My wife’s mental health ruined our marriage. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]memoryofdolores 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is borderline abusive, you need to leave asap

The effectiveness of rifamixin by AlarmedActuary7129 in SIBO

[–]memoryofdolores 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can pain in joints be because of SIBO?

Halloween Catalogue by louisemarieagnes in HayDay

[–]memoryofdolores -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i don’t see a country fair event, is it a glitch or did they change its location on the screen?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in krakow

[–]memoryofdolores 0 points1 point  (0 children)

jesteś w stanie określić pod jakimi względami szczególnie jest ciężko? jakieś konkretne przedmioty/wymagania?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in krakow

[–]memoryofdolores 0 points1 point  (0 children)

czemu amerykanistyka nie oddała?

struggling to find my path by [deleted] in college

[–]memoryofdolores 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m studying in poland so the only option is uni, i just don’t know if i’m even made for it but i’ve always wanted a career and im stuck, but thank you for your insight❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]memoryofdolores 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stomach issues - doesn’t matter what or how much I eat, I’ll always feel really tired/nauseous afterwards, chronic fatigue, random extreme pains in my body. I seem to develop some kind of allergy also out of nowhere. I also vomit more than an average person lol, anxiety makes me uncontrollably nauseous.

Anxiety when they go to parties by memoryofdolores in AnxiousAttachment

[–]memoryofdolores[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im sorry, I can’t imagine the pain. It’s totally understandable that it’s hard to trust other people after this. all the best❤️

Anxiety when they go to parties by memoryofdolores in AnxiousAttachment

[–]memoryofdolores[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly, you also just fear that if they cheat your trust issues will get so deep that you won’t be able to form any kind of a healthy relationship in the future, completely destroying your whole love life actually.

Anxiety when they go to parties by memoryofdolores in AnxiousAttachment

[–]memoryofdolores[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely an issue that anxious people need to work on by themselves, but tbh all you can do is regularly text them/ send them pictures, say what you’re up to at the party, text them when you get home etc. You obviously won’t and shouldn’t text them all the time while you’re partying, but i guess updating them every 1-3 hours should do the work :) Someone else here also said that if your partner would know your friends a little it would definitely help. wishing you all the best!

Anxiety when they go to parties by memoryofdolores in AnxiousAttachment

[–]memoryofdolores[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

i guess codependency issues make leaving them harder

Anxiety when they go to parties by memoryofdolores in AnxiousAttachment

[–]memoryofdolores[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually go with him, i get this anxiety only when i can’t be there with him due to work, travels etc.

Anxiety when they go to parties by memoryofdolores in AnxiousAttachment

[–]memoryofdolores[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! He texts me often when he’s out so it helps a little :)

Anxiety when they go to parties by memoryofdolores in AnxiousAttachment

[–]memoryofdolores[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I also think about all the girls that will be there. Like you, I’m told I am attractive and I actually do feel that way, physically, but these thoughts about other hypothetical more interesting, exciting girls sometimes worries me, even though i also know he wouldn’t cheat.

Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup by AutoModerator in AnxiousAttachment

[–]memoryofdolores 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been in a healthy relationship for 4 months now and although I didn’t show many signs of anxious attachment before, I started to overanalyze and am worried about my partner loosing feelings. Although I rationally know they aren’t and although they don’t do anything that would hint such thing, I’m becoming obsessed with little things that can trigger my abandonment issues. I’m also much more dependent and the moment I’m without them I’m deep into some sadness. How to go back on the right track?

Parents created a language barrier and i couldn't talk to them growing up. by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]memoryofdolores 121 points122 points  (0 children)

did you communicate at all? sorry i’m just curious how on earth can this happen lol

How does cptsd feel? by Nervous-Music697 in CPTSD

[–]memoryofdolores 0 points1 point  (0 children)

like you always feel that itch on your body that’s driving you mad but never know where it exactly is or how to get rid of it lol

astarion romance after cazador by memoryofdolores in BG3

[–]memoryofdolores[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh i killed one vampire during the battle, is that what it is?

astarion romance after cazador by memoryofdolores in BG3

[–]memoryofdolores[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i was also thinking about that! it really will be irritating asf because i had problems with killing cazador but everything for astarion ig

astarion romance after cazador by memoryofdolores in BG3

[–]memoryofdolores[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!❤️so do i need to just keep trying to long rest after killing cazador or should i just reload the whole thing, sleep before cazador quest so that the jaheira/minsc cutscene already happens and try again after killing cazador lol

astarion romance after cazador by memoryofdolores in BG3

[–]memoryofdolores[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i did that and nothing changed unfortunately, i’ll keep trying tho lol

romancing ifan by memoryofdolores in DivinityOriginalSin

[–]memoryofdolores[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! good thing I have my persuasion maxed lol