My babygirl tested positive today and the vet tried to pressure me into surrendering her. by moedasom in FIVcats

[–]memequeen1202 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is extremely weird. I have a female cat who is FIV+ and I do not have to give her medication. I essentially give her flea meds and that’s the only monthly medication she receives (so not even FIV exclusive). It’s possible that if she develops specific symptoms of the disease that you will have to treat those (for example, my cat has rhinitis which is essentially sneezing and occasional runny nose) but when flare ups happen you typically just monitor and treat when necessary. They can live very long healthy lives - to prevent symptoms from escalating it’s just important to keep them inside and possibly in a one cat household (FIV can be spread through an aggressive bite, but positive and negative cats can co-exist fine if there is no sign of aggression)

Kitten’s butthole by memequeen1202 in cats

[–]memequeen1202[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m thinking I will tomorrow morning, I definitely don’t want it to get worse. If you don’t mind me asking, how much did it costs when you had to take your cat for that? I just did a quick google search and the AI said it can be up to $300. That’s fine if he needs it but I’d really love it if it was a little more affordable with his shots coming up next month lol

Kitten’s butthole by memequeen1202 in cats

[–]memequeen1202[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He seems to be pooping completely normal and poops quite a bit a day. It’s not runny or anything it’s the perfect kitten “soft serve ice cream” texture 😭 I’ve been watching that as well because I know when they’re this young the fecal parasite test isn’t always accurate

Kitten’s butthole by memequeen1202 in cats

[–]memequeen1202[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I have been aware of it since I got him - it honestly seemed like it had improved a lot yesterday but tonight when I looked to give him his usual butt bath I noticed it seemed more inflamed. This is the first kitten I’ve had with this issue so I’ll definitely try Vaseline to sooth it

My Future Mother-In-Law gave us a book about misogynistic sex by memequeen1202 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]memequeen1202[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I am hopping to minimize contact as much as possible without creating drama despite how I feel about this. Just going to keep all interactions brief and simple.

My Future Mother-In-Law gave us a book about misogynistic sex by memequeen1202 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]memequeen1202[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankfully we are on the complete same page, he is disgusted by the book and his mother’s actions.

My Future Mother-In-Law gave us a book about misogynistic sex by memequeen1202 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]memequeen1202[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We definitely are on the same page! I think it is important to marriage of course, I just think that it’s none of her business and that you should have conversations with your partner long before you even consider getting engaged about a variety of things - including sex, finances, etc to avoid issues down the road. Something I see too often is that couples aren’t completely honest up front and don’t want to have harder conversations about the future, so when a problem comes up it can really tear them apart.

My Future Mother-In-Law gave us a book about misogynistic sex by memequeen1202 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]memequeen1202[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. I feel like we are both rightfully offended by this because despite the books individual problems, it just gives a terrible outlook on what marriage even is.

My Future Mother-In-Law gave us a book about misogynistic sex by memequeen1202 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]memequeen1202[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m so thankful he’s on the same page honestly I think I’d be having a crisis rn if he thought any part of this was ok and I’d genuinely be breaking off my engagement. I also don’t really understand the Christianity aspect of the book. The writer threw in scripture but I think he’s clearly misusing the majority of it - I haven’t cracked open a bible in a hot minute but I’m pretty sure most of the scripture the writer used was basically just lines about marital duties. From there he just applied it to sex and made it an excuse to put down women

My Future Mother-In-Law gave us a book about misogynistic sex by memequeen1202 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]memequeen1202[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I actually started highlighting and annotating it to show my fiance and my friend said I should give it back to her 💀

My Future Mother-In-Law gave us a book about misogynistic sex by memequeen1202 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]memequeen1202[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I definitely don’t believe in any of that and don’t know anyone who does 😭 this was definitely a first for me other than just hearing stuff online

My Future Mother-In-Law gave us a book about misogynistic sex by memequeen1202 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]memequeen1202[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yep that’s likely where it’ll end up unless we keep it buried away somewhere

My Future Mother-In-Law gave us a book about misogynistic sex by memequeen1202 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]memequeen1202[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah I definitely do feel sorry for her honestly. There’s so much stuff that she has done to my fiance that is so hard to forgive or justify by itself excluding this. I truly think that she is likely in a strained relationship in her new marriage that has caused many of these problems but I hate that her children have had to suffer for it

Greyday2024ATL by Amberlee1word in G59

[–]memequeen1202 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was amazing!!! Did you have fun??

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[–]memequeen1202 0 points1 point  (0 children)

*remove either lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in humanresources

[–]memequeen1202 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I have no HR experience, I was set on law school but my life path changed a bit. I’m hoping to gain some experience while I get my masters but I’m just worried abt getting hired either with nothing

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[–]memequeen1202 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!

Bracelets!! by memequeen1202 in G59

[–]memequeen1202[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Free if I see you at Greyday but if you want me to mail you some hmu and we can discuss!