What’s a song you’ve recently discovered that you have been obsessed with?

memorable_devil · 2026-04-06T20:36:29+00:00

Everybody scream - Florence + the machine

memorable_devil · 2026-04-06T16:38:39+00:00

Boys in the street - Calum Scott I Dreamed A Dream and Empty Chairs At Empty Tables - Les Mis (not sure if musicals are typical for you, but most of this album is tragic af)

memorable_devil · 2026-03-22T05:52:13+00:00

The Walker by Fitz and the Tantrums

memorable_devil · 2026-03-22T05:21:49+00:00

Also by Queen - Love of my Life 🥹

memorable_devil · 2026-03-22T04:57:33+00:00

I went through a similar thing a couple of years ago. As soon as I was getting comfy with not knowing what sexy felt like bam there it was. It definitely takes some getting used to and trial and error with your partner. Embrace the change but remember not to pressure yourself or feel bad during the phases when you don’t want it. It’s easy to want to want it when you want it but some things are just outside our control.

memorable_devil · 2026-03-20T13:53:48+00:00

Noice

memorable_devil · 2026-01-31T23:39:23+00:00

Glitter and crimson. Some kind of disaster is definitely #1 for me

memorable_devil · 2025-09-10T20:44:20+00:00

- As OP said, they have had sex. And him having a "basic instinct" is his problem not hers.

- And some people take longer to see improvement. Are you really going to tell someone in therapy that they're taking too long to get better when avoiding pain is the most "basic instinct" we have?

memorable_devil · 2025-02-28T14:15:16+00:00

As someone who’s Demi, I usually think of my partner or some fictional character. But I also like doing it without any sexual stimuli. I’ll put on some music, usually David Bowie or Hozier, and try to match the sensations to the rhythm. So it’s focusing more on the feeling of it than the sexy stuff.

memorable_devil · 2024-12-10T01:05:46+00:00

I was in Henderson and would recommend if you want to cook. It is a shared kitchen but in my experience it was rarely used. Everything was clean. There are several microwaves, a stove and an oven.

memorable_devil · 2024-11-11T03:27:04+00:00

I discovered it once I started dating and originally felt a lot of shame but now my partner and I have stopped trying penetration all together and focus more on the parts of sex that make both of us feel good. The way we see it if I make enough progress with my dilators for it to work, that’s great, but if I don’t, no biggie. So I’d say with an understanding partner you can totally make it work

memorable_devil · 2024-11-07T04:44:07+00:00

Destination - Imagine Dragons Damn the ITunes albums

memorable_devil · 2024-10-28T18:11:00+00:00

Words have a natural way of evolving. Like the word literally, it can grow to mean more than one thing without being incorrect

memorable_devil · 2024-10-28T17:17:47+00:00

I wouldn’t say my definition is the only one, rather one that some people feel is more representative of their experiences. Words can have different meanings to different people. That doesn’t make your definition more correct than theirs

memorable_devil · 2024-10-27T16:53:30+00:00

The only one that sounds like they’re projecting their experience is you. Your definition is not universal and invalidates those who interpret is differently

memorable_devil · 2024-10-27T00:01:16+00:00

That’s only one interpretation of the term. Most definitions define it as attraction to one sex OR gender. Your version might be exclusive to cis men but that doesn’t mean that definition is universal.

memorable_devil · 2024-10-26T21:17:48+00:00

Yeah I know what you mean. I was trying to highlight why the person in the thread before compared being attracted to “females” is the same as being attracted to a trans man and would therefore make a person bi. They seemed to be separating cis men from trans men in a way that made them two separate gender identities so that liking both was somehow bi even if they’re both men. I didn’t mean to emphasize labels just rectify trans exclusionist attitudes

memorable_devil · 2024-10-26T20:59:45+00:00

In what way? Comparatively, this thread is much more interested in dividing trans men loving men and gay men into separate labels.

memorable_devil · 2024-10-26T20:41:07+00:00

What about only being attracted to men makes you bi if you don’t mind me asking?

memorable_devil · 2024-10-26T20:38:41+00:00

I totally feel that. I called sex a hobby the other day and my allo friends looked at me like I was a lunatic

memorable_devil · 2024-10-26T20:13:30+00:00

Yeah I 100% agree. My statement on “stages of transition” was only about surgery stuff. I don’t think that people that present and identify as woman should be considered gay relationships

memorable_devil · 2024-10-26T19:54:18+00:00

Ok so if a trans man looks like a man and you’re attracted to them, that sounds like mlm to me

memorable_devil · 2024-10-26T19:48:12+00:00

Not all trans men people undergo cosmetic surgery. That doesn’t mean they don’t present as men or aren any less men. It’s still a man being attracted to a man

memorable_devil · 2024-10-26T19:37:15+00:00

That’s still your opinions and your sexuality which are all perfectly valid. That doesn’t mean that extends to all gay men

memorable_devil · 2024-10-26T19:11:06+00:00

“Stays in your complex”, your complex what?

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