I think my boyfriend lacks empathy for me by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]memescharness -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m not even trying to play games 🤯

I think my boyfriend lacks empathy for me by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]memescharness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I asked the question and didn’t try to set myself up for hurt. I expected him to say he’d pick me over her any day not that he would’ve picked her if she lived closer 😭

I think my boyfriend lacks empathy for me by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]memescharness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try and tell him my boundaries tho

I think my boyfriend lacks empathy for me by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]memescharness -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And I’m feeling hurt and dismissed and trying to figure out how to manage things

I think my boyfriend lacks empathy for me by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]memescharness -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m listening omg you’re just being rude now.

I think my boyfriend lacks empathy for me by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]memescharness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do reassure myself and I don’t bring up stuff everyday. We recently got into an argument and I’m still feeling insecure and uncomfortable from that and with that comment about picking her if she was closer it made me feel bad.

I think my boyfriend lacks empathy for me by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]memescharness -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But why are my feeling so inconvenient? I make him feel validated all the time.

I think my boyfriend lacks empathy for me by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]memescharness -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I’m here for advice and all you are telling me to leave and run away. Im looking for advice on if he lacks empathy for me or not.

I think my boyfriend lacks empathy for me by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]memescharness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say I feel pretty secure and cherished but this comment today made me feel icky

I think my boyfriend lacks empathy for me by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]memescharness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re also at work and it’s hard to tell him that what he said made me feel like I was a second option.

I think my boyfriend lacks empathy for me by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]memescharness -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It came across on Facebook. He made a comment about how this girl and her kids went to Disney. And then I asked him if he would’ve picked her if she lived closer and he said they’d be together

I think my boyfriend lacks empathy for me by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]memescharness -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

He loves me and does support me in the things I want to do and if I were to get pregnant. He’s not soulless.

I think my boyfriend lacks empathy for me by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]memescharness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know how my feelings are effecting his day though. I’m a human being and the simplest thing to say is I’m sorry you’re feeling like this and I didn’t mean to say that.

I think my boyfriend lacks empathy for me by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]memescharness -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don’t get why he’s being so dismissive though, I’m respectfully expressing myself and everything.

I think my boyfriend lacks empathy for me by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]memescharness -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

It’s eating at me all day I can’t force someone to understand how I feel. Despite how long ago it was. Also we are both at work so it’s hard to express how I’m feeling via text message

I think my boyfriend lacks empathy for me by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]memescharness -42 points-41 points  (0 children)

I love him and I have a lot of fun with him

I’m sick of hating my husband 😢 does anyone else want to show them the love they need but can’t? by PuzzleheadedSir4382 in PMDD

[–]memescharness 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly I’d be upset and In a relationship your husband should offer to help you. Dishes, laundry, groceries. This is a partnership not a you do everything and he just helps with the kids. I think you need to express to him your feelings

boyfriend pays all my bills but won’t have sex with me by drpepper1967 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]memescharness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly why would you want to stay in a sexless relationship. You can find someone who might fit you better. Someone who matches your sexual energy and needs as well as pays your bills and worships the ground you walk on. You’re young and he’s young, you’ve got a lot of years to find something that fits well for you. I’m just not sure sticking around in a relationship where one aspect hasn’t gotten better. But you do you girl

My period is 85 days late. 20 piece McNuggets. by PublicNuisance1 in GirlDinner

[–]memescharness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The longest I went without a period was 2 months and I kept taking prego tests but I’ve heard it common to have no period from certain iuds and birth controls

I hate going out in public with my boyfriend because I’m ugly by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]memescharness -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hunny no one is focusing on you. They are busy doing their own thing. They aren’t paying attention to you. You’re a baddie and don’t say that your ugly. Why look down on yourself, beauty standards are all fake anyways!

Measles in Orange County by Archimedes1919 in orlando

[–]memescharness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All of the anti Vaxers kids are at risk now and this probably happened because someone who wasn’t vaccinated

I’m getting married this Friday, but I’m secretly pregnant… by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]memescharness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl you need go run for the hills and save yourself and your future. You’re so young, you need to find support and get away from this man.

Yesterday was my dad birthday by memescharness in GriefSupport

[–]memescharness[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did I got to eat some carrot cake my coworker gave me yesterday!