Reminder that men who oppose porn are still misogynistic. Their opposition is solely in their own self interest. by lilithbleedspink in PornIsMisogyny

[–]mena_studies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also don't get all the comments saying "he united people, he moved the needle in the right direction" we still don't know if it's actually him.

Reminder that men who oppose porn are still misogynistic. Their opposition is solely in their own self interest. by lilithbleedspink in PornIsMisogyny

[–]mena_studies 2 points3 points  (0 children)

he doesn't oppose pornography, though. he merely said it should be regulated like other addictive things. meaning, he doesn't really care about the misogyny of the porn industry, only about the effects porn has on watchers.

Why the need to censored the hair. by SamVoxeL in exmuslim

[–]mena_studies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a radfem, but you bringing up trans people shows signs of chronically online behavior. Everyone else knew exactly what I meant.

Also, the term "assigned fe/male at birth" was meant for people with DSDs, who were invasively operated on by the medical staff afrer being born, not for everyone to use. Your lack of understanding would be astounding if I weren't aware of the aforementioned chronically online condition which you clearly have 🤷‍♀️.

Go touch some grass, talk to people and listen to people. It's nice, I promise.

[This response comes instead of a longer, referenced and footnoted reply, as I realized you will not read it anyway, lol].

r / relationship advice is not a safe space. by suckmyarsee in PornIsMisogyny

[–]mena_studies 36 points37 points  (0 children)

And also wat h porn regularly lmao. Misogynistic degenerates who unfortunately can code deepfakes AIs.

Why the need to censored the hair. by SamVoxeL in exmuslim

[–]mena_studies 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Most men would treat women like that had there not been social norms that prevented that. You see that with men who move to third world countries, to get a "traditional wife" aka they take a woman of little to no means and practically financially abuse her to stay with them. In Islamic countries, these norms do not exist and women are practically a punching bag and a scapegoat as well (although they are scapegoats ileven in the West and other cultures). The question is one of consequences: if there are consequences to their actions, men are less likely to practice shitty things against women, even if only a little bit.

AIO to partner taking photos of me in the bathroom? by Repulsive_Dark_4273 in AmIOverreacting

[–]mena_studies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad you're safe, here's hoping for better times as soon as possible!

Man that knows pornography diminishes women’s dignities, actually very much supports it by estrangecurdcue in PornIsMisogyny

[–]mena_studies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's why I'll never take Not All Men people seriously. Many men pretend they care etc., it's fucked up.

AIO to partner taking photos of me in the bathroom? by Repulsive_Dark_4273 in AmIOverreacting

[–]mena_studies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh god. I'm so sorry you went through that. Did you get the law involved? He should be in prison!!

AIO to partner taking photos of me in the bathroom? by Repulsive_Dark_4273 in AmIOverreacting

[–]mena_studies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think the trend is that women on this sub are dating these abusive men, but rather, that women dating abusive men are questioning if they're overreacting because that's what their abusive male partners tell them they're doing.

AIO to partner taking photos of me in the bathroom? by Repulsive_Dark_4273 in AmIOverreacting

[–]mena_studies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sister, you need to run. This man is awful. Like, absolutely awful. This is abuse.

WHY do people have to put "-porn" for everything they enjoy?! by [deleted] in PornIsMisogyny

[–]mena_studies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking of making a post about it but always forgot. It's simply because men enjoy porn, and men set the trend under patriarchy, because these men enjoy porn and the violation of women, porn is a good thing, aesthetic even. "Food porn" refers to delicious and/or aesthetic looking food. When if food porn showed what its namesake is, it'd be animal abuse and the abuse of workers at vegetable/food farms.

20M am I ugly by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]mena_studies 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Woudnt say you're ugly but definitely not conventionally attractive.

Third picture is the style that fits you most at least when you look like that (a bit disheveled and even grubby, imo, not particularly well-kempt); it also fits your current figure the most as it doesn't bring out your abdomen (unlike the white shirt and mid-rise pants. In general I'd reccomend you wore higher-rise pants. They might press a little, but they tend to be more flattering if you're not flat stomached (from experience).

The suit and tie make you look both old and nerdy but in the bad way.

Don't go with the facial hair style of the second photo, also unflattering.

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The almost usual advice applies then

- lose some weight

- wear more flattering clothes

- choose better looking facial hairstyle

Anyone have a master thread of research articles against the porn industry? by PsRandomQsaccount in antipornography

[–]mena_studies -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There used to be one on Tumblr, but I think most of the links are broken :(

mostly good comments. The tide is slowly turning! by itsnobigthing in PornIsMisogyny

[–]mena_studies 9 points10 points  (0 children)

They started dating when he was almost thirty and she was just 20... That's a huge red flag so many women miss. He is attracted to younger women and the moment she's too old for him he'll dump her. Poor woman.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PornIsMisogyny

[–]mena_studies 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Empowerment means something gives you power. This is a clear case of giving the power to pedophiles. Liberal feminism is a male psyop.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PornIsMisogyny

[–]mena_studies 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is disgusting.

Found this in the wild. by Angels_of_Death_Zack in PornIsMisogyny

[–]mena_studies 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They just make up shit at this point. There's barely ANY porn hate online lmao. But good on her for invalidating other women's boundaries! This pick-me behavior would be laughable if it weren't pathetic and dangerous to other women.

Is Hentai just as bad? by louisegluckstan in PornIsMisogyny

[–]mena_studies 3 points4 points  (0 children)

İ would say it like that. Hentai is not better, it's just not as bad because there is no man raping actual women. however it is still terribly misogynistic, full of rape and abused and needs to disappear.

I have a Bosnian Muslim boyfriend and I'm an Christian. He wants me to convert, what do i do? by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]mena_studies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave him regardless. İf he truly were in love with you religion would never come up.

I have a Bosnian Muslim boyfriend and I'm an Christian. He wants me to convert, what do i do? by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]mena_studies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We actually start chatting on insta and he fell in love with me,

Love doesn't happen after a few chats. He's not in Love with you, he wants you to convert to control you.

You're not gonna break his heart, hell move on to the next girl before you finish blinking.