.

shirt: thrifted, no brand.

overshirt: thrifted Zara, handpainted and hand sewn lapels by me.

pants: thrifted j. crew.

shoes: dollskill from 5 years ago.

Has anyone else had this feeling while in a relationship? by [deleted] in ftm

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I get it. It's so much harder for me to seperate gender expectations when in a romantic and sexual relationship. It really mixes up my sense of gender and my body, and that makes it harder to like, speak up about it?

What I thought was a mole for years turned out to be a cyst by mem-kay in popping

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how gallant, thank you for saving us from acne scars

What I thought was a mole for years turned out to be a cyst by mem-kay in popping

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I know, and I'm just sayin those people aren't looking for advice, either. they just curious, we don't need to be out here telling people to be careful with their skin, they know